Alright, I need some advice BG.

[Fayttt]

Well, for the past week or so my class has been going over an abuse unit, so I've kinda not payed attention 'cause I hate that shit. But I started to listen the last 2 or 3 days and all the shit they talk about I realize my dad actually does. Like, he calls me names and shit (lolnames, I know) and he hits me pretty often, but I figured it was just a punishment. I've basically been an emo sonofabitch for like 8 years now, but I'm realizing it's probably not me. So, I'm 16, living with a highly abusive dad, and basically can't do shit. If I report him I'll probably get everything taken from me.

So basically, I'm just wondering if anyone could lend me any advice or anything, because I really don't know what the fuck to do. (No, I'm not going to go cut myself or anything like that roflmao, I don't do that shit, but I still don't know what the fuck to do). Not much else I can say, I keep repeating myself basically >_>, anyway, does anyone have any advice maybe I can take? I've talked to like all my friends and none of them know anything I can do...

[Kiro]

You slip something in his drink, pay some homeless dudes to help you drag his unconscious body down to the docks, and put him on a boat to China or some shit!


Edit: Or go take some martial arts lessons, call him a pussy for hitting a 16 year-old, then own him when he tries to fight you for insulting him. :<

[Dezzimal]

Is it 3 stooges type hitting, or are they actual beatings? Doesn't sound highly abusive to me, more like corporal punishment which I am a supporter of.

[Tricen]

Tell your mom about it or tell your dad to lay off. If he gets bad, consult a school consuler and have him go to anger mangement.

[Fayttt]

Is it 3 stooges type hitting, or are they actual beatings? Doesn't sound highly abusive to me, more like corporal punishment which I am a supporter of.

Oh no, I watch 3 stooges, he kicks the shit out of me. Example: 2 or 3 weeks ago he kneed me in the stomach, grabbed my ear, screamed at me to get the fuck out of his house, dragged me to the door, headbutted me into a wall, picked me up and dropped me off outside. Actually, he called the cops on ME for that bullshit, he never even got in trouble. (Worst thing so far, but he does occasional serious punches to the arm/stomach along with kicking [literally] the shit out of me). I'd fight back, but I know it'd probably get me killed.

Tell your mom about it or tell your dad to lay off. If he gets bad, consult a school consuler and have him go to anger mangement.

I don't live with my mom =\ That's another flaw. I don't even know where she is. Guess I could talk to a school councelor but I really don't think it would help considering he'd be pissed when I got home from school that day..

[Tricen]

He keeps on doing it because you let him. Stand up to him, you may get hurt, but he shouldn't be neer you anyways. Baseball bat -> balls.

[cassiraa]

Really depends on how old you are, Are you old enough to realistically move out?

If not: Police. and soon. Next time he does something that leaves a scratch, bruise, or anything, tell them everything that happens, has happened, and that you fear will continue.

If you are old enough, move in with a friend, aunt, etc.

[Fayttt]

He keeps on doing it because you let him. Stand up to him, you may get hurt, but he shouldn't be neer you anyways. Baseball bat -> balls.

I guess I can try standing up to him, I usually just take his hits and shit, but I guess if it's self defense I should be allowed to hit back. I hope.

Really depends on how old you are, Are you old enough to realistically move out?

If not: Police. and soon. Next time he does something that leaves a scratch, bruise, or anything, tell them everything that happens, has happened, and that you fear will continue.

If you are old enough, move in with a friend, aunt, etc.

Yeah, that's another huge issue, last time he beat the hell out of me he called the cops on me when I still had a huge bruise on my forehead from getting headbutted, and I told them what happened..They didn't do anything at all. Actually forced me to go back inside my house.

[Tricen]

Yeah, see if you can movie in with someone. Your dad has serious issues, and you are putting yourself at risk by not doing anything.

[Natallon]

if he really tries to assault you, by all means use self-defense... and call the police.

this doesnt need to happen and he can be helped

[Headspace]

He does all of that, and you just realize he's abusive? o.O

[Fayttt]

Yeah, well my dad's 85% black [not being prejudice, im black too] and grew up in the ghetto so I figured it might've been normal..

[ozz]

Yeah, well my dad's 85% black and grew up in the ghetto so I figured it might've been normal..

eighty...five? aunt's cousin's daughters neighbor wasnt?

[Tricen]

Omg must refrain.......... So hard...

[cassiraa]

Yeah, that's another huge issue, last time he beat the hell out of me he called the cops on me when I still had a huge bruise on my forehead from getting headbutted, and I told them what happened..They didn't do anything at all. Actually forced me to go back inside my house.

Child Protective Services. [google your state with "Child Protective Services", every state has an agency]

I'd call the police again, And if they do nothing say "Can you give me the number to child protective services" so that they know you're not some person saying "daddy spanked me" Vs. "I'm seriously being abused" They probably see a lot of false-claims of abuse, and that's why they kind of scoffed and led you home, Certainly not what they should have done, as every situation should be assessed, But take it the next step to get it resolved.

[Creeps]

Yeah, well my dad's 85% black so I figured it might've been normal..

LOL

[Natallon]

Yeah, well my dad's 85% black [not being prejudice, im black too] and grew up in the ghetto so I figured it might've been normal..

its never normal to beat a child... no matter what race or background you come from its still not right...

imo anyway

[Headspace]

Yeah, well my dad's 85% black [not being prejudice, im black too] and grew up in the ghetto so I figured it might've been normal..

I think Kiro can take it from here.

[Fayttt]

I wasn't meaning anything with that black comment at all, I just realized I worded it wrong so i ninja edited it to try to fix my wording -_-. I've just heard a higher rate of abusive parents being black and shit in the stuff i learned this week -.-

[Kiro]

Rofl @ Headspace. :<

YOUR SCHOOL IS RACIST! RACIST RACIST I'M TELLING THE NAACP ON THOSE CRACKERS!