Simple answer to this thread is get whatever you can get.
Togi is better but more expensive and risky
Osode is decent, easier to get and more versitile in a way, but honestly for melee's 10str/dex/whatever isn't going to help much when you can have so much better (acc+atk=meat, oh I love you). If I had Togi to use I would, but I don't so I live with Osode.
Use whatever you can get and be grateful for it, if you can get Togi though I suggest that.
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