If he's younger than 10, you shouldn't be worrying about it now. Let him be a kid, and enjoy his childhood. He doesn't need any shit.
And really, cut the emotional typing. I hear a real whiny bitch.
If he's younger than 10, you shouldn't be worrying about it now. Let him be a kid, and enjoy his childhood. He doesn't need any shit.
And really, cut the emotional typing. I hear a real whiny bitch.
This is stupid... so what if he's gay? And he's not even 10 according to you, they all have the "gay talk" cus their voices are still squeaky.
And are you trying to break a record or something with all these topics?
It is normal for boys to be a little.. fruity that age and even show limited interest in other boys.
As long as nothing traumatic happens that stunts his psychological growth he will grow out of it. You should probably stay away from him though, children can be quite the victim of their environment and they need to spend time with people more.. adjusted.
All these topics, huh?Originally Posted by Exoduso
Let's take a look and see that the two topics I've made today are the only ones I've made since everything got deleted in the hack/server fuck up/whatever, I don't really remember what happened.
I meant more in the direction of the weirdness of your posts today... an 8 year old boy liking to hang with other boys can't really be considered gay you know... and even if he was, why do you care so much?
I think I've made it pretty clear why I care.Originally Posted by Exoduso
I'm the only semi-normal one in my family, so I'm the only one that he could turn to if he doesn't want to turn out totally fucked.
One half of my family is a bunch of hicks, the other half is the extremely liberal type that has lived in California. It seems as if the family that lives around has actually been urging me to turn homosexual over the years, even though I'm nothing but straight. Not to mention the fact that they're convinced I'm a drug addict and they keep trying to get me to do drugs, although the worst I do is drink alcohol.
Either side of the family he turns to is going to have problems.
I fucking hate my family, and I'm getting out as soon as possible. I hate having to see all my siblings getting warped and twisted and knowing there isn't anything I can do about it.
I feel sorry for your family.Originally Posted by Krye
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lol you make it sound like it's really horrible...
But either way, what if he is gay? it's not like there's an off switch that can just turn him to normal... he's eventually going to have to deal with it anyways.
I haven't considered any solutions yet, and the more I consider it, the bleaker the outcome looks.Originally Posted by Exoduso
Lol krye, seriously...just stop posting.Originally Posted by Krye
ok
Define.. normal.
Some of my extended family is rather hickish too, but I don't cut myself and cry over it...
There is no SOLUTION. The kid is 8, he is normal and nothing is wrong with him. 8 year old boys have no sexuality at all.
You're the last person on the face of the planet that should be meddling with someones psychology.
Originally Posted by Krye
You make it sound like it's the end of the world for him if he's gay...
Seriously he's 8, you shouldn't worry about it, and if it turns out he's gay that's for him to deal with. Life goes on.
I can't believe everyones bashing this guy who is doing nothing but trying to be nice and help his cousin.
Originally Posted by Black Symphony
He isn't trying to help at all, just attention whoring and/or possibly hurting his cousin. Go read a few books on child development.Originally Posted by Keno
You should just stop embarassing yourself, the more you post the more it gets worse... what are they going to do to him, shoot him in the face if he's gay?
I mean seriously, even if it was a big deal to them, he's fucking 8 years old and you're trying to figure out ways to "un-gay" him, and it just sounds ludicrous. 8 year old boys don't like girls anyways, let the kid live his life and leave him alone (and more importantly, don't fucking talk to him about this..)
And Keno there's nothing to help, he's EIGHT.
It all makes sense now.Originally Posted by Keno
I take it you think when I said "help his cousin" you think I meant "make his cousin not gay" or something of the like? Well I certainly didn't. I meant he was trying to help his cousin by shielding them from the harmful people in his family. Yes, you're all right, theres nothing you can do to the boy to change him whatsoever, but that doesn't mean he can't be concerned for his wellbeing and try and talk to his family about it for the sake of his cousin.Originally Posted by Kuya
He doesn't even know how old the kid is..