fuck you

[khain]

rape?

[Heian]

When she said she wasn't interested in a relationship, she obviously meant it. Why are you mad again? If that's all you were interested in then you should have let her go then and there. It's your fault for continuing to spend your time/money with her when she told you she wasn't interested in the first place -_-

I agree fucking QQ a little more.

Life sucks, learn your lesson and move on.

[Demosthenes]

http://www.bash.org/?414593

women suck. the end!

If they were not soft, nice smelling and cuddly I'd fucking be asexual! DAMN THEM TO HELL! They are like fucking crack ;_;

[khain]

that was hilarious XD

[Genosync]

http://www.bash.org/?414593

women suck. the end!

If they were not soft, nice smelling and cuddly I'd fucking be asexual! DAMN THEM TO HELL! They are like fucking crack ;_;

wow. nice link.

[miokomioko]

I think in the end, she did you a favor by basically telling you not to waste years of your life and money trying to build a future with her only to be dumped on your ass because she "doesn't know what she wants" 7 years down the road.

[Xiona]

5 dates, all paid by me, the $ I spent is enough to buy a brand new top of the line video card and then some, Known each other for a while, told her how I felt on the 3rd date, she said she doesnt want to commit to anything because she's going back to her family/whatever far away but i'm awesome and good bf material. I play her game and we go out 2 more times (which make up the #5) and we have a blast, all on me...........


If I show you i'm interested in you, have proven to be able to take care of you, I'm more than generous and not a cheap bastard, love to go out and have a good time and you say "Well you can't" when I ask to kiss you


Fuck you


I'll just spend my time finding another chick who's more open and realizes whats in front of her than living in the past.


/rant


Yes, she's good looking, awesome body, into computers and video games, but obviously too stupid to realize whats in front of her.

#1 you dont ask a girl if you can kiss her, thats utterly lame. if the moment is right then just go for it, the most that she'll do is that pull away move and then you can go "my bad" and deal with it.

there are many factors to a good date; if the date is going like it should, she'll after a little resistance, say ok to you paying for X and offer to take care of the next activity and actually smile and thank you.

its not about being sexist, its about the mental acceptance of someone offering you something. its just a societal script on dating, and if the woman is not interested she will attempt in anyway to deviate from that script. when a woman goes on a date not only does she have to worry about the same stuff as you, but she is also pressured to give out the "right" message.

by you telling her how you feel you put un-needed pressures on an already stressful situation. you further add insult to injury by having the climate of "im paying for all this so its all about me", i mean she even told you she could not get involved and yet you still pushed forward. if anything you werent getting the message at all and were to wrapped up in what you wanted as opposed to what she needed.

she may think youre great boyfriend material, she may like you a lot but there are factors that are very important to her and weighing heavily on her choice. relationships are all about timing and right now you are both on seperate pages.

i dont think youre ready for a serious relationship to be honest. you have some growing up to do in terms of emotions and what a relationship is really about. the last thing it involves in money and that seems to be the #1 thing youre talking about.

:::::Summary:::::
If the date is going the way it should, youll feel it. youll feel it when you both click when you talk, laugh and everything will flow. WORDS TO TELL THEM HOW YOU FEEL ARE NOT NEEDED YET. kissing is an art form, build up and tension play a key role in its timing. girls give out cues on if they want a kiss or not, be observant and look for them. asking is a cop out unless done in a clever way for example;

there was a girl i started to date and it was obvious we were both interested. i noticed the "kiss me" signs but i teased her about them in obvious ways (non verbal) like when id go to say good night id go in like i was going to kiss her but turn into a hug etc. i let the tension build for a few dates until finally i used shock factor and said "So are you going to kiss me or what?" with a big smile on my face.

go into every date saying to yourself, "we're just going to hang out for a bit and nothing is going to happen". EVEN if its obvious something is going to happen, be blatently oblivious to what is going to happen. it helps you keep your cool and youre more likely to not burst out with something like "HAY YEW WANNA KESS NAO".

if i missed anything, i dont care. this is already a huge wall of text haha.

[Syn]

Adopt my rule, it's useful.

Total amount money to be spent on a girl = No of years going out * $100

Never overspend.

[Cheerios]

What do you mean "As if you're one to talk on these boards" ?

I mean advice about attention-whoring / taking advantage of generosity should come from people, who, you know, don't have a history of doing those things.

F5 F5 F5 F5

[Saphirea]

If it has a clit it's crazy as shit.

[Talus]

Maybe I'm old-fashioned but I think that whoever invites the other person out should probably have the courtesy to pay for a day or evening's activities. I don't think it should always be on the guy. This situation should be applicable to everything, whether it is a pair of friends going out for dinner & drinks, a movie, or a first/second/third date between a new couple, or whatever awkward situation in between.

One thing I do notice is some people (both men and women) are more likely to accept a free meal from someone that is showering unrequited attention and interest on them than others. It is a little misleading I would think, because when the person asked them out, I don't think there was a lot of gray area surrounding their intentions. The problem is when people aren't honest, but both men and women can be guilty of that.

P.S. Exception to the "who pays" rule: it is totally cool for the person in a group or pair who makes more money to pay ALL the time, or at least 75% of the time. Example: if you work in a law firm, and go out to lunch, it's cool if a partner wants to pay for it instead of a secretary or associate.

[Koyuki]

She should have atleast given you a blowjob.

[markasstrick]

a few years ago i had sex with this girl after a few dates, and i was really starting to like her. then i try to call her all next day and she doesnt pick up, so i try a few more times, then she picks up and hangs up, turns out she had a boyfriend.

moral of the story:

Zigma, all girls are bitches. All of them. You should realize this before you go after them. Once you realize this you won't be so let down next time.

[Bartylby]

*edit*

i'm a moron. wrong post lol

[Mr.City]

Maybe it's time you become a member of No Ma'am.

[Zigma]

5 dates, all paid by me, the $ I spent is enough to buy a brand new top of the line video card and then some, Known each other for a while, told her how I felt on the 3rd date, she said she doesnt want to commit to anything because she's going back to her family/whatever far away but i'm awesome and good bf material. I play her game and we go out 2 more times (which make up the #5) and we have a blast, all on me...........


If I show you i'm interested in you, have proven to be able to take care of you, I'm more than generous and not a cheap bastard, love to go out and have a good time and you say "Well you can't" when I ask to kiss you


Fuck you


I'll just spend my time finding another chick who's more open and realizes whats in front of her than living in the past.


/rant


Yes, she's good looking, awesome body, into computers and video games, but obviously too stupid to realize whats in front of her.

#1 you dont ask a girl if you can kiss her, thats utterly lame. if the moment is right then just go for it, the most that she'll do is that pull away move and then you can go "my bad" and deal with it.

there are many factors to a good date; if the date is going like it should, she'll after a little resistance, say ok to you paying for X and offer to take care of the next activity and actually smile and thank you.

its not about being sexist, its about the mental acceptance of someone offering you something. its just a societal script on dating, and if the woman is not interested she will attempt in anyway to deviate from that script. when a woman goes on a date not only does she have to worry about the same stuff as you, but she is also pressured to give out the "right" message.

by you telling her how you feel you put un-needed pressures on an already stressful situation. you further add insult to injury by having the climate of "im paying for all this so its all about me", i mean she even told you she could not get involved and yet you still pushed forward. if anything you werent getting the message at all and were to wrapped up in what you wanted as opposed to what she needed.

she may think youre great boyfriend material, she may like you a lot but there are factors that are very important to her and weighing heavily on her choice. relationships are all about timing and right now you are both on seperate pages.

i dont think youre ready for a serious relationship to be honest. you have some growing up to do in terms of emotions and what a relationship is really about. the last thing it involves in money and that seems to be the #1 thing youre talking about.

:::::Summary:::::
If the date is going the way it should, youll feel it. youll feel it when you both click when you talk, laugh and everything will flow. WORDS TO TELL THEM HOW YOU FEEL ARE NOT NEEDED YET. kissing is an art form, build up and tension play a key role in its timing. girls give out cues on if they want a kiss or not, be observant and look for them. asking is a cop out unless done in a clever way for example;

there was a girl i started to date and it was obvious we were both interested. i noticed the "kiss me" signs but i teased her about them in obvious ways (non verbal) like when id go to say good night id go in like i was going to kiss her but turn into a hug etc. i let the tension build for a few dates until finally i used shock factor and said "So are you going to kiss me or what?" with a big smile on my face.

go into every date saying to yourself, "we're just going to hang out for a bit and nothing is going to happen". EVEN if its obvious something is going to happen, be blatently oblivious to what is going to happen. it helps you keep your cool and youre more likely to not burst out with something like "HAY YEW WANNA KESS NAO".

if i missed anything, i dont care. this is already a huge wall of text haha.

wow, all I can do is laugh at this. I understand what you're saying and I agree with it but in this situation it called for it. I played the cards right, trust me. Not all situations are text book written. I went to sleep yesterday and what woke me up now is her calling me 2 times on my cell..

[Zigma]

3 times now...

[Rammses]

Maybe she had a bad day.

[Xiona]

i call my friends all the time, doesnt mean i wanna "be" with them.

dating is more of a text book deal than you think, psychologically speaking. sure the situations change but the fundamental rituals and scripts we follow vary very little.

set your boundaries and enforce them, she sounds to be taking advantage of you which isnt good at all. i obviously dont know the full story nor have i seen the situation so i know there are plenty of places i can be at fault.

[Kwijiboe]

She clearly said no, dude. Did you seriously buy her presents? When I read your post I imagine you sitting there at your computer jerking off and crying. When she told you no on the third date, you should have worked towards finding out what you had signed up for. That would have been the perfect time to confront her-- however, it seems like all you wanted to do was fuck her so I don't know if you could have adequately handled that situation in the first place.

I, personally, don't think guys can be friends with girls. Plenty of the fish in the sea. Dime a dozen. blah blah blah. I'd say 'feel better' but posting on this subject in a public forum for some sort of sympathy is as low as you can get. What you need is a real friend, and a real friend would tell you to grow the fuck up.