I suppose it depends on how often this LS expects you to do shit for them. If I log in every day and have to help them camp something or w/e then F that. There are some days when all I want to do is fish or level my drg in the dunes without getting some guilt trip or point deduction.
Since these rules are clearly stated and known to new applicants then they really can't complain can they? Personally, I would do what many others on this thread suggested and get another LS. The LS doesn't pay my RL monthy fees so if they want to boot me because I want to spend a little "me" time the so be it. And I would never "ask for permission" to do so too.
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