How many partners?

[Marsala]

0 @ 21. Waiting till I'm married. Havent even kissed a girl yet. Lol, my wedding night is going to be hot!

foryouandnotyourgirllulz

Well, I am not marrying a whore so no problems there. Hopefully itll bethe first time for us both. We can learn together.

I see absolutley no need to "practice" I have my whole life to practice with her. I aint going to sleep around just so I can get good at holding it in so I dont blow in the first 5 mins my first time.

[Nirokun!]

SB check your PMs :D

[Nirokun!]

ok IM me now because i closed the thing before adding you >.> lol

[JoOeetheplatypuS]

To all you hoping to marry a virgin: You really don't know who you'll fall in love with. Just a little reality check here. Remember, though you can make choices about your own life you can't expect the same choices from others and virginity matters little in the grand scheme of things while true compatibility is what is so important in a stable marraige.

[Marsala]

To all you hoping to marry a virgin: You really don't know who you'll fall in love with. Just a little reality check here. Remember, though you can make choices about your own life you can't expect the same choices from others and virginity matters little in the grand scheme of things while true compatibility is what is so important in a stable marraige.

True statement. But even if that is so I still fail to see the "lol your wont be able to please your girl if its yourfirst time argument" from people

I'd rather save myself for her and have that be the way I show my affection and care for her. Not to mention the god awful desieses you cant get from sleeping around or end up with a baby at a young age which would blow and effect the your young adulthood in a bad way. And lol, condoms cause you never know if they will wok or not and they dont protect aginst many STDs.

Besides girls are evil, and they steal your money and your friends and no matter what you always end up whipped in the end. My best friend recently started dating my ex and freaking stopped hanging out with me and tried to hide that fact that he was dating her from me. wtf? I shall be anti-girl relationship for awhile.

[finale23]

Yes the guy with more experience will probably do better, but that's with most things in life. I don't see how you think you have to have someone to compare sex against to get satisfaction out of it. As long as it feels good, and you're enjoying yourself, and you're getting off, who cares how good it is compared to someone else. If you are truly satisfied there is no need to compare. Yes I know its hard for guys to "contain their excitement" and I surely don't believe that if indeed he is a virgin too that he will last 25 minutes. Did you last 25 minutes when you lost your virginity? I don't believe that love makes you the best lover in bed ever, but I'm sure it adds to the experience. You act like he's only going to have sex with someone once and never again. He can learn the same way you did, through experience, and there's all the time in the world to improve.

I really wish you would stop trying to degrade how someone's sex life is going to be because they decide to wait, it's their choice, why do you care so much? Is it wrong to want to have the experience to be with someone special, or someone you love, other than someone that you pick up at a bar or something? I don't think so. Do you think I claim to save myself because I'm too ugly for someone to want to have sex with me? I've had plenty of opporitunities where I could have had sex but I chose not to, and I'm an atheist so there is no religion holding me back. It's my body and its my decision what to do with it, and my decision is to wait, so you can take your derogatory comments else where.

EDIT: Dammit I should have made this my 1000th post, since the vast majority of them are usually rambling about sex. Hurry up and say something stupid finale so I can get my last post.

haha SB. i am just pointing out the obvious that an experienced couple will have a better time strictly from a technical perspective. i am not arguing that you have to compare or should always opt for better sex, or that anything in the realm of love, emotional connection or whatever you looking for. that's another can of worms.

no need to get defensive, i am not degrading anyone or his/her opinion regarding sex. i respect you and your choice, and i can't stress that enough. and exactly, the fact that you are an atheist and all just proves my point -- you are in the minority, (most people who wait are either involuntary or for religious reasons, i stand by my previous post) and that's good for you. by the way, i don't care about your sex life, even if you have one, or anyone's for that matter. since we can't change each others' opinion on this issue, i am ganna drop it before you call me derogatory again. drink responsibly and happy new year! :D

PS. don't know why i cracked up as i was typing the post hah

[Tonko]

True statement. But even if that is so I still fail to see the "lol your wont be able to please your girl if its yourfirst time argument" from people

From a purely physiologial standpoint, if it's your first time you're going to shoot REALLY quick. Your girl won't get off before you do, takes alot more work for a woman to get off than a guy from intercourse.

You'll be spent, she'll be wanting more.

[SilverBreeze]

Yes the guy with more experience will probably do better, but that's with most things in life. I don't see how you think you have to have someone to compare sex against to get satisfaction out of it. As long as it feels good, and you're enjoying yourself, and you're getting off, who cares how good it is compared to someone else. If you are truly satisfied there is no need to compare. Yes I know its hard for guys to "contain their excitement" and I surely don't believe that if indeed he is a virgin too that he will last 25 minutes. Did you last 25 minutes when you lost your virginity? I don't believe that love makes you the best lover in bed ever, but I'm sure it adds to the experience. You act like he's only going to have sex with someone once and never again. He can learn the same way you did, through experience, and there's all the time in the world to improve.

I really wish you would stop trying to degrade how someone's sex life is going to be because they decide to wait, it's their choice, why do you care so much? Is it wrong to want to have the experience to be with someone special, or someone you love, other than someone that you pick up at a bar or something? I don't think so. Do you think I claim to save myself because I'm too ugly for someone to want to have sex with me? I've had plenty of opporitunities where I could have had sex but I chose not to, and I'm an atheist so there is no religion holding me back. It's my body and its my decision what to do with it, and my decision is to wait, so you can take your derogatory comments else where.

EDIT: Dammit I should have made this my 1000th post, since the vast majority of them are usually rambling about sex. Hurry up and say something stupid finale so I can get my last post.

haha SB. i am just pointing out the obvious that an experienced couple will have a better time strictly from a technical perspective. i am not arguing that you have to compare or should always opt for better sex, or that anything in the realm of love, emotional connection or whatever you looking for. that's another can of worms.

no need to get defensive, i am not degrading anyone or his/her opinion regarding sex. i respect you and your choice, and i can't stress that enough. and exactly, the fact that you are an atheist and all just proves my point -- you are in the minority, (most people who wait are either involuntary or for religious reasons, i stand by my previous post) and that's good for you. by the way, i don't care about your sex life, even if you have one, or anyone's for that matter. since we can't change each others' opinion on this issue, i am ganna drop it before you call me derogatory again. drink responsibly and happy new year! :D

PS. don't know why i cracked up as i was typing the post hah

Bah you weren't supposed to stop arguing, I don't have anything better to do at the moment, jerk.

Yay 1000 posts :wink:

[Marsala]

True statement. But even if that is so I still fail to see the "lol your wont be able to please your girl if its yourfirst time argument" from people

From a purely physiologial standpoint, if it's your first time you're going to shoot REALLY quick. Your girl won't get off before you do, takes alot more work for a woman to get off than a guy from intercourse.

You'll be spent, she'll be wanting more.

Guess I didnt expand enough, my bad. You are right but I dont see it as a reason why I need to go bang every chick I see so I cant last longer..

[Tommyb]

Gawd Tonko I knew you were a whore but... really 1000+

Hmmm, is there something beyond whore?

Oh wait, you're a slut right? cause whore's charge =P

[Xiona]

i remember way back in the day a girl asked me how many girls i slept with when the number was 7 and she thought i was a total whore lol because she had only been with 2.

couple years later she sprung up to about 13 and when confronted she said "you were right, those numbers never do go down"

marrage isnt only about emotional but physical. if your physical is lacking then im sorry but youre just friends. if youve never had sex then you dont really know anything about your own sexual fetishes and what not.

its like buying a car. sure if youve never driven before you can learn how and adjust the seats inside to suit you. but if you like something specific like manual vs auto or ac or power steering and the model you bought doesnt support that then youre shit outta luck.

if im not sexually compatable AS WELL AS emotionally compatable with someone then theres no need for me to move forward. unlike what the church thinks were are creatures of sexuality. if you want to be a virgin and have a plan thats fine, but i didnt know i loved biting, moaning, dirty talk, and a lot of other things until they happened. if a girl doesnt enjoy doing them then im not as fulfilled.

personally id rather marry someone whos been through several relationships. why? because they are learning experiences. you find out how to deal with someone else as well as learn a LOT about yourself.

btw saying someone is a whore and dirty just because theyve been with a lot of people is pretty closed minded. unless you know the person you really have no idea, some of us do use protection and get tested regularly not to mention not sleep with everything that walks our way.

[Marsala]

btw saying someone is a whore and dirty just because theyve been with a lot of people is pretty closed minded.

There are some truths in this world that apply to everyone and a whore is definatley one of those truths. Not everything is relative. If you go around making a habit of sleeping with people just because you can then you are a whore. That not being closed minded thats just stating the facts.

[Xiona]

you really are retarded. i dont sleep with everyone because i can. your numbers dont go down and the longer youre sexually active the more the numbers will continue to rise.

you really must be as nieve as virgins typically are. your saying this is a universal truth is evidence to that.

ive slept with 35 people in 11 years. definately doesnt make me a whore. you have no idea the context of my past relationships or sexual activities. making sweeping generalizations isnt fact, im sorry but i think you need to get out more lol. its your kind of mind set that breed ignorence.

maybe i should abide by the "fact" that people who wait til marrage are religion nazis and gave up their powers of reason as soon as they put their faith into a book made by men. i mean this to me would be pretty accurate, although im sure youd say otherwise because well i dont know you.

nothing is black and white in a world filled with grey.

[Mizango]

you really are retarded. i dont sleep with everyone because i can. your numbers dont go down and the longer youre sexually active the more the numbers will continue to rise.

you really must be as nieve as virgins typically are. your saying this is a universal truth is evidence to that.

ive slept with 35 people in 11 years. definately doesnt make me a whore. you have no idea the context of my past relationships or sexual activities. making sweeping generalizations isnt fact, im sorry but i think you need to get out more lol. its your kind of mind set that breed ignorence.

maybe i should abide by the "fact" that people who wait til marrage are religion nazis and gave up their powers of reason as soon as they put their faith into a book made by men. i mean this to me would be pretty accurate, although im sure youd say otherwise because well i dont know you.

nothing is black and white in a world filled with grey.

^ Amen. Your logic is undeniable.

[Marsala]

you really are retarded. i dont sleep with everyone because i can. your numbers dont go down and the longer youre sexually active the more the numbers will continue to rise.

-your numbers dont have to rise. Ok, so you slept with them why then?? Becaus eyou have free will and you CAN.

you really must be as nieve as virgins typically are. your saying this is a universal truth is evidence to that.

-Lets not generalize about virgins because that would be a truth wouldnt it?

ive slept with 35 people in 11 years. definately doesnt make me a whore. you have no idea the context of my past relationships or sexual activities. making sweeping generalizations isnt fact, im sorry but i think you need to get out more lol. its your kind of mind set that breed ignorence.

-Whore: someone who sleeps with alot of people. this term is generally adopted. "Look at that girl she dresses like a whore." "Ya she sleeps with all the guys" I dont care if youa are a guy or a girl. Ok so maybe I shouldnt have a called it a universal truth. More of a everyone knows what a whore is.

maybe i should abide by the "fact" that people who wait til marrage are religion nazis and gave up their powers of reason as soon as they put their faith into a book made by men. i mean this to me would be pretty accurate, although im sure youd say otherwise because well i dont know you.

-Universal truth? Ok so lets say theres not. Then I think Hilter was cool and that the Jews deserved to die because it was right for me and I dont like them. I am going to go out and drink and drive becaue its right for me. Who cares about the people I could kill. I am going to go a hospital and kill a bunch of sick children because it makes me feel. good. Gravity what is that? It doesnt apply to me. Go try to fly and see how far you will get.

-I dont care what you do or who you sleep with it is your life.

-Thanks for calling me a religous freak too even though I didnt say anything of any religious nature in my reasons for what I said. I didnt say anythign about any book, nothing. It doesnt take a genius to see that the benefits do not outweigh the negatives of sleeping around.

-I could say the same to you. You humanistic freak, stop trying to say everything you think is right. I mean who thought your reasons up? You probably, and what are you? Oh, yes a human. Then very thing you put your faith in is just the same as me, yourself or other men. It doesnt matter who you put your faith in we are all human so pull that crap on me.

nothing is black and white in a world filled with grey.

Wth you just made a black and white statement by saying there isnt black and white. good job. Nice circular reasoning.

[Remyo]

its like buying a car. sure if youve never driven before you can learn how and adjust the seats inside to suit you. but if you like something specific like manual vs auto or ac or power steering and the model you bought doesnt support that then youre shit outta luck.

you can change a manual to an automatic, or vice versa, and you can put in ac and power steering.


I know it was just an example but I had nothing else to do.

[Xiona]

you failed to see my sarcasam and irony. i did exactly what you did in my post and you pointed out its flaw.

your definition of whore is irrelivant. why? because who decides what a lot of people is? this is relavant to the person. to you 10 is a lot but to me its not, so who decides the standard?

comparing moral and historical fact to something that can change from person to person is stretching it a bit wouldnt you say?

all the things you pointed out are proven, the number it takes to be a whore however has not.

and actually by making the statement "nothing is black and white in a world of grey" you obviously are taking the statement literally and are missing the obvious implications. if you really want to take it literally than if the world is only grey then it is not black nor white and im still correct.

its ok im sure your vastly superior morals and intelligence will guide you to a way to protect your ego and continue to further post more "diarrhea of the mouth, and constipation of the brain"

[Axil]

I think Xiona just won

[Marsala]

Dont post a circular reasoning thought that is 100% wrong if you dont want it to be called out. Dont come back and say it wasnt literal. Why else would you have posted it? Also, dont come back and call me vastly superior. You used examples to back up your statements just as I did mine. You think your right just as much as I think I am right.

Please most of all dont play that bullshit "I am holier(sp) than thou crap on me." cause its pretty lame.

[Axil]

Dont post a circular reasoning thought that is 100% wrong if you dont want it to be called out. Dont come back and say it wasnt literal. Why else would you have posted it? Also, dont come back and call me vastly superior. You used examples to back up your statements just as I did mine. You think your right just as much as I think I am right.

Please most of all dont play that bullshit "I am holier(sp) than thou crap on me." cause its pretty lame.

Why?