u could also just not be a cunt
u could also just not be a cunt
If someone comes to you and asks you not to use a specific word of phrase and it's not that big of an ask of you, fine. It's varying levels of tolerance.
Indoctrinating kids into misogyny
Sure you can, according to some people I've spoken to the Jews have been in power for three thousand years.
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I'm mixed on this. It's not unreasonable to avoid words that people can associate with being a slur, especially if it's harmful.
However, I do think it's unreasonable to expect words to mean the same thing to everyone in every language. It's one of the reasons "Latinx" frustrates me so much. On one hand it's not a big deal, and in the other hand it was propagated by white folks who think it's a big deal because of how non-English languages are structured.
It feels like virtue signaling.
Latinx is particularly egregious to me because virtually zero people in the actual Latin American community like it.
If an actual Latin American asked me to use it I would be surprised but accept it. If a white person got mad at me for NOT using it I would laugh my ass off.
while i hate Latinx in defense of woke white people i've never had one tell me i should be using Latinx, it's more what they use to try and be trans sensitive
different than using gendered language to insult people thereby casually reinforcing widespread cultural misogyny
mostly i just wish the misogyny made more sense. as betty once said
being a pussy means you're weak when they can take an absolute beating and pop out 10 lbs kids and shit whereas growing some balls means you're tough when they can't handle a light tap without making their owners want to puke smh get it together linguistic misogynyWhy do people say, ‘Grow some balls’? Balls are weak and sensitive. If you really wanna get tough, grow a vagina. Those things really take a pounding.
you speak some French no? like all the Romance languages Spanish uses the masculine ending for both mixed groups and male only groups. Latino is masculine but can refer to both male and gender neutral / mixed gender groups, Latina specifically for the ladies. it's not really gender neutral it's the masculine form overriding the feminine form. chéri vs chérie.
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Technically it is. I don't know a single person in my family who is aboard the train of X.
Myself personally I think it's fine to be an all-encompassing term for sensitivity but it feels more like an appropriated term versus appropriate.
It's akin to saying chicxs or gatx. It just doesn't work outside of someone who clearly doesn't speak Spanish trying to make it work.
If anything an argument should be made that romantic languages are inherently paternalistic in that they don't rely necessarily on pronouns to delineate context and gender as much as English and are male-heavy in default mode.