OP, this is the standard toau HNM experience for brd. I'm not sure if hydra is susceptible to elegy at all, but no matter how good your gear or merits is you will not be able to stick it reliably to cerb or khim without elemental seal. I did 4/4 singing/wind merits, AF+1 hands, AF+1 legs, AF2 head, wind torque, singing/musical ears, etc, and still it took a while to get elegy on. Once it's there it will stick for a good while luckily. If you have a lot of people bring brd/blm(s) for troub+ES, if not go brd/whm and just keep at it. Just watch your hate, it will pile up eventually if you aren't careful, especially if you are the only bard there.
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