Hollywood: Arbitrarily Sexual Assault whack-a-mole (II)

[Salodin]

Just read the first "testimonial" from one of the victims and...I'm sorry it's about the weakest shit I've ever heard (note I've never heard of this person before and never played those games)

Spoiler: show

Ngl this kinda shit is why people don't believe all women

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[Karbuncle]

Shayy was in a relationship with an Asexual woman who gave him permission to get his sexual attention elsewhere... but was upset he was getting his sexual attention elsewhere?

Is that the cliff notes summary? I'm sorry but I dont want to read 262 pages of internet relationship-dumping drama.

Edit: I guess somewhere in the 262 page dump is some evidence of him getting with underaged people as per the original headline posted? If so, yah thats way worse.

[Tyrath]

We need to investigate this youtuber to groomer pipeline

[archibaldcrane]

Ngl this kinda shit is why people don't believe all women

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I mean

I believe her

It's just, I don't care or think anything she complained about is a big deal at all?

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[Salodin]

We shouldn't have to take allegations with a grain of salt, but when she says sexual assault I think of something different than what she's saying

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[Melena]

Thought in what you posted he also grabbed her crotch and started rubbing her before asking if she really can't feel anything and then laughing about it

The other stuff yeah is weak, but grabbing her like that if it's true would be sexual assault

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[Mertron]

idk who this is and i ain’t readin all that

[Meresgi]

Just read the first "testimonial" from one of the victims and...I'm sorry it's about the weakest shit I've ever heard (note I've never heard of this person before and never played those games)

Spoiler: show

The rubbing their crotch unprovoked and making a joke of it totally depends on the mood but could see the bordering SA. All the rest is typical stupid shit you see in poly relationships where they give their partner a pass due to whatever reason and then get all pissy when their partner is out there swimming in dick and/or pussy and don't want to "cause a scene" by talking it over because they know they gave them the rights to do whatever they want. You don't get to tell your partner to just go do their thing and not talk to you about it, and then get pissy if they slept with 20+ ppl.

[Tyrath]

We shouldn't have to take allegations with a grain of salt, but when she says sexual assault I think of something different than what she's saying

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Maybe you need to redefine sexual assault for yourself.

[thetruepandagod]

Thought in what you posted he also grabbed her crotch and started rubbing her before asking if she really can't feel anything and then laughing about it

The other stuff yeah is weak, but grabbing her like that if it's true would be sexual assault

while self admittedly cuddling and being their partner. SA is a fuckin stretch considering they didn't say anything and he stopped of his own accord once he received no positive feedback

[Salodin]

while self admittedly cuddling and being their partner. SA is a fuckin stretch considering they didn't say anything and he stopped of his own accord once he received no positive feedback

Mhmm.

Maybe you need to redefine sexual assault for yourself.

Nah, his partner getting jealous of what she gave him permission to do, getting intimate with him anyways, then he tries to get to 3rd base and immediately stopping and not pressuring her to continue when she reconfirmed her position. This is not assault. It's two adults sending mixed signals, misunderstanding, and then moving on like responsible people.

Being unreasonable about this is why people take allegations with a huge grain of salt.

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[Salodin]

Don't tell me it was unprovoked sexual touching when she concedes she CONTINUOUSLY asked about his sexual contacts even though she's asexual and gave him permission to sleep around (???). Then she's heavily cuddling him? That's called mixed signals. Is she asexual? Or does she have zero libido? IDK, idc, but it seems she's confused herself if she is in a poly relationship but upset he's sleeping around.

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[Qalbert]

there is no excuse for violating (what was presented as) a pretty clear boundary. "yeah you said you were asexual so I'm gonna 'test' that and laugh about it" is fucking trash behavior. if someone says "I don't like to be touched this way" and you go "are you sure though" and start touching them that way you're a piece of shit, sorry, it doesn't matter that they were ok with a different type of physical contact.

[archibaldcrane]

Trying to initiate sex with your partner while cuddling in bed together once in SIX years and stopping when they are unresponsive is not a big deal.

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[Qalbert]

I'm not saying string them up for it, but there is never justification for crossing a (again, at least as presented, clearly explained) boundary and violating someone's bodily autonomy like that with no communication, that's shitty behavior.

[Demosthenes]

I ain't reading all that shit. Rubbing a person's genitals regardless of how jealous they've been about you fucking others is a poopoo move when they've told you repeatedly that it's a no go area. Jealously is a real but separate thing and people get jealous about shit they don't care about all the time! Also mixed messages aren't a thing when you have a mouth to confirm shit and ears to listen. Still, I ain't reading all that.

[Salodin]

Good thing she used her mouth to say "no thx" and he immediately stopped like a sexual assaulter is want to do. You have to sincerely throw away ALL context to label that specific incident sexual assault.

Can't speak to any other allegation regarding him, but also haven't seen any other allegation.

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[Zealot]

Yeah I read that one part, not the whole 200 whatever page letter from multiple other people, but even in saying 90% of this is weaksauce jealousy that unwanted touching is pretty cut and dry creep ass behavior.

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[Qalbert]

salodin, I'm saying it's common fucking decency that someone shouldn't have to tell you to stop doing something you already told them not to do, this is kindergarten level basic behavioral type shit. I'm not going to give a person kudos for stopping something they knew better than to start. Intimate relationships aren't a "easierto ask for forgiveness than permission" situation.

[thetruepandagod]

you've never been with someone who continuously changes their stance on things and how they feel leaving it entirely for you to figure it out on your own and it shows. also im jealous