That's really the LS's fault, though. I just did Dynamis-Tavnazia yesterday (got full 2 hours, but popped 3 diaboli, only killed 1

), we have a healthy collection of Algols and cerb mantles/+1, and a lolberserker's torque. I'm not saying it to brag (the torque, mantle, and algols aren't mine), because other than to say "I did it", none of it is really anything to brag about (lolhydra, lolCoP). But I am saying it to prove that it
can be a part of your regular events, if you wanted something to do besides aery.
On a personal note, I'm also a Corporal in Assault, have a couple pieces of Nashira gear, and have rescued the AC from Mamool and Undead. I also work 8+ hours a day. The point is, there is a ton of content in this game besides what you see in aery, if you look for it, no matter what kind of LS you're in or what your RL schedule is like.
So you can't handle cerb/hydra or don't feel like competing? CoP dynamis is made for small numbers. Do LS Limbus/Assault. Anything on your plate other than sky twice a week + aery is going to be better for you in the long run. Still go to sky and aery, just don't forget that there are other things out there to break the monotony, and keep you from getting burnt out.