Guys, what would you do?

[Norelco]

Give her the Danza slap.

[pimpp]

u guys have fucked up "best friends". if u think ur best friend(s) wouldnt believe something u told them, then i feel sry for u. if any of my very close friends came up to me w/ something like that, id believe em for sure and i know theyd be the same way.

anywayz, tell her ur not interested and that u think its kinda fucked up. if she persists then its obviously she wants to do more than just flirt. call her scum and let her know that its her last chance. next tell ur friend. if he truly is ur friend, he'll believe u and /eventually/ thank u for it.

[Swampthing]

Whether she was flirting with you because she was interested in your body or not, she will still turn around and make you feel stupid for thinking she liked you if you tell her you don't feel comfortable with it. Because that is her natural defense mechanism.

If she was interested in your body, then telling her you didn't want her to flirt with you anymore would be insulting, and she would then feel the need to retaliate by making you feel like you made a mistake that you need to be sorry for. If she is not interested in your body and the way this girl is accustomed to interacting with members of the opposite gender gives you the vibe that she is flirting with you, and you tell her you don't want her to flirt with you, she will not understand what you are talking about; and she will most likely then keep the impression of you that you are not much fun, and certainly not someone she can relax and be herself around.

The solution, if you feel that your friend has a strong enough bond with you that he would be able to accept what you say, would be to casually pass by him that she seems to have a rather interactive, or flirtatious personality. But you should not make it appear that this concerns you, or that you think it to be a problem. Pass this observation out should the opportunity arise where she is mentioned in casual conversation.

If you feel that your friend would become defensive about this point even in the midst of friendly, casual conversation, then it would be best to say nothing to either party until she made it clear to you, and importantly witnesses, that her intentions went beyond the mere fun of a casually flirtatious conversation.

[Syn]

Do her, film it, post it on the internet, and let your friend find it himself.

Remember to link it here.

[Swampthing]

Remember to link it here.

[Orph]

Tell her you're gay.

[xingoo]

Do the money trick.

Seriously, tell him or her, either way should work out fine.

[Daahan]

If you don't tell him, then he's not your best friend and you're not his best friend.

[Swampthing]

Seriously, tell him or her, either way should work out fine.

seriously, don't tell her. and only tell him if the requirements I laid out before are met.

xingoo clearly does not have extensive experience on this matter.

[Jeryhn]

I like Devek's idea best.

[SupHammer]

Dude it's flirting.... Flirting is nothing, I flirt with all my friend's girls, all my girl's friends all my co-workers, in fact, with anyone I can. When you take it to the next level and you two secretly meet up for quickies then you have a problem (if you want to call it that).

[Swampthing]

damn quickies are the next level up from flirting where you live? fuck, i was born in the wrong part of the country...

[Xiona]

last i checked flirting is woven into our behavior as social beings. there is a fine line to it though. i flirt all the time, even in a relationship except i dont have intent on getting naked with said people.

its a sign of attraction and you can have that for others, so long as you arent eriously thinking about going through with it. my suggestion;

act normally with her, dont make attempts to not flirt that can only make it worse. just be natural. if she attempts to take it a step up from flirting to reality then thats when you push her away and notify your friend.

if anyone has a problem with their partners flirting behavior they shouldnt be mad at them, they should be looking at themselves to find out why theyre insecure by thinking theyll lose someone by a meager flirt

[Manako]

The solution, if you feel that your friend has a strong enough bond with you that he would be able to accept what you say, would be to casually pass by him that she seems to have a rather interactive, or flirtatious personality. But you should not make it appear that this concerns you, or that you think it to be a problem. Pass this observation out should the opportunity arise where she is mentioned in casual conversation.

You can never tell if you are just being sensitive, so this idea in my opinion works the best. If he doesn't believe you now, at least down the road if anything happens he might trust you in the future, and it doesn't come off as being too serious.

[Jefe]

Assuming you aren't getting "mixed signals." Bleh, easy... Do what's 'right.' If you can't differentiate from what's right (ethical etc.) and wrong (lack of ethics, moral mumbo jumbo) then my confused poster, you have bigger fish to fry.

[Miji]

First, ask yourself, "What would Jesus do?"

He'd totally do her, and so should you.

[Xfaustx]

tag team her

[Swampthing]

tag team her

Hypothetical situation or not, it wasn't a joke question. So taking you serious right now, I would have to say that if you tag teamed her with your friend, then he really didn't care about this girl the way the OP described. So no, you wouldn't tag team her in this situation...

[layoneil]

is there anyone that believes

This is a hypothetical situation.

cause i sure don't.

anyway listen to Swampthing.

[Aviendha]

If she crosses any lines with blatantly trying to get with you, then you tell your friend. Until then, it's really not worth bringing up anything that might sour your relationship with him.

As for the girl, just stay above it and don't put up with it. You don't even need to "have a talk" with her or specificly say anything. Just take a few extra steps to be outright that you're not even interested in putting up with her flirting, let alone where those advances would lead. She tries to put her arm on you or something, brush it off. She makes a sexual remark, blow her off with a disinterested reply. She tries to hug you when she leaves, find ways to avoid her or be cold and unwelcoming about it~ i.e. the side hug and don't even look at her.

Eventually she'll take a hint.