I picked it up yesterday, played 4 hours with my brother. Got to say it is feeling more enjoyable than 3 ever did, I really appreciate the open world more than i thought I would. The quests and humor are landing better for me, the guns are fun, though theres a serious "Samey" problem in like, the first 10 levels, the game seems to drip feed new weapon types very slowly as you level up, which makes sense to keep the game new, but like, the first 5 levels your inventory will be filled with the same Pistol and SMG you've gotten 100 other times but with slightly different parts.
I'm just picking a character (The Tediore Suit guy) and playing, no guides for optimal builds, no cheese shit, just going to experience it vanilla the first time through, and we're playing on hard mode. So far, its been a blast.
Also, I did turn my graphic settings on Medium since the vast majority of my computer is probably 10 years old at this point, save the graphics card which was a recent hand-me-down from my brother and is relatively modern (Last 3 years) and for the most part the game is running smoothly for me. There are slow downs/stutters when my brother rejoins the game (i've been "Disconnected from the Servers"/Immediately reconnected a couple times while playing), but I've never crashed or anything.
He bought it on PS5 and is doing fine too. We played for 4 hours and aside from him being booted from my game because I "disconnected", its been smooth sailing.
If I have the game on anything higher than Medium at my hardware, it runs like ass though, which is why I immediately turned it to medium when the gameplay started cause it was NOTICEABLY ass on "High Settings" which is what it defaulted too.
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