Virginity Turn ON or OFF?

[Jujubie]

FYI, for most girls there is not much blood at all and it is not really that painful. But yes, lots of emotions play into it.

[Devek]

I'm glad I am out of high school.

I really don't enjoy sex with a girl who is like OUCH! OUCH! OUCH! OUCH! OUCH! OUCH!

[Heian]

I'm glad I am out of high school.

I really don't enjoy sex with a girl who is like OUCH! OUCH! OUCH! OUCH! OUCH! OUCH!

Most guys want to hear that to make them feel better about themselves.

[MikedeeFenrir]

I'm glad I am out of high school.

I really don't enjoy sex with a girl who is like OUCH! OUCH! OUCH! OUCH! OUCH! OUCH!

L O L. I never out a OUCHER, I got the ones biting the bottom lips, crying saying to keep going. O LAWD BRB NEED TO USE BR.

[Orph]

I think its awesome because it means they don't have chlamydia.

[Blackice]

Stage 5 clingers no thank you!

Couldn't have hit it more on the head right there. I've been with both a virgin and a few who weren't. I ended up taking the virginity of the one and yeah, after that she got REALLY clingy, pulled the I love you card really quickly ect. It wasn't all that terrible because I did care for her a lot also, but if that's a common occurance after the loss of virginity for a female I'd rather not go through it again.

[-Omni]

I think its awesome because it means they don't have chlamydia.

That's one motivating factor, yes.

There is a "dominance" thing involved with taking virginity. There's also a dominance thing when a girl is licking your love pump and you can just grab her pony tail an..

Ok, enough of that.

But yeah, virgins are a turn on mostly in the primal dominance sense that guys have. Most guys won't brag about banging some slut because chances are they're bragging to someone that banged her before him. And that's just...

[finale23]

i am surprised so many of you find virgins a turn-on. there is nothing to it besides the ego boost, which doesn't prepare you for the weeks or months of emotional attachments coming your way. that or you want to fulfill some sort of closet fetish or fantasy.

[Beckwin]

Just because a virgin is a turn on doesn't mean a non-virgin is a turn off. While its definitely immature to think that women shouldn't enjoy and pursue sex, the bottom line is that no one wants to ride the village bicycle. Guys like the idea that a girl doesn't sleep around a lot (however hypocritical that makes the guy depends on the person)- that she only gives it to someone "special" or w/e. This is probably something guys don't like to admit, but it is a good feeling to actually mean something to the girl. To some guys that feeling is more important than others. So on one end of the spectrum, you have the village bicycle, and on the other, you have the virgin. I don't think many guys have their attraction centered on either extreme, but it looks like quite a lot lean more toward the virginal end of the spectrum.

[Axil]

Just because a virgin is a turn on doesn't mean a non-virgin is a turn off. While its definitely immature to think that women shouldn't enjoy and pursue sex, the bottom line is that no one wants to ride the village bicycle. Guys like the idea that a girl doesn't sleep around a lot (however hypocritical that makes the guy depends on the person)- that she only gives it to someone "special" or w/e. This is probably something guys don't like to admit, but it is a good feeling to actually mean something to the girl. To some guys that feeling is more important than others. So on one end of the spectrum, you have the village bicycle, and on the other, you have the virgin. I don't think many guys have their attraction centered on either extreme, but it looks like quite a lot lean more toward the virginal end of the spectrum.

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[finale23]

Just because a virgin is a turn on doesn't mean a non-virgin is a turn off. While its definitely immature to think that women shouldn't enjoy and pursue sex, the bottom line is that no one wants to ride the village bicycle. Guys like the idea that a girl doesn't sleep around a lot (however hypocritical that makes the guy depends on the person)- that she only gives it to someone "special" or w/e. This is probably something guys don't like to admit, but it is a good feeling to actually mean something to the girl. To some guys that feeling is more important than others. So on one end of the spectrum, you have the village bicycle, and on the other, you have the virgin. I don't think many guys have their attraction centered on either extreme, but it looks like quite a lot lean more toward the virginal end of the spectrum.

touché, though i think alot of guys fail to gauge the magnitude of all the consequent emotional baggages arising from sleeping with virgins. unless you have been in a prolonged dryspell, proceed with extreme caution.

Stage 5 clingers no thank you!

qft

[Boyiee]

virgin is turn off for me, it's just not as fun.

If it's a girlfriend or wife, then there is alot more passion so its irrelevant. But if it's just some fling nothing really serious, i guess i rather them to have some experience because they will need it

[Demosthenes]

If it's a girlfriend or wife, then there is alot more passion so its irrelevant.

I only sleep with people I'm in a relationship with.

[skurlover]

virgin is turn off for me, it's just not as fun.

If it's a girlfriend or wife, then there is alot more passion so its irrelevant. But if it's just some fling nothing really serious, i guess i rather them to have some experience because they will need it

Good luck taking virginity on one-night stands unless she is really drunk/high etc., but in that case, you should know better.

So I would think that most women (especially ones I know/have taken their virginity) were in a relationship of some type before they lost it.

[bebeci]

virgin is turn off for me, it's just not as fun.

If it's a girlfriend or wife, then there is alot more passion so its irrelevant. But if it's just some fling nothing really serious, i guess i rather them to have some experience because they will need it

Good luck taking virginity on one-night stands unless she is really drunk/high etc., but in that case, you should know better.

Hey there jailbait.

[Carbon]

Women should be required to break their own hymen before allowed to have sexual intercourse.

Any amount of blood involved in intercourse is a major, nasty turn off, man or woman.

End of story.

[skurlover]

Women should be required to break their own hymen before allowed to have sexual intercourse.

Any amount of blood involved in intercourse is a major, nasty turn off, man or woman.

End of story.

Lemme guess, your next statement is that all of us guys should have something stuck in our ass before we go around asking our girlfriends for anal?

[Carbon]

If it means there isn't going to be blood all over my penis, then yes.

[Kross]

Women should be required to break their own hymen before allowed to have sexual intercourse.

Any amount of blood involved in intercourse is a major, nasty turn off, man or woman.

End of story.

but blood from an anus is ok? riiiiiiiight...

I've never had sex with a virgin but it's somethign I'd like to experience...

[Nirokun!]

Women should be required to break their own hymen before allowed to have sexual intercourse.

Any amount of blood involved in intercourse is a major, nasty turn off, man or woman.

End of story.

Lemme guess, your next statement is that all of us guys should have something stuck in our ass before we go around asking our girlfriends for anal?

lol

(Yes.)