Do you have a girlfriend?

[Ankiseth]

omg you're actually turning Odon gay @@;

[Parshath]

im not that kind of person who can have friends with benefits.. im the person that stumbles into caring too much...

I agree with this part. I really kinda get caught up sometimes... There are situations where I really should only consider a girl friend as just a friend. But I let things get the best of me and start to have feelings for a girl, when I really shouldn't. Generally I just try my best to keep a friendship between a girl and myself as just that, but as I've only had a few girlfriends, I sometimes just want something to fill that void.

[Odon]

omg you're actually turning Odon gay @@;

lol, my bestfriend in ffxi is gay and hits on me all the time. if anyone were to make me turn, it would be him.

[Nirokun!]

If my approval rating from guys was 1/10th what i get from girls, i'd be sooooo happy;; but sadly, im stuck (although its not terrible, they're good friends) with women who like me, its just kinda awkward (i cant spell that word for the life of me) having them feel that way about you, and not being able to reciprocate ;(

Really, i dont look... the most looking i do is at the beginning of a new semester, to see who's around... but that lasts like ...3 days max (its really not a looks thing, just ...i dunno ). After that, im just like "Maybe next year... /sigh"...

My short term goal is to make it into nursing school (one more year!! - i'll have to settle down where i'll go to school) and pray some nice guys go there... or just work myself into the ground, and pray money can buy me happiness ._.

boys are the only thing i get really emo about, but goddamnit, i turned 20 the other day, and i've never had anything close to a boyfriend ; ; the closest is a straight guy (him lol) trying to manage a friendship with a gay guy (thats me!) who loves him (the straight guy again) but doesnt want to make it look like there is any hope of a relationship...

i dunno.. i've pretty much given up my hopes and dreams of relationship-happiness T-T

(although i do hold onto the one where Mr. Right turns the corner and SLAMS into me.... THATS GOD TELLING YOU TO GET A MAN lol)

[Nirokun!]

awwwwww Odon! you're like the guy i like, and im like your friend

(he's said the same thing about me lol)

((((SHHH PRAY HE DOESNT READ THIS LOL))))

[Parshath]

Who'd have thought there would be this kind of thread on BG forums. I'm absolutely dumbfounded - people spilling their views and emotions on relationships on BG forums, home of the most evil, brutal and just down right meanest people on the internet.

EDIT: But on a more serious note, I hope things work out Niro. I can imagine how difficult it must be to find a decent guy, as you actually have to find a guy, then find out if he's gay or not without scaring him away and ruining a friendship... orz

[Odon]

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niro :<

[Milks]

I'm a firm believer that you CAN be friends with someone, after having more than a friendship. And as for the "Oh let's just be friends" It's probably just a way to say "Oh you're good as a friend, but you're not someone I would date." I wouldn't know, cause I don't have boys chasing me to try it out on, or ever had a boyfriend at that, so no.

Nah, I got a backbone lol.

Hmm, anyone ever get the 'i always pictured us as friends, i was always afraid that if we dated that it would ruin our friendship if we broke up, i'm sorry' speech? lol

EDIT: And the geeky girls around here are either lesbians, or so fucking annoying that I'd rather shoot myself than be with them.

Hmmm I wonder why? All the guys are chasing after the other girls. Not all geeky girls are ugly or wear huge glasses. They're lesbians because geeks need dick too, and no one gave them any, so they found an alernative =p

I find dorky girls to be ALOT hotter then the cheerleader-esque types.


Dorky girls are smart, cute, funny, in most cases.



Not to mention I'm a dork myself, so meh.



<3 Dorks.

Meh, I don't really have a preference what "group" the girl is put in, whether shes a goth, some ghetto wannabe, hillbilly, whatever, as long as I like to be around them. And I've met people in all categories that I've really enjoyed being around, and thats what matters to me. lol

[Nirokun!]

Niro what are you looking for in a guy?

(i didnt see this, so sorry if i triple post lol)

well... to me... its hard to ask that question..

each person is unique, and what i like about one person, i may not find in another...

Its really a personality, the interaction is what i want the most... Looks? nothing special, big dumb face i could love (*'-') smile that makes me (not necessarily other people) melt it wouldnt be anything obvious.. You love someone because of who they are, because its them, and not anyone else. I dunno, good conversation...

i guess i can come up with 3 blanket things i want in a guy:

1) taller than me - i dunno, i like to look up, its romantic (*'-')
2) darker than me - dont ask lol
3) man - not a woman... you should know what this means lol

granted, those 3 things probably wouldnt matter if i already established some form of tight emotional connection with the person i guess

i used to have certain restrictions of my interests in men... until i found out those characteristics that would have weeded the guy out that i liked... existed in him.... so i didnt mind, and actually find them rather attractive
(if thats confusing, im sorry, im just trying not to get too specific and give anything away lol)

I was talking to a friend, and he made me realize something I want in a man (something he wanted in a woman lol): someone who challenges me.

Someone who can catch me on my shit, someone who can tell me "No.", someone who looks out for me when i dont look out for myself. I want that in a man...

[Nirokun!]

Who'd have thought there would be this kind of thread on BG forums. I'm absolutely dumbfounded - people spilling their views and emotions on relationships on BG forums, home of the most evil, brutal and just down right meanest people on the internet.

EDIT: But on a more serious note, I hope things work out Niro. I can imagine how difficult it must be to find a decent guy, as you actually have to find a guy, then find out if he's gay or not without scaring him away and ruining a friendship... orz

BG forums is a nice place i think, just need a thoughtful topic that has nothing to do with the game, and people can relax and share what they think about life and the world THEY live in~ (*'-')

on your edit: Sums up what every gay guy has to go through :/ (well, unless you're a whoreslut, who just goes to the club and dances on the guy you think is hot, and has meaningless sex with him afterwards, that develops into a hollow relationship.. then thats different )

[Milks]

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Niro what are you looking for in a guy?

(i didnt see this, so sorry if i triple post lol)

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nah, its not a triple post because i stuck a post in there. :D

[Map]

online girlfriends don't count. that's mithra's a man anyways.

[Nirokun!]

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niro :<

pictures? roster section lol

[Odon]

Wtf, niro your cute :<
(Yes I'm a straight guy that can admit other guys are good looking)

[Lockecole]

Who'd have thought there would be this kind of thread on BG forums. I'm absolutely dumbfounded - people spilling their views and emotions on relationships on BG forums, home of the most evil, brutal and just down right meanest people on the internet.

lol QFT. I swear, I go to other forums/message boards...and I'm like "wtf these people get along...what's wrong with them?"
I think it's really just FFXI as a whole, and anything involving it, drama follows, and in turn the worst in people come out. It's like a constant war, everyone's hate and bigotries come crawling out. Blame Square-Enix for making a game that's so hardcore that people lose all sense of humanity when it comes to it.

[Milks]

Wtf, niro your cute :<
(Yes I'm a straight guy that can admit other guys are good looking)

Yes, Niro is pimp.

[Nirokun!]

Wtf, niro your cute :<
(Yes I'm a straight guy that can admit other guys are good looking)

You can be my spokesman. Now find nice boys, and introduce me to them..

NOWAIT... I dont trust guys that i know are gay and looking for someone >_> im weird like that, they have to sneak up to me! i guess i want them to like me as a person before they like me as a bf? i dunno, it just seems like it would work out/feel better, knowing the person on the other side liked me for me, and not to get anything (you know what i mean) >.> :X

[SilverBreeze]

I hope I don't make you feel bad swooning over you Niro haha, it's just seems like the coolest and cutest guys always seem out of reach :O

And Odon, I think its respectable that you're confident enough in your sexuality to call another guy good looking, because unfortunantly, most men don't have that capability.

[Nirokun!]

I hope I don't make you feel bad swooning over you Niro haha, it's just seems like the coolest and cutest guys always seem out of reach :O

And Odon, I think its respectable that you're confident enough in your sexuality to call another guy good looking, because unfortunantly, most men don't have that capability.

no no no, you're fine, just fine woman are like, the acceptable, non-dangerous ego-boost that you dont tell anyone about (and i agree, the sweetest, nicest guys... want children and are just straight, so horrible for me lol)

yes, i love Odon, and men like Odon :D you should be a spokesman (NOT FOR ME THIS TIME :D) and show guys that its ok to look at other men and say nice things, it doesnt make you gay, IT JUST SHOWS YOU'RE NOT BLIND lol

[Odon]

And Odon, I think its respectable that you're confident enough in your sexuality to call another guy good looking, because unfortunantly, most men don't have that capability.

Or confused?
lol.