Thoughts on Casual vs. Serious Relationships?

[Tape]

I wonder how many of the guys who don't think the man should pay everytime are posting from above the Mason-Dixon Line...hmm... ALL OF THEM?

If you are in a relationship, it's a damn shame if your significant other ever has to pay for something when you go out. Only after I lived in Maryland for awhile did I realize that northern guys just plain suck. But northern girls usually suck too so I guess it evens out.

I don't know what century you live in but nowadays a lot of girls don't like being "taken care of" in every aspect of their lives. I don't mind treating a girl out, but if she can't return the favor once in awhile because she thinks it's wrong, you've netted yourself a gold-digger. Also, you sound pretty sexist if you think a girl can't take care of a guy equally.

I live in Texas btw.

Where did you get that I think women can't take care of themselves? If I'm on a date of any kind, I'm going to pay, not becuase the girl can't pay, but because I feel thats part of our job. If a girl wants to pay, she's going to have to give me a damn good reason why I shouldn't pay. I've never once not paid for me and my date, and I don't plan on it anytime soon. There is nothing disrespectful about it at all. To call me sexist is fucking ignorant. You are just a moron.

you got me there sexist

Seriously, just quit posting. :wink:

[Almaa]

Seriously, just quit posting. :wink:

lol, no one agrees with you, and I only said you sound sexist, if a girl insists she pays then fucking let her pay, you're not the boss of her, I don't know about you but I like an independant woman that can make her own decisions.

Yeah, it nice when we insist to pay all the time, because we're nice guys, well let a girl show how you that she is nice too... and if you think paying for dinner is supposed to buy you sexual favors then your whole perspective is warped.

Get those old world views out of your head. I like paying for my dates too, but when she insists that she pays and won't take no for an answer, that's aggresive, and aggresive women are hot. :wink:

[Tape]

Seriously, just quit posting. :wink:

lol, no one agrees with you, and I only said you sound sexist, if a girl insists she pays then fucking let her pay, you're not the boss of her, I don't know about you but I like an independant woman that can make her own decisions.

Yeah, it nice when we insist to pay all the time, because we're nice guys, well let a girl show how you that she is nice too... and if you think paying for dinner is supposed to buy you sexual favors then your whole perspective is warped.

Get those old world views out of your head. I like paying for my dates too, but when she insists that she pays and won't take no for an answer, that's aggresive, and aggresive women are hot. :wink:

No. I suppose you've polled each person here to make sure they don't agree with me huh.

Learn to take a joke. You have taken something I have said, and added your own spin to it way too many times. Learn to read. I never said sexual favors, and even more so I was joking. I was raised to open doors, pay for the date, pull out chairs, and drive to and from wherever we are going. Regardless of what you say, there are distinct roles in a relationship. If you wanna ask for gas money and split the tab then have fun, I consider that a shitty fucking date, and I would be pissed if my sister went out on a date with someone like you. It's fucking pathetic in my opinion. You call it 'old world' but it's not. You must be 16.

[Almaa]

no

What a well thought out and eloquent response, based on your last 2 responses, you obviously can't form a rebuttle, so I'm done unless you come up with something worthwhile.

[Tyrese]

Tape, your sig sucks. Change it.

[Tape]

Tape, your sig sucks. Change it.

Make me a new one!

[Almaa]

Seriously, just quit posting. :wink:

lol, no one agrees with you, and I only said you sound sexist, if a girl insists she pays then fucking let her pay, you're not the boss of her, I don't know about you but I like an independant woman that can make her own decisions.

Yeah, it nice when we insist to pay all the time, because we're nice guys, well let a girl show how you that she is nice too... and if you think paying for dinner is supposed to buy you sexual favors then your whole perspective is warped.

Get those old world views out of your head. I like paying for my dates too, but when she insists that she pays and won't take no for an answer, that's aggresive, and aggresive women are hot. :wink:

No. I suppose you've polled each person here to make sure they don't agree with me huh.

Learn to take a joke. You have taken something I have said, and added your own spin to it way too many times. Learn to read. I never said sexual favors, and even more so I was joking. I was raised to open doors, pay for the date, pull out chairs, and drive to and from wherever we are going. Regardless of what you say, there are distinct roles in a relationship. If you wanna ask for gas money and split the tab then have fun, I consider that a shitty fucking date, and I would be pissed if my sister went out on a date with someone like you. It's fucking pathetic in my opinion. You call it 'old world' but it's not. You must be 16.

lollllll you edited it after I already responded, nice one bud. I never said split checks and ask for gas money, that's funny. I'd also be way shocked if a girl wanted to pay on a first date, or a second or third or fourth. I'm talking about once you've become pretty established as seeing each other, and I never said anything about pulling out chairs and opening doors and blah blah blah. I'm talking about when the check comes for dinner, if the girl wants to pay for ALL of it once in awhile, why should you tell her no? Are you too manly to accept a kind gesture?

Who said anything about roles in a relationship? What roles are you talking about? Being the one who opens doors and pays and drives is a role? I bet you would be really disturbed if your wife made more money than you, since that's probably one of your roles, right? I mean, if your role is to do everything for a woman, what is a woman's role? Your sex/cooking/cleaning slave? As fun it is to make sexist stereotype jokes, that's a shitty view to have for real, and that's how you're coming off. I'm not even trying to attack you, I'm letting you know that's how you sound right now.

Oh and I'm probably older than you so yeah.

[Tape]

Seriously, just quit posting. :wink:

lol, no one agrees with you, and I only said you sound sexist, if a girl insists she pays then fucking let her pay, you're not the boss of her, I don't know about you but I like an independant woman that can make her own decisions.

Yeah, it nice when we insist to pay all the time, because we're nice guys, well let a girl show how you that she is nice too... and if you think paying for dinner is supposed to buy you sexual favors then your whole perspective is warped.

Get those old world views out of your head. I like paying for my dates too, but when she insists that she pays and won't take no for an answer, that's aggresive, and aggresive women are hot. :wink:

No. I suppose you've polled each person here to make sure they don't agree with me huh.

Learn to take a joke. You have taken something I have said, and added your own spin to it way too many times. Learn to read. I never said sexual favors, and even more so I was joking. I was raised to open doors, pay for the date, pull out chairs, and drive to and from wherever we are going. Regardless of what you say, there are distinct roles in a relationship. If you wanna ask for gas money and split the tab then have fun, I consider that a shitty fucking date, and I would be pissed if my sister went out on a date with someone like you. It's fucking pathetic in my opinion. You call it 'old world' but it's not. You must be 16.

lollllll you edited it after I already responded, nice one bud. I never said split checks and ask for gas money, that's funny. I'd also be way shocked if a girl wanted to pay on a first date, or a second or third or fourth. I'm talking about once you've become pretty established as seeing each other, and I never said anything about pulling out chairs and opening doors and blah blah blah. I'm talking about when the check comes for dinner, if the girl wants to pay for ALL of it once in awhile, why should you tell her no? Are you too manly to accept a kind gesture?

Who said anything about roles in a relationship? What roles are you talking about? Being the one who opens doors and pays and drives is a role? I bet you would be really disturbed if your wife made more money than you, since that's probably one of your roles, right? I mean, if your role is to do everything for a woman, what is a woman's role? Your sex/cooking/cleaning slave? As fun it is to make sexist stereotype jokes, that's a shitty view to have for real, and that's how you're coming off. I'm not even trying to attack you, I'm letting you know that's how you sound right now.

Oh and I'm probably older than you so yeah.

I feel like I'm having an arguement with a fucking rock. So I'll just break it down in a nice little list for you, since sentences seem to complicated for you to grasp.

1. I enjoy paying, and will always pay when I go out on a date. Even taking a friend out who is a female, I will pay. I take my sisters out, and I pay. I pay when me and my mom go out.

2. I would love for my wife to make more money then me. Just gives me more time to play MMO's and get new PC shit. I'm all for that. I don't have any ego problem with a woman making more money then me.

3. I view women as my equal. Why shouldn't I? If anything, in a relationship I always end up being pussy whipped, so you idea of me being some 1950's 'where's my dinner bitch' kinda guy is way off. Prolly wouldn't have even come to that conclusion if you could comprehend what I have been saying for the past few quotes.

4. You hoping that a girl will offer to pay for you on dates is laughable to me. Not saying it's wrong, but I think its pathetic. I'm not saying that a girl shouldn't offer, I think it's considerate, but it's falling on deaf ears.

5. If you are in fact older then me, and raised in Texas, then I could only assume that you have had some emasculating expierence in the past that has made you think like this. Perhaps your mom beat the shit out of your dad or something I dunno.

6. I really don't give a fuck anymore. It's so hard to even have a discussion with you, because every post you make I have to go back and explain shit to you. You have your views and I have mine. What I don't like is you calling me sexist becuase I like to treat a woman like a 'woman' and not a 'life partner' when we go out on dates.

[Kuai]

bitches dont know aboot mah dick

[Almaa]

Man, you have a temper problem don't you? Your blind rage at the fact that I called you a sexist has apparently made you ignore everything else I've said. You attacked me like 10 times in one post, just because I tell it how I see it. You're telling me I can't comprehend sentences while you sit there and pull things out of your ass I never said. You're complaining about having to go back and explain shit, maybe because you don't know how to explain it the first time around. You talk about roles and such and you act like it's clear cut what you mean by that. Sorry if I come up with my own conclusion due to your ambiguity.

Hey man, I'm all about being a gentleman, but being a gentleman is one thing, and being an tunnel-visioned idiot is another. But hey, it's your choice.

[Nirokun!]

GO GAY AND THERE ARE NO ROLES (i think >_>, not terribly defined ones anyways, and i dont think we have arguments like this :X)

nomorefightingboys

[Tape]

Man, you have a temper problem don't you? Your blind rage at the fact that I called you a sexist has apparently made you ignore everything else I've said. You attacked me like 10 times in one post, just because I tell it how I see it. You're telling me I can't comprehend sentences while you sit there and pull things out of your ass I never said. You're complaining about having to go back and explain shit, maybe because you don't know how to explain it the first time around. You talk about roles and such and you act like it's clear cut what you mean by that. Sorry if I come up with my own conclusion due to your ambiguity.

Hey man, I'm all about being a gentleman, but being a gentleman is one thing, and being an tunnel-visioned idiot is another. But hey, it's your choice.

Blind rage... lawl. I'm not going to reply to you anymore since you obviously just wanna bitch about something. Maybe Nirokun is right, you might be better being a 'catcher' in a gay relationship.

And sorry Niro, I'm done with this twit. 8)

[tiberion02]

what a shrill and pointless 10th page.

[Veritas]

whatever tib dont diss you know you want in some DEEP and STEAMY relationships with other suspender-wearing gurlz

and i dunno what to say for the topic, serious applies stress which makes me emo and then i just turn into a fag. but casual is more like friends which really doesnt have much meaning.

[Tape]

what a shrill and pointless 10th page.

Let's make the 11th a page to remember.

http://media1.yourdailymedia.com/files/weird_midget.wmv

[Shaede]

Chivalry is a well disguised set of gender roles, as I see it.

I think true courtesy and empathy are superior.

[Manako]

Chivalry is a well disguised set of gender roles, as I see it.

I think true courtesy and empathy are superior.

I agree wholeheartedly.

[Septimus]

Maybe I am just a cynic, but I do not see much of a reason to expend so much emotional effort into someone with whom you will eventually separate.

thats the most depressing thing I've ever heard wow =(

The truth hurts, baby. Fifty percent of marriages end in divorce, the other fifty percent end in death. How many people do you know that were totally committed to their spouse/partner/boyfriend/girlfriend only to find out that that person was cheating on him/her the whole time or some other sort of total scumbag? And how many people do you know that were totally committed to their spouse/partner/boyfriend/girlfriend only to find out that he/she was cheating on that person the whole time or some other sort of total scumbag?

People suck, when you get two of them together there is a fairly high probability that they will suck even more.

[Amarok]

I miss you Sept

[Septimus]

I miss you Sept

I know. I am a little ray of sunshine that brightens everyone's day.