I'm in a "Old Folks" Kinship. The youngest are in the mid 20s with some people 50+. The server I'm on seems to be the unofficial Old Folks server, but it seems to be a more mature population across the board.Originally Posted by solsovly
The community so far seems rather nice in general too. Not a lot of general asshatery so far. It's early in the game's life though and there's not a fully fleshed out end game with Uber Lootz so we'll see if that holds on. For now most people seem to enjoy exploring things & being noobs together to get things done. It's a pleasant change.
Parties & grouping so far is very flexible. Each job brings something to the table, but none of them are truly a must have. A Minstrel (best healer) is a good idea, but other than that you can handle most anything that isn't obviously over-levelled with a group of friends playing whatever.
Higher level content or especially nasty quests vs. truly hard hitting mobs will require specific setups with true tanks (Guardian) and dedicated healers (Minstrel) but at lower levels there's at least one other job that can fill roles well for any task.
If you want to try it out you can still find a torrent of the Beta out there. It will patch itself to the full version. Get someone here to send you the buddy pass and you can try it out for 2 weeks for free.
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