Thoughts on Casual vs. Serious Relationships?

[Chumbelina]

Pics are fun!!

Sooooooo Setsuko.. nice myspace profile song.. where-EVER did you hear about it? j/k it's amazing isn't it?

[Tape]

lolmorepixplz

tape's kinda cute but i dunno about those red pajamas...

If you look closely you can tell I'm circumsized.

[aurik]

Women are mad. It's a lot easier to get along with them when you're just friends.

[Warudo Ecksu]

Pics are fun!!

Sooooooo Setsuko.. nice myspace profile song.. where-EVER did you hear about it? j/k it's amazing isn't it?

lol :D I noticed you changed your song so I jacked your old song ;p I'd had Oceanlab on there for too long.

Women are mad. It's a lot easier to get along with them when you're just friends.

Some women are too crazy to even be friends with them. I hope I never grow up to be one.

[Chumbelina]

Pics are fun!!

Sooooooo Setsuko.. nice myspace profile song.. where-EVER did you hear about it? j/k it's amazing isn't it?

lol :D I noticed you changed your song so I jacked your old song ;p I'd had Oceanlab on there for too long..

Honestly When I clicked your link to your page I was expecting to hear the Oceanlab song, and I heard that beautiful melody to my ears. I'm glad you chose it. My page is 'Shadow Hearts: Covenant' themed as of now.

I just played through that game this week.. it is amazing. I recommend that If anyone can sit through the first one for 20 hours just to get the story going...(The first one has good story, just redundant gameplay) Play Shadow Hearts!! Shadow Hearts 2 is way better though :D

oops.. I hope that doesn't hijack.. back on topic.

Guys suck! and so do girls!! WHO NEEDS 'EM!?

[Lbelle]

Women are mad. It's a lot easier to get along with them when you're just friends.

The problem is when a girl says they want to be casual and/or just friends with a guy, even if they've only know that guy a very short period of time, they don't take it well. It's a lose/lose situation in most cases.

[Tyche]

lolmorepixplz

tape's kinda cute but i dunno about those red pajamas...

If you look closely you can tell I'm circumsized.

Am i the only guy who went back and looked?

[Lordwafik]

lolmorepixplz

tape's kinda cute but i dunno about those red pajamas...

If you look closely you can tell I'm circumsized.

Am i the only guy who went back and looked?

whoa

you're a dude?








anywayz RL pix thread!
http://img102.imageshack.us/img102/272/lw00019fg.th.jpg
mememememememmeme

[Demosthenes]

Serious only please. You also have to realize that serious does not always mean seeing each other every week and paying for all her shit. I've been in a serious relationship that carried all the signs of a "casual" relationship, but we both knew it was serious, we just could not afford time to make it seem so. personally I don't get casual relationships, then again I only date friends I've known for a long while, and there are no "benefits" till we get into a relationship.

[Tyche]

lolmorepixplz

tape's kinda cute but i dunno about those red pajamas...

If you look closely you can tell I'm circumsized.

Am i the only guy who went back and looked?

whoa

you're a dude?








anywayz RL pix thread!
http://img102.imageshack.us/img102/272/lw00019fg.th.jpg
mememememememmeme

Sorry to disappoint...

http://img148.imageshack.us/img148/2272/neilcb4.jpg

[Mekami]

Lordwafik > Tyke

[Eaglestrike]

Serious only please. You also have to realize that serious does not always mean seeing each other every week and paying for all her shit. I've been in a serious relationship that carried all the signs of a "casual" relationship, but we both knew it was serious, we just could not afford time to make it seem so. personally I don't get casual relationships, then again I only date friends I've known for a long while, and there are no "benefits" till we get into a relationship.

Yeah, that goes right with what I was saying.

And since we're all throwing out pics:

http://i18.photobucket.com/albums/b1...Friends/19.jpg

I'm on the right, 'just friend' on the left

[Anyway]

shave that chest hair dude, jesus

[Chumbelina]

dude, that "Satan is a nerd" shirt... I saw those at a youth summer camp in South Carolina two years ago... Were you there by any chance? o.O

[Eaglestrike]

dude, that "Satan is a nerd" shirt... I saw those at a youth summer camp in South Carolina two years ago... Were you there by any chance? o.O

I got it at a Festival Con Dios concert, but it was in South Carolina...3 years ago

[JoOeetheplatypuS]

Women are mad. It's a lot easier to get along with them when you're just friends.

The problem is when a girl says they want to be casual and/or just friends with a guy, even if they've only know that guy a very short period of time, they don't take it well. It's a lose/lose situation in most cases.

...if by casual you mean hang out and have sex but not 24/7 together then I honestly am wondering what kind of guys you're talking to. If you mean dating and no sex... yeah that will turn most guys away.

My view is casual and serious are all dependent on the people and the situation. Certain people couldn't handle a casual relationship, certain people couldnt handle a serious one. But whatever works for people works for people.

[Lbelle]

...if by casual you mean hang out and have sex but not 24/7 together

That's what I was inferringby a casual relationship, and was wondering what people thought on that. I didn't mean hang out and not have sex/PDA that'd be a friendship to me.

[JoOeetheplatypuS]

...if by casual you mean hang out and have sex but not 24/7 together

That's what I was inferringby a casual relationship, and was wondering what people thought on that. I didn't mean hang out and not have sex/PDA that'd be a friendship to me.

And you know guys against that? Wierd

[Lbelle]

Yeah...that's why I made this post. I was just curious if many guys are like that, or if more aren't like that.

I thought it was weird too,especially for a 20yr old guy, haha :D It's not like I think any more/less of anyone for how they feel on the subject, I was just really surprised, which made me curious.

[Nirokun!]

against my better judgement, im gonna make a post replying to this thread ;X

lets start this off by establishing the fact that i've never dated anyone (or anything that looked like dating lol), and that im 20 >_>

i voted serious, because its what i want. maybe its old-fashioned, maybe its my fear of HIV and herpes, but i just dont trust them gay-folk lol~ I have gay friends, and see gay people--in larger group settings--regularly, but i've just never met anyone that felt special to me. I have, however, met very sweet and kind straight guys, who i'd start dating in a second if things were like that, but lolstraightguys. also, i tend to like someone (like-like) for a long time (months-years) and just dont get attracted to a lot of people. to me, the most attractive thing about a guy is how they treat you/how they make you feel, and i cant look into a crowd of people and say to myself "yeah, i'd feel great just being with him" and such~

i dunno~ i just dont think its worth wasting my time with someone i dont feel strongly for, or someone who just doesnt want a serious relationship. i guess it puts me in my situation, or i do it myself, i dunno~

i dont mind waiting until a the right guy shows up, but sometimes i think im missing out on some things in life, and that im not having as much fun as i should at this point in my life. where are all the nice boys at? (please keep the nasty gaysluts away from me, i'll have none of that, thanks)