
Originally Posted by
Eaglestrike
Loving the responses here.
I voted Male-Only Oral. I chose abstinence before I even become a Christian, and my reason for sticking with it is still that, not religion. I suppose I'll leave the religion bashing to another thread.
My take is I want sex to be special, maybe that sounds stupid, but I'm sure there are some women that agree with that mindset, and that's the kind of girl I want to be with, so whatever. Now, I don't mean special as in you only do it after going out for dinner and you buy her flowers/chocolate, I actually dislike doing such things. But I mean is that chances are by the time you get to marriage, you'll have said most of the things you said to your wife already (a few years ago, I was with the "love of my life" and engaged, so I can't really say that to another girl for the first time). And I know someone will come and say "anal sex" but I'd like to leave something special for my wife and I to share, even if it's being shared 3 times a day.
I think some of you guys get the wrong idea about religious people, most of my friends are girls so when I was at Church, youth group, Bible study, etc. I was always with girls. My best friend is female and while talking to her, who now goes to a Christian college, she talks about all the sexual repression with Christian girls. And how girls are just going to go crazy once they can "finally do it". The idea is not to hardly have sex, just have it after a certain prerequisate. I do plan on having a lot of sex, once I'm married, and chances are the woman I'm with can't wait either.
I've seen a number of psychological viewpoints as to the high divorce rate and how to respond to it and a lot of what people say is "get something special for you two to do". Well, sex is going to be that in my marriage. To the argument about being inexperienced, yeah sure, I will be. And so will she, and we'll...get experience. Exactly where is it stated you need to be a level 75 sex maniac when you get married? I'd rather grind my way there with my wife.