He's actually making semi-serious points, but the problem is that everyone's stuck in the honeymoon phase of the expansion. 2 days in the enamored effect wore off on me (more like 2 minutes in but I digress) but I will say that it is a step in the right direction. The biggest flaw with this game is that it requires too much interaction with people you just don't want to play with, it's something they tried to fix but since theyre JP they have to do everything in moderation and we only get 30 minutes to ourselves a day then the rest of it is shit that most of us already completed by the second day.
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