How many partners?

[Izzy]

actually, rather pleased that this forum statistically isnt full of sluts ahahhaha... i hate dirty girls Q_Q

[SilverBreeze]

0@23, I'm a "waiting until marriage" kinda guy, I've had my chances before and it's really embrassing when girl is in your room taking her cloths off and your telling her to put them back on :/

If anyone calls this man gay, stupid, or anything of the sort, I will personally kill you.

I respect someone's choice not to have sex. Better wait than do something you're not sure you want, right?

But I also say that virginity is highly over-rated. Play safe, know who/what you're doing (FFS, don't make your first time a hook-up with a complete stranger at a party/bar- find a friend), but do. There is nothing more awkward than two people who have no idea what they're doing on a honeymoon, and plenty of divorces that happen when two people suddenly discover one's a "one-a-year" and the other is a "one-a-day" kind of libido.

After all, if you're going to marry someone- shouldn't you both know something that important going into that stage of a relationship?

Yes, virginity may be overrated, and some people put it on some sort of pedastal like its a trophy, but that doesn't mean everyone does, and it surely doesn't mean you should run around having sex with anyone or everyone. When I see people talking about, or see if I'm out partying, actually being so drunk they're having sex with people they'd never give a second glance or taking advantage of drunk people, it's not something I could ever do and it's almost gross to me.

I've always thought there was something more to sex than just fucking, and that's why I'm waiting. I never said I wanted to wait until I'm married, but until I find someone special enough and I love enough to do that with, which may very well end up being that long. And some people will call us who wait stupid, tell us we're dumb and "its natural you shouldn't make yourself wait", and there will always be people who make fun of us. People think people who wait will have some terrible sex life forever and for the rest of their lives, and that's just an ignorant thing to say.

[Toralyn]

There's nothing wrong with waiting. Some people just haven't met the people that they're comfortable enough around to have sex. Some only want to have sex if they're in love (Clerks....without the 37 dicks I hope). It's a personal choice, and no one should judge you for it, and if they do, fuck 'em (figuratively speaking), they're not worth talking to, or arguing with.

Some of us however, don't mind it, and can do it, it's not a bad thing, we just enjoy sex and have an easier time being that comfortable. It's not always about love for us, but there's [usually] something else there besides lust.

[Xiona]

actually, rather pleased that this forum statistically isnt full of sluts ahahhaha... i hate dirty girls Q_Q

slut isnt the same as dirty, like i said before ive been with 35 and im clean as a whistle. condoms are available ya know haha. oh and i dont buy into the double standard, i see the numbers the same regardless of gender

[Lbelle]

xiona, let me see your picture.

[Xiona]

Me at 20
http://img243.imageshack.us/img243/7328/hatrc3.jpg


Me at 22
http://img84.imageshack.us/img84/462/myforumpicub8.jpg


Me at 25 last year
http://img169.imageshack.us/img169/8...2520051gj7.jpg

nice to meet you lol

[aznmajiktaru]

nice skirt!

[Mizango]

lol

[SilverBreeze]

Nice shirt lol

You look almost like I had thought, I didn't think you'd be a blonde though, I was thinking brunette...

[Xiona]

lol thats my server apron, i wore that to work last year because i had to go in on xmas eve

i am a brunette, i bleach my hair

[SilverBreeze]

i am a brunette, i bleach my hair

Wow I win :D

[Lbelle]

I'm almost afraid to ask where you work haha

[Xiona]

no where now lol. i stopped working after that day and been full time student since then. im a good waiter, im pretty crazy and outgoing with a decent memory to boot.

dont worry im sure im states away from eveyone here, NY irl lol

[SilverBreeze]

no where now lol. i stopped working after that day and been full time student since then. im a good waiter, im pretty crazy and outgoing with a decent memory to boot.

dont worry im sure im states away from eveyone here, NY irl lol

Ever considered being a writer, or going into the porn industry?

[Nirokun!]

Yes, virginity may be overrated, and some people put it on some sort of pedastal like its a trophy, but that doesn't mean everyone does, and it surely doesn't mean you should run around having sex with anyone or everyone. When I see people talking about, or see if I'm out partying, actually being so drunk they're having sex with people they'd never give a second glance or taking advantage of drunk people, it's not something I could ever do and it's almost gross to me.

I've always thought there was something more to sex than just fucking, and that's why I'm waiting. I never said I wanted to wait until I'm married, but until I find someone special enough and I love enough to do that with, which may very well end up being that long. And some people will call us who wait stupid, tell us we're dumb and "its natural you shouldn't make yourself wait", and there will always be people who make fun of us. People think people who wait will have some terrible sex life forever and for the rest of their lives, and that's just an ignorant thing to say.

god i love you <3 goddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddd we're so much aliiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii iiiiiiiiiiiike :D

[Xiona]

no where now lol. i stopped working after that day and been full time student since then. im a good waiter, im pretty crazy and outgoing with a decent memory to boot.

dont worry im sure im states away from eveyone here, NY irl lol

Ever considered being a writer, or going into the porn industry?

i wasnt molested as a child so i dont think im eligible to work in porn =p the only thing i want to write is my life story, maybe set it to a fictional backdrop i dunno. i have a serious case of a.d.d when it comes to writing and reading. i cant focus long enough to get things in sucession. i mean im so bad i need to write papers the night before because the pressure is the only thing that gets me to focus.

[Axil]

Like I said your the Hunter S Thompson of sex, so just do some gonzo writing

[cassiraa]

you know, i never understand why people will choose to hold off sex until marriage? would you buy a car without testdriving it?... also if both of you don't have any experience, (talking about blind leading a blind) sex will suck for both for quite a long time.

[I took the ethics part out of the quote because I'm not really responding to that part]

Actually quite the opposite I've noticed. Me and my husband were both virgins when we met, totally inexperienced. When we fist had sex it was a new and wonderful experience that we were sharing together for the 1st time, not really as clumsy as you imagine "blind leading the blind" to be. Although I can certainly understand if your first time was with someone more experienced you'd feel like, well, a noob. But if both are in the same situation, It doesn't 'suck' at all, It's a new thing to experiment with. "Ooh, what happens if I poke it this way?"

And over time It's gotten better and better, because I don't know "guys" I know Him, what turns him on, what he likes, and so forth, learned what fetishes we both had [I use the term generally, everybody has some]. And we still have hot kinky sex multiple times per week.

I've only slept with one man, and it gets better every time.

[Blackice]

5 @ 21;

[finale23]

you know, i never understand why people will choose to hold off sex until marriage? would you buy a car without testdriving it?... also if both of you don't have any experience, (talking about blind leading a blind) sex will suck for both for quite a long time.

[I took the ethics part out of the quote because I'm not really responding to that part]

Actually quite the opposite I've noticed. Me and my husband were both virgins when we met, totally inexperienced. When we fist had sex it was a new and wonderful experience that we were sharing together for the 1st time, not really as clumsy as you imagine "blind leading the blind" to be. Although I can certainly understand if your first time was with someone more experienced you'd feel like, well, a noob. But if both are in the same situation, It doesn't 'suck' at all, It's a new thing to experiment with. "Ooh, what happens if I poke it this way?"

And over time It's gotten better and better, because I don't know "guys" I know Him, what turns him on, what he likes, and so forth, learned what fetishes we both had [I use the term generally, everybody has some]. And we still have hot kinky sex multiple times per week.

I've only slept with one man, and it gets better every time.

i am sure you guys will be fine eventually if you are willing to experiement. but wouldn't you rather he had some experience to begin with even if you didn't? you know he could have fucked your brains out from the beginning and everytime if he had some experience instead of getting better over time (not saying there is anything wrong with that). and since you never had sex with any other guys, how would you know how good your husband is in comparison to the others? not to mention inexperienced guys usually get way too excited too fast and sex would last way shorter than you both would like.

look, i am not saying people who save their virginity until marriage are dumb or stupid. matter of fact, they have my respect being able to resist all the temptations. but they are naive oftern times because they are anticipating for a magical first time and setting themselves up for a huge disappointment.