Here's the issue. In FFXI you get to endgame and then you spend 50-100 hrs worth of game time to get one piece of gear. If you're aiming for a Ridill multiple that a few times. I'm thinking in the future I'd prefer to play a game where I can actually get all of the gear for a reasonable amount of time investment.
Is it honestly more fun for you because you have to sit in Aery 20ish hours a week for a small chance at a piece of gear? I'd think it would be more fun (read: not frustrating) to do something that has definite rewards.
Some of the best gear in FFXI is really awesome and you really feel accomplished for getting it. However, is it automatically fun because it took longer to get? SE makes people play longer with time sinks rather than content. They add stuff like Salvage gear and then lol at us because it'll take such an inordinant amount of time to get full sets.