Thoughts on Casual vs. Serious Relationships?

[Mekami]

against my better judgement, im gonna make a post replying to this thread ;X

lets start this off by establishing the fact that i've never dated anyone (or anything that looked like dating lol), and that im 20 >_>

i voted serious, because its what i want. maybe its old-fashioned, maybe its my fear of HIV and herpes, but i just dont trust them gay-folk lol~ I have gay friends, and see gay people--in larger group settings--regularly, but i've just never met anyone that felt special to me. I have, however, met very sweet and kind straight guys, who i'd start dating in a second if things were like that, but lolstraightguys. also, i tend to like someone (like-like) for a long time (months-years) and just dont get attracted to a lot of people. to me, the most attractive thing about a guy is how they treat you/how they make you feel, and i cant look into a crowd of people and say to myself "yeah, i'd feel great just being with him" and such~

i dunno~ i just dont think its worth wasting my time with someone i dont feel strongly for, or someone who just doesnt want a serious relationship. i guess it puts me in my situation, or i do it myself, i dunno~

i dont mind waiting until a the right guy shows up, but sometimes i think im missing out on some things in life, and that im not having as much fun as i should at this point in my life. where are all the nice boys at? (please keep the nasty gaysluts away from me, i'll have none of that, thanks)

I've always wanted to ask, but never have;

What's the homosexual disinterest in women about? What's wrong with women?

[Nirokun!]

I've always wanted to ask, but never have;

What's the homosexual disinterest in women about? What's wrong with women?

i could ask you the same thing

What's the heterosexual disinterest in men about? What's wrong with men?

[Scunsion]

I want to poke chumbelina's eyes out with toothpicks christ.

[Mitsukai]

Delta Beta Gamma imo.

[Mekami]

I've always wanted to ask, but never have;

What's the homosexual disinterest in women about? What's wrong with women?

i could ask you the same thing

What's the heterosexual disinterest in men about? What's wrong with men?

Eh, Homosexuality broke the standard, the tradition. Granted, that's a weak argument against it and I'm not against it at all, but Men have parts that work properly with Female Parts. O + o fits together but 0+0 doesn't. That's just the scientific viewpoint, but

I'm asking about the emotional/psychological viewpoint. It's the nature of teh animal for Male to go with Female. Why does the Homosexual reject the female side of nature?

[Eaglestrike]

I've always wanted to ask, but never have;

What's the homosexual disinterest in women about? What's wrong with women?

i could ask you the same thing

What's the heterosexual disinterest in men about? What's wrong with men?

No boobs.

[Lbelle]

against my better judgement, im gonna make a post replying to this thread ;X

lets start this off by establishing the fact that i've never dated anyone (or anything that looked like dating lol), and that im 20 >_>

i voted serious, because its what i want. maybe its old-fashioned, maybe its my fear of HIV and herpes, but i just dont trust them gay-folk lol~ I have gay friends, and see gay people--in larger group settings--regularly, but i've just never met anyone that felt special to me. I have, however, met very sweet and kind straight guys, who i'd start dating in a second if things were like that, but lolstraightguys. also, i tend to like someone (like-like) for a long time (months-years) and just dont get attracted to a lot of people. to me, the most attractive thing about a guy is how they treat you/how they make you feel, and i cant look into a crowd of people and say to myself "yeah, i'd feel great just being with him" and such~

i dunno~ i just dont think its worth wasting my time with someone i dont feel strongly for, or someone who just doesnt want a serious relationship. i guess it puts me in my situation, or i do it myself, i dunno~

i dont mind waiting until a the right guy shows up, but sometimes i think im missing out on some things in life, and that im not having as much fun as i should at this point in my life. where are all the nice boys at? (please keep the nasty gaysluts away from me, i'll have none of that, thanks)

I wouldn't want to waste my time on someone I didnt feel strongly for either. A relationship is a ton of work, casual or not, and if you don't feel for the other peson it's just not worth it. I also don't mind waiting for the right person, but I definitely want to have some fun until that person comes along.

Also, Niro I think it's good for you to wait because of the risk you'd face with having tons of sex with the gaybois and you might be paranoid some of the time But I know a really cute gay guy if you live in California!

EDIT:

What's the heterosexual disinterest in men about? What's wrong with men?

No boobs.[/quote]

So you're saying a girl with small boobs = a guy?

[SephYuyX]

Hmmm, definitely serious.

I want to be in a relationship to find someone to marry, I wouldnt want to waste my time in a casual relationship, I guess. Though, im just a 22y/o single hopeless romatic ;-;

[JoOeetheplatypuS]

I'm asking about the emotional/psychological viewpoint. It's the nature of teh animal for Male to go with Female. Why does the Homosexual reject the female side of nature?

If you're gay the natural way is to go for the same sex. Whats so hard to understand about that. Some guys like big boobs. Some guys like big asses. Some guys like men. Its all preference. My thoughts are that homosexuality is some sort of genetic mutation... but who knows. Fact is, homosexuality isnt really a choice.

[SephYuyX]

Fact is, homosexuality isnt really a choice.

Bubba at the state pen says otherwise.

[JoOeetheplatypuS]

Fact is, homosexuality isnt really a choice.

Bubba at the state pen says otherwise.

lmao

[Nirokun!]

i could ask you the same thing

What's the heterosexual disinterest in men about? What's wrong with men?

Eh, Homosexuality broke the standard, the tradition. Granted, that's a weak argument against it and I'm not against it at all, but Men have parts that work properly with Female Parts. O + o fits together but 0+0 doesn't. That's just the scientific viewpoint, but

I'm asking about the emotional/psychological viewpoint. It's the nature of teh animal for Male to go with Female. Why does the Homosexual reject the female side of nature?

emotionally/psychologically? i dunno, boy friends and girl friends who are intimate (emotionally) with you offer the same things as far as im concerned, boys have a penis, and i always luved teh cawk lol

[Nirokun!]

I wouldn't want to waste my time on someone I didnt feel strongly for either. A relationship is a ton of work, casual or not, and if you don't feel for the other peson it's just not worth it. I also don't mind waiting for the right person, but I definitely want to have some fun until that person comes along.

Also, Niro I think it's good for you to wait because of the risk you'd face with having tons of sex with the gaybois and you might be paranoid some of the time But I know a really cute gay guy if you live in California!

thats where you and i are different, i only want to have 'fun' with mr. right

i mean, i have the opportunities to have 'fun' but whenever i think about it, i just dont feel right about it

i live in maryland lol

[Lbelle]

i live in maryland lol

Where at in MD? I used to live in Columbia

[Shaede]

About homosexuality breaking the tradition; it's the other way around. The Judeo-Christian faith broke the tradition by deeming it sinful. Nearly every other culture in the world prior (any many after) considered it just fine. In Japan, for example, they didn't classify the difference between man-man, man-woman, or woman-woman love (a typical Edo era samurai, such as Musashi, had male and female lovers). In Greek Mythology, man originally had 4 arms, 4 legs, and 2 heads, but the gods (fearful of their power) split them all in half. The three types of humans (man-man, woman-man, and woman-woman) were reduced to two types (man and woman) who now forever yearned for the company of their other half.

Anyway, the current problems Niro faces are entirelty related to our society's view on homosexuality and certainly not the flaws in homosexuality itself (which I would imagine are on par with any inherant heterosexual issues).

A finaly note: If male-male parts don't fit together, then why is the male "g-spot" located in the anus?

[SephYuyX]

It was a sin since Adam and Eve >.>

[Mekami]

It was a sin since Adam and Eve >.>

Mm, religion. A factor that I didn't want to play into this conversation.

What I mean is, what turns you off to women? Is there anything? Have you ever not been attracted to men? Have you always been unattracted to women? Was there a change, is there something that just changes your outlook?

[Lbelle]

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[Eaglestrike]

EDIT:

What's the heterosexual disinterest in men about? What's wrong with men?

No boobs.

So you're saying a girl with small boobs = a guy?

No. I was going to say more but I was going for the short and humorous line. I've never met a guy that's anything like a girl in the way they act and smile and I've not had any homosexual encounters but I love the way women 'react' to certain things. I don't know if guys do that if they're gay or not, but I know women are generally more receptive to physical touch and...I don't know how to explain it. Women just own >.>

[Mekami]

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This is hardly a derail, it's sitll a topic about conversation. Besides, you've had five full pages of response.