How young is too young to get a lap dance?

[Talus]

I'm just curious about this. I think the earlier the better, how about 12?

http://community.livejournal.com/ohnoth ... 47259.html

[Exoduso]

lucky kid?

[DarktaruFM]

if youre aware of your sexuality, i see no problem with lapdances, or sex itself. The problem relies where you do it responsibly (which a LOT of people, even adults, dont have)

Its just parents who are so overprotective.

[Quicklet]

I'm sure if he had a 12 year old daughter who was giving lapdances to an adult man, you would all be saying the same thing right?

[Tricen]

I dunno, I don't think a kid should be desensitized at that young of an age <_<.

[DarktaruFM]

I dunno, I don't think a kid should be desensitized at that young of an age <_<.

ellaborate

[Kuya]

I'm sure if he had a 12 year old daughter who was giving lapdances to an adult man, you would all be saying the same thing right?

COME FROM BEHIND PSYCHO BITCH SLAP

[DarktaruFM]

I'm sure if he had a 12 year old daughter who was giving lapdances to an adult man, you would all be saying the same thing right?

if she would be getting the lapdance maybe not. if she was giving then were talking about some serious mental disorder. (yes, im saying shes mentally not right)

The chances of that happening are very slim to none at the very best. Male and female have very different interests at that age. Girls are usually albeit slightly more mature than males.

Males want to experience, so do females, BUT, males just dont care who is it with and females on the other hand, usually want a boyfriend or someone close since usually, are more shy about these issues (yes, heres the whore concept coming to mind. They're afraid of been called a whore and therefore become shy and dont tell anyone but their close friends about the subject)

of course this all comes with maturity and is normal amongs kids that age, yet not 100% accurate. Theres 12y/o kids whi still dontcare about that issue and therefore shouldnt have the lapdances.

[gandorf]

That is one lucky boy. Getting lap dances when he is 12 by an older woman. I wish i was diddys son that is almost 100% sure thing your gonna get laid early on in life because of it.

[Totien]

The chick in the top pic is ugly as sin.

[Kaylia]

I dont think that alone would change anything in the end, but when you consider the lifestyle of someone who get lapdance at 12...there is something wrong. I've no doubt he is spoiled in every possible way, and that might be a problem eventually

[BRP]

if she would be getting the lapdance maybe not. if she was giving then were talking about some serious mental disorder. (yes, im saying shes mentally not right)

Oh, but you know, a women 18 or above giving a 12-year old boy a lapdance is perfectly sane.

[Koyuki]

I'm just curious about this. I think the earlier the better, how about 12?

http://community.livejournal.com/ohnoth ... 47259.html

Jesus Christ I would atleast imagine P.Diddy could get GOOD looking girls to give his son a lap dance.

[markasstrick]

as long as they can get hard why not

[Creeps]

Man, this thread is full of stupid.

[Halleberry]

I'm pretty sure diddy didnt encourage the lap dance. Theres a youtube video of a few of his kids and friends dancing, the lil kids can dance, but they all have a cockiness to them that says they do wtf they want regardless of what daddy says. Besides there father is diddy. diddy, who parties harder than him?

[Tricen]

I dunno, I don't think a kid should be desensitized at that young of an age <_<.

ellaborate

At 12 you should be into Yu Gi Oh and and who's dad can beat up someone else's. But Since our media is disgusting, and our parents don't really care anymore, kids are learning about things they shouldn't have to even worry about at younger and younger ages. I mean, a parents should inform a kid about this stuff, but with that kind of teaching ethics, that parent is seriously flawed.

What Darktaru FM wrote

If a parent ALLOWS a 12 year old girl, to give/receive a lap dance. Then it's not the girls fault. You can't classify that as a mental disorder.. That's just bad parenting. It also has to do with the thoughts behind it, at 12, girls just want attention, they may or may not know about sex, but they are pretty much attention whores. But what it really boils down to is how parents chose to desensitize their kids.

[6souls]

kid got lucky, but those women are ugly. But hey, if you lower your standards, every girl is tapable, even the cripples.

[DarktaruFM]

I dunno, I don't think a kid should be desensitized at that young of an age <_<.

ellaborate

At 12 you should be into Yu Gi Oh and and who's dad can beat up someone else's. But Since our media is disgusting, and our parents don't really care anymore, kids are learning about things they shouldn't have to even worry about at younger and younger ages. I mean, a parents should inform a kid about this stuff, but with that kind of teaching ethics, that parent is seriously flawed.

What Darktaru FM wrote

If a parent ALLOWS a 12 year old girl, to give/receive a lap dance. Then it's not the girls fault. You can't classify that as a mental disorder.. That's just bad parenting. It also has to do with the thoughts behind it, at 12, girls just want attention, they may or may not know about sex, but they are pretty much attention whores. But what it really boils down to is how parents chose to desensitize their kids.

receive i dont really think its that important, giving on the other hand, talks bad about parenting since that girls young age.


my main point is, if theyre old enough to undersand the concept of sex, i should see no problem with it. It isnt really about desensitizing the kids if the kids are already aware. The problem has more to do with the responsability of sex, as i said before.

[Alleya]

I'm sure if he had a 12 year old daughter who was giving lapdances to an adult man, you would all be saying the same thing right?

if she would be getting the lapdance maybe not. if she was giving then were talking about some serious mental disorder. (yes, im saying shes mentally not right)

The chances of that happening are very slim to none at the very best. Male and female have very different interests at that age. Girls are usually albeit slightly more mature than males.

Males want to experience, so do females, BUT, males just dont care who is it with and females on the other hand, usually want a boyfriend or someone close since usually, are more shy about these issues (yes, heres the whore concept coming to mind. They're afraid of been called a whore and therefore become shy and dont tell anyone but their close friends about the subject)

of course this all comes with maturity and is normal amongs kids that age, yet not 100% accurate. Theres 12y/o kids whi still dontcare about that issue and therefore shouldnt have the lapdances.

Sexist double standard? Check.

Sweeping generalizations? Check.

Sweeping generalizations disregard basic psychology? Check.

A little boy being aware of sexuality = lolcool lucky him

A little girl being aware of sexuality = OMG MENTAL DISORDER

Go curl up on an issue of Slap The Bitch monthly and die a lonely, loveless death, you sexist piece of shit.

This isn't acceptable no matter which way you spin it. There are too many risks and complications involved in seuxal activity for it to be acceptable among people who aren't mature enough to consider the implications and consequences of their actions. Kids simply do not posess the foresight needed to be engaging in this sort of behaviour and are only setting themselves up for disaster and dysfunction. There is a difference between being "aware" of it and actually comprehending the physical, emotional, and life-long consequences.