... would you tell your mother?

[mrfridays]

IT'S NOT OLD FUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUU UUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUCKING NEWS BECAUSE IT'S A DEVELOPING STORY YOU TARDS

Not really. The story was completely "developed". The only reason its back in the news is that she was released from jail.

[Byrd]

I wouldn't tell anyone... think about it. Ever hear the phrase "Two people can keep a secret if one of them is dead?"

Hypothetically, what happens if you tell one of your boys? It gets out. It gets out a lot faster if you tell your mom. If you tell you dad, he'd probably say something like "Can I hit it? Or I'll call the cops. It ain't fun if your dad can't have none!"

You know?

Either that or perhaps she decided to end the affair and the kid didn't react so well to it, so he told his parents. Thirteen year olds are not terribly well known for their discretion.

[Septimus]

Isn't it funny that there was just a thread complain that it is not illegal for men to be raped by women?

If it were some smoking hot guy having "relations" with a girl, do you honestly think he would have gotten less than a year in jail? And what if it were a smoking hot guy with a boy? Adults who seek out children like that are manipulative and destructive. Or you could always ask that boy whose life Mary Kay Laterno ruined when he finally realizes it.

Woman =/= man on many aspects, especially in psychology. What might cause traumatism to a girl might not do anything for a guy, and I think it need to be considered somehow when it come to judging of an action like that.

I'm not saying it's the best thing for those boys, but you can't really call them victim, unless something that wasn't mentionned happened.

I call bullshit on this. Women, like men, with a normal psychological make up do not seek out 13 year olds for relations. In situations like this the predator almost invariably manipulates the child, even if you do not want to say that it is sexual abuse (because of the straight male ego cannot comprehend this) there is most certainly emotion abuse being perpetrated against the child.

But this would not even be a discussion if it was an unattractive female sexually abusing a boy.

[Kaylia]

I call bullshit on this. Women, like men, with a normal psychological make up do not seek out 13 year olds for relations

If you fail to aknowledge the differences between males and female psychology, it's not my fault. They always existed, and will probably always exist. Sexuality, and the way both deal with it is probably where the biggest difference is.

But this would not even be a discussion if it was an unattractive female sexually abusing a boy.

Not really. While he might not enjoy it, I seriously doubt he will be thraumatized by that. Unless he is forced to do it against his will, I dont see how he could be thraumatized by the event.

Beside, where does it say abuses? As far as I know, the boy was more than willing to do it since he went at her house a few times. You can think what you want, but at 13, a boy know what is sex. I'm not saying it's the best thing for him to have some with a young adult, but to make a drama with it is almost stupid.


Find me 5 case of guys who got thraumatized for having sex with a girl (as long it's not incest), and I will take your point.

[neighbortaru]

Find me 5 case of guys who got thraumatized for having sex with a girl (as long it's not incest), and I will take your point.

Ever see 40 Year Old Virgin?

[Kaylia]

I'm not sure a 40 years old virgin has the right to complain if he is "raped",

[Lordwafik]

Ok look at this one : http://news.ninemsn.com.au/article.aspx?id=89152

That happened a few days ago in Australia.

Proof that if you have boobs, you dont go to jail, well at least in Australia ;D


For those who are too lazy to click :

Teacher avoids jail after sex with teen

A female teacher who had sex three times with a 15-year-old student has escaped being sent to jail.

The South Australian District Court accepted Bridget Mary Nolan, 25, was genuinely remorseful for her crime, despite evidence her teenage victim's life had been destroyed.

Handing down a suspended prison sentence, Judge Gordon Barrett said Nolan's sacking as a teacher, and the considerable media publicity given to her case, had already served as considerable punishment.

"I am entitled to take into account the extent of shame you have already suffered," he said.

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"You have lost your posting and will, in all likelihood, lose your career - while inevitable, that, in your case, is a significant penalty."

Nolan faced a maximum seven years' imprisonment for each of the three convictions for unlawful sexual intercourse.

Her illicit relationship with the boy, who was a student at a country South Australian school where she was employed as a music teacher, started with a spontaneous kiss on a bus at a school camp last year.

Nolan, of Trott Park in suburban Adelaide, later became concerned about the consequences the kiss would have on her career and asked to meet the boy to discuss it.

Instead, they had sex twice.

Weeks later, Nolan again tried to discuss the matter and again the pair had sex.

In a victim impact statement, the boy's mother said the incidents had destroyed her son's life.

She said the boy had previously been an A and B grade student but in a recent English assignment scored just five marks out of 25.

Judge Barrett said the boy had also been wrongly blamed by other school students for Nolan's dismissal.

He sentenced Nolan to two years and four months imprisonment, but suspended the jail term after Nolan entered a $1,000, three-year good behaviour bond.

"Aww will you promise never to have sex with a student again? If you do, we wont send you to jail!"

"k ^^"

[Hirronimus]

Nolan, of Trott Park in suburban Adelaide, later became concerned about the consequences the kiss would have on her career and asked to meet the boy to discuss it.

Instead, they had sex twice.

lol

[SilverBreeze]

Really love the double standard here. It's okay for a female teacher to mess with a male student and get little more than a slap on the wrist, but if a male teacher even looks at a female student wrong, he gets 5-10. I'm not trying to say that either of them is better than the other, the point is, these grown ups are still being involved with these children sexually, and they both deserve the same punishment. I know that yes a male teacher taking advantage of a female student is "worse" but that doesnt mean a female teacher should get a lesser penalty.

[Zigma]

In a victim impact statement, the boy's mother said the incidents had destroyed her son's life.

What bullshit LOL. Her son is forever gonna be "the man" and in high school he's gonna be the kid who had sex with a teacher and that gives him points all over the board.

[mrfridays]

In a victim impact statement, the boy's mother said the incidents had destroyed her son's life.

What bullshit LOL. Her son is forever gonna be "the man" and in high school he's gonna be the kid who had sex with a teacher and that gives him points all over the board.

It will destroy his life; He will have to deal with the fallout of every single one of his future relationships failing.

No matter how long he looks and no matter how much money he spends he will NEVER be able to recapture the un-be-fucking-lievable feeling it is to bang his 28 year-old hot piece-of-ass teacher.

Every woman he hooks up with from now until the day he dies or his dick falls off, will have to live up to that fantasy turned reality.

Good luck ladies! Go get 'em!

[Nirokun!]

Really love the double standard here. It's okay for a female teacher to mess with a male student and get little more than a slap on the wrist, but if a male teacher even looks at a female student wrong, he gets 5-10. I'm not trying to say that either of them is better than the other, the point is, these grown ups are still being involved with these children sexually, and they both deserve the same punishment. I know that yes a male teacher taking advantage of a female student is "worse" but that doesnt mean a female teacher should get a lesser penalty.

so true

just because someone enjoys it, doesnt make it not sexual abuse on the side of the adult (double negative sorry, brain fried)

[Kaylia]

just because someone enjoys it, doesnt make it not sexual abuse on the side of the adult (double negative sorry, brain fried)

Abuse wouldn't be the right term if they both like it

To hurt or injure by maltreatment; ill-use.
To force sexual activity on; rape or molest.
To assail with contemptuous, coarse, or insulting words; revile.
Obsolete. To deceive or trick.

[Starfire]

hehe, my friend's teacher was arrested not that long ago for planning to have sex with a 12yr old girl he met on MySpace but was an undercover cop... lol what an idiot he is

[Lordwafik]

hehe, my friend's teacher was arrested not that long ago for planning to have sex with a 12yr old girl he met on MySpace but was an undercover cop... lol what an idiot he is

12 year old cops, gees, the police really are getting anyone they can!


sarcasm you twat!!

[levish]

I'm up on the fence on this one. I can't think of sex at 13 being good for someone even a guy and with a hot teacher.

That being said, @_@!

She's hot

[Ankiseth]

on Maury yesterday they had a girl getting a DNA test to check her baby's father. She was pregnant when she was 11 and the guy was 13.

Turned out it wasn't his.

[Septimus]

on Maury yesterday they had a girl getting a DNA test to check her baby's father. She was pregnant when she was 11 and the guy was 13.

Turned out it wasn't his.

Wow, and on tomorrow's Maury, he is going to interview the Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse because obviously it is time for the human race to move over and make room for cockroaches. We have had an interesting run, but obviously we are just wasting oxygen now.