Have you had Sex?[Poll]

[Isildur]

"Ya see, the problem is you're puttin' the pussy on a pedastle(sp?)." I had to do it.

"That's the second time i've heard that today...what is this pedestal?"

[Zigma]

Wow, I think I'm the only guy here who doesn't care much about sex.

[Heian]

when people talk, you dont immediately start in on their personal psyche, the random, daily stuff that goes on gets ppl just chatting

if you're not interested in talking, thats probably a good sign that you shouldnt be in a relationship >.> (unless you found someone the same >.> what a world that would be )

I do the exact opposite and either am too much for people, or a fucking amazing trip for others. Im like living LSD

Funny, when I licked you I didn't haulicinate afterwards.....

But you cant remember what happened after you licked me

You leveled my Warrior to 60 while I'm in Boston on vaction? AMIRITE?

[Axil]

NO, YOURE NOT RIGHT SON

[Skyylya]

sex is fun, there isn't much more to say about it. I had sex for the first time when i was 17, did all the other stuff when i was like 14 or 15 i don't remember.

It's not some special thing that's sacred between two people, that's just some bullshit your parents feed you so you don't come home one day and say "guess what mom and dad, you're gonna be grandparents!"

I've been with my current girlfriend for about 7 months now and we first slept together after about 2 weeks of knowing each other, and we get along great. She's incredibly smart, currently in grad school for a degree that's just above a masters and just below a doctorate. She's a beautiful 5'10 blonde with a great body and i'm a really lucky guy. But us having had sex when we just met doesn't mean we're doomed to fail if we end up staying together and getting married.

sex is fun and should be treated as such. I remember one weekend i slept with a 19 year old after she got me kicked out of a bar and the next night i slept with a 38 year old mother of three(one of which was 17). The young girl i've never talked to since but the older chick god damn was she annoying.

People who treat sex like it's some divine right of passage...stop fooling yourselves. I'm not saying go out and jump the first girl you see, but don't 'not' have sex just because you think it's some wonderful and special thing between two people.

With that said, I love being with my girlfriend and could be perfectly happy sleeping with nobody else the rest of my life. But that's because of who she is, not because of whether or not we did or didn't wait to have sex.

/novel over, i'm losing my buzz and wanna get to bed before i get a headache.

[Elemmire]

sex is fun, there isn't much more to say about it. I had sex for the first time when i was 17, did all the other stuff when i was like 14 or 15 i don't remember.

It's not some special thing that's sacred between two people, that's just some bullshit your parents feed you so you don't come home one day and say "guess what mom and dad, you're gonna be grandparents!"

I've been with my current girlfriend for about 7 months now and we first slept together after about 2 weeks of knowing each other, and we get along great. She's incredibly smart, currently in grad school for a degree that's just above a masters and just below a doctorate. She's a beautiful 5'10 blonde with a great body and i'm a really lucky guy. But us having had sex when we just met doesn't mean we're doomed to fail if we end up staying together and getting married.

sex is fun and should be treated as such. I remember one weekend i slept with a 19 year old after she got me kicked out of a bar and the next night i slept with a 38 year old mother of three(one of which was 17). The young girl i've never talked to since but the older chick god damn was she annoying.

People who treat sex like it's some divine right of passage...stop fooling yourselves. I'm not saying go out and jump the first girl you see, but don't 'not' have sex just because you think it's some wonderful and special thing between two people.

With that said, I love being with my girlfriend and could be perfectly happy sleeping with nobody else the rest of my life. But that's because of who she is, not because of whether or not we did or didn't wait to have sex.

/novel over, i'm losing my buzz and wanna get to bed before i get a headache.

you have your beliefs, I have mine, I'd much rather not share that bond with 50 billion people like so many other sluts do. I'd rather it be only one and, honestly, prefer they only share with me ever too. But I can't change their past if it happened so meh... I don't care to just treat it like a night at the movies or something.. *shrugs*

and I think you rushed into it with your girlfriend too fast, personally, but it's not my problem. So whatever.

[Demetrick]

sex is fun, there isn't much more to say about it. I had sex for the first time when i was 17, did all the other stuff when i was like 14 or 15 i don't remember.

It's not some special thing that's sacred between two people, that's just some bullshit your parents feed you so you don't come home one day and say "guess what mom and dad, you're gonna be grandparents!"

I've been with my current girlfriend for about 7 months now and we first slept together after about 2 weeks of knowing each other, and we get along great. She's incredibly smart, currently in grad school for a degree that's just above a masters and just below a doctorate. She's a beautiful 5'10 blonde with a great body and i'm a really lucky guy. But us having had sex when we just met doesn't mean we're doomed to fail if we end up staying together and getting married.

sex is fun and should be treated as such. I remember one weekend i slept with a 19 year old after she got me kicked out of a bar and the next night i slept with a 38 year old mother of three(one of which was 17). The young girl i've never talked to since but the older chick god damn was she annoying.

People who treat sex like it's some divine right of passage...stop fooling yourselves. I'm not saying go out and jump the first girl you see, but don't 'not' have sex just because you think it's some wonderful and special thing between two people.

With that said, I love being with my girlfriend and could be perfectly happy sleeping with nobody else the rest of my life. But that's because of who she is, not because of whether or not we did or didn't wait to have sex.

/novel over, i'm losing my buzz and wanna get to bed before i get a headache.

you have your beliefs, I have mine, I'd much rather not share that bond with 50 billion people like so many other sluts do. I'd rather it be only one and, honestly, prefer they only share with me ever too. But I can't change their past if it happened so meh... I don't care to just treat it like a night at the movies or something.. *shrugs*

and I think you rushed into it with your girlfriend too fast, personally, but it's not my problem. So whatever.

Little more emo with your whine?

[Kuya]

sex is fun, there isn't much more to say about it. I had sex for the first time when i was 17, did all the other stuff when i was like 14 or 15 i don't remember.

It's not some special thing that's sacred between two people, that's just some bullshit your parents feed you so you don't come home one day and say "guess what mom and dad, you're gonna be grandparents!"

I've been with my current girlfriend for about 7 months now and we first slept together after about 2 weeks of knowing each other, and we get along great. She's incredibly smart, currently in grad school for a degree that's just above a masters and just below a doctorate. She's a beautiful 5'10 blonde with a great body and i'm a really lucky guy. But us having had sex when we just met doesn't mean we're doomed to fail if we end up staying together and getting married.

sex is fun and should be treated as such. I remember one weekend i slept with a 19 year old after she got me kicked out of a bar and the next night i slept with a 38 year old mother of three(one of which was 17). The young girl i've never talked to since but the older chick god damn was she annoying.

People who treat sex like it's some divine right of passage...stop fooling yourselves. I'm not saying go out and jump the first girl you see, but don't 'not' have sex just because you think it's some wonderful and special thing between two people.

With that said, I love being with my girlfriend and could be perfectly happy sleeping with nobody else the rest of my life. But that's because of who she is, not because of whether or not we did or didn't wait to have sex.

/novel over, i'm losing my buzz and wanna get to bed before i get a headache.

you have your beliefs, I have mine, I'd much rather not share that bond with 50 billion people like so many other sluts do. I'd rather it be only one and, honestly, prefer they only share with me ever too. But I can't change their past if it happened so meh... I don't care to just treat it like a night at the movies or something.. *shrugs*

and I think you rushed into it with your girlfriend too fast, personally, but it's not my problem. So whatever.

You know, calling people sluts, does not make your point better.

[Nirokun!]

my body is something very personal to me that i dont really share with other people (sure i give hugs all the time, but thats different [formalities and courtesy]). When i finally decided to share myself with another person, it will be very special to me, because i had waited for the right time, and the right person, to share it with.

its just like (i dunno) having a baby with someone you love, rather than just someone. Waiting for the right time, and the right person to have your baby with makes you happy, while just seeing it as "a fun thing to do" is kinda LOL and makes you a slut (thats why we have the words: slut/whore/skank, to define a group of people we dont want to be (*'-'))

waiting for stuff isnt deprivation. delaying an orgasm makes the actual orgasm that much better, waiting until you're really hungry to eat, makes eating that much better, WAITING FOR THE WII MAKES THE WII THAT MUCH BETTER

its one of those "ahh! finally! /joy" things

I'd just rather wait for the right time and the right person, no point in just doing it with some random aidsfaggot just to say i did (and i'd probably hate myself if i did [and got the aids lol])

[Kuya]

Waiting for the right time, and the right person to have your baby with makes you happy, while just seeing it as "a fun thing to do" is kinda LOL and makes you a slut (thats why we have the words: slut/whore/skank, to define a group of people we dont want to be (*'-'))

Niro theres a big diference between someone who has sex with someone he trusts, but it doesnt mean he wants to marry them, and someone who has sex with anything that moves. I was with you, until that part, your views on this are a bit distorted.

waiting until you're really hungry to eat, makes eating that much better

Umm, thats not really a good idea. >____>

[Chumbelina]

Niro... you are so fucking gay and full of wisdom. I love you. SO much.

[Nirokun!]

i guess i'm a person that wouldnt have sex with a guy unless i thought he was marriage material >.>

(and you know hunger is the best spice >.> lol)

edit: i love you too chum (*'3')

edit#2: i told this to my friend before, or asked him~ lol

<Me> why have sex if you dont love the person? just masturbate
<Him> its not the same
<Me> is it worth all the drama?
<Him> i guess >.>
<Me> i dont want people i know but do not love in my bed, i think masturbation is good for me WHORESLUTBAGOFAIDS (i call him all kinds of things :D)
<Him> ITS NOT THE SAME

i guess i'll wait for that special feeling for that special somebody (at that special time )

[Elemmire]

I <3 Niro's thoughts on these things XD prolly cause I share em :D

personally, I have to laugh at soooo many sheep that are in this thread. lolsheep of society "ZOMG I MUST HAVE SEX CAUSE I'M THIS OLD AND I'VE NOT HAD IT YET!"

[Kuya]

My irony senses are tingling.

Edit: ERIN TRIBAL, AHHHHHHHHHH GET IT OFF ME

[Nirokun!]

I <3 Niro's thoughts on these things XD prolly cause I share em :D

personally, I have to laugh at soooo many sheep that are in this thread. lolsheep of society "ZOMG I MUST HAVE SEX CAUSE I'M THIS OLD AND I'VE NOT HAD IT YET!"

if i'm any kinda sheep, its a gay sheep lol :3 baa baa~

im more like

ZOMG I MUST HAVE A BF CAUSE I'M THIS OLD AND I HAVEN'T HAD ONE YET!

lol (but really, lets make the first bf a husband, kay? i dont want to have to try too hard if i dont have to (**********'3'))

[Slott]

only read first page and skipped to here

I used to be all like....dont have sex w/ lots of people to conserve it for marriage and shit, but then my brother in law brought me to light. What if you save yourself for marriage and the person you're with totally either sucks at sex or you have no sexual chemistry. Also, divorce rates are so high because people tend to cheat when they get bored with the "usual" so get it all out of your system before settling down, all your fantasies (that others are willing to actually deal with)

sex is fun, if you actually have a partner that participates and has a healthy drive. I mean sure you can make out for so long, but meh...it has to lead somewhere. It's only because religion imposed sex as something sacred that people have it implanted in their heads as such (and was probably the reason I started off thinking that way too)

just wrap it up and have some fun. You gotta blow your load in 30 seconds at some point. How bad would that suck on your honeymoon? lolz

Oh right, and just to putsome perspective on it. When I was with my gf that I did it with first, we were together for like...2 years. I kept on always having that pestering feeling of... what if? What if there's someone better out there, wonder what sex is like with someone else, wonder what sex is like with..... etc. It becomes BAD after a while.

[Elemmire]

My irony senses are tingling.

Edit: ERIN TRIBAL, AHHHHHHHHHH GET IT OFF ME

oh, I think everyone's a sheep of something at somepoint XD but I'm not a sheep in that sense where sex is a "zomg must have now and must have with more than 1 person!" kinda sheep

only read first page and skipped to here

I used to be all like....dont have sex w/ lots of people to conserve it for marriage and shit, but then my brother in law brought me to light. What if you save yourself for marriage and the person you're with totally either sucks at sex or you have no sexual chemistry. Also, divorce rates are so high because people tend to cheat when they get bored with the "usual" so get it all out of your system before settling down, all your fantasies (that others are willing to actually deal with)

sex is fun, if you actually have a partner that participates and has a healthy drive. I mean sure you can make out for so long, but meh...it has to lead somewhere. It's only because religion imposed sex as something sacred that people have it implanted in their heads as such (and was probably the reason I started off thinking that way too)

just wrap it up and have some fun. You gotta blow your load in 30 seconds at some point. How bad would that suck on your honeymoon? lolz

this is why honesty and COMMUNICATION (ZOMG?!) with your partner are key. You can LEARN TO DO NEW THINGS and try new things. Sweet jebus.. people have this mindset of "sex for a person is only this way and never changes for the person ever! They can't learn new things or anything!" -_- I know several who waited for marriage and they tell me the sex is great (not that I really ask >.>) and it's been good for years and how there have been slumps but talking with each other trying new things spices things up and blah blah blah...

Sex can be shared with only one and good if people learned how to be open completely and honest and talk with their lover rather than the subtle hints or finding other vices or another person and shit.. bleh..

[Slott]

woops double posted

[Xavier]

Sex by itself is primal nature, the act of reproduction and mating. Males have a predisposition to seed as many women as possible, genetically.

All of this wonderful talk about the true meaning of sex and its importance to a solid marriage isn't something people naturally experience. Its been imposed by society, a society which does not want you having sex until you're fiscially stable and won't be a drain on the economy with an unplanned baby.

I'm not saying I don't agree with this, its stupid for people to have children in our society before they're ready to take care of them, but its ignorent to expect everyone to just naturally feel that sex is something to wait for.

[Slott]

this is why honesty and COMMUNICATION (ZOMG?!) with your partner are key. You can LEARN TO DO NEW THINGS and try new things. Sweet jebus.. people have this mindset of "sex for a person is only this way and never changes for the person ever! They can't learn new things or anything!" -_- I know several who waited for marriage and they tell me the sex is great (not that I really ask >.>) and it's been good for years and how there have been slumps but talking with each other trying new things spices things up and blah blah blah...

Just something you should be aware of, every single thing you try with someone will be completely different with someone different. Just because they're on top, or you're on top...the whole feel of it, from everything from moistness to tightness to sound effects to rhythm or whatever...it's all different. You can't expect sex to be drastically different by roleplaying or trying different positions. There's something that one partner just can't change, and thats what typically leads to that desire to cheat on your partner (not that I ever have..or will cheat on a partner)

We all have our own choices, I do not disrespect yours at all. In fact it's very hard sometimes to hold on to virginity given the world today. However you also have to respect other people's opinions without thinking they're wrong and youre right. Why is it sex should only be with one person? Religion.

So while you hold your beliefs, other people should know of other options, know of why people cheat and why sex with other's is so different. Believe me, as a virgin (at least I'm guessing you are) you have no IDEA what sex is going to be like with someone else. And believe me the first time you have sex you may either be like "that was it?" or "that was fantastic". it totally depends on who you're with and their capabilities and labido.

edit: and another thing. Why are you robbing yourself of sexual gratification in the future by masturbating? Aren't you doing just what you're against? Saving it for marriage or one you love? How's masturbating make this all ok, by gratifying YOURSELF. Something that should be done and saved for your partner...

(that's not to say I don't. I dont think anyone doesn't )