Opinions from married men needed

[Intense]

Lets say you were out of town and your wife were to go out to eat with an old friend who happens to be a guy:

would you allow it?
would you trust her and therefore not care either way?
would you only allow it if you were present (i.e. wait until your back )?
would you expect her to say no?
would you make her say no?

This is a bit vague, but opinions are appreciated. Ill prob elaborate more when I get home from work.

[Popeh]

Lets say you were out of town and your wife were to go out to eat with an old friend who happens to be a guy:

would you allow it? Yes - She's gonna go if you do or don't.
would you trust her and therefore not care either way? If I married her, yes.
would you only allow it if you were present (i.e. wait until your back )? No.
would you expect her to say no? No.
would you make her say no? No.

This is a bit vague, but opinions are appreciated. Ill prob elaborate more when I get home from work.

Relationships work on trust, lust is only temporary.

If you don;t trust your wife, then it's most likely going to not reach 5 year anniversary.

imo

[Eaglestrike]

I'm not married (I've been engaged before though) but I'd be fine with it unless I really didn't trust the guy.

[Creeps]

Oh God, not this shit again!

[Remyo]

expect someone to troll and say she's going to bang him, hard.

[thestalkmore]

She's going to bang him, hard.

[XxSlusherxx]

I'm not married, but I can tell you, a boyfriend refusing to let an old friend of mine hang out with me caused the end of a relationship, we weren't planning on cheating, and we haven't gotten together or anything since then. He just had to go and be a duche and it cost him.

p.s. going to bang him, hard etc etc

[dilbert]

let her hang out with him, just follow them

[Obev]

You already obviously don't trust your wife so your marriage is doomed.

This person speaks vast quantities of truth. If you can't trust her to keep her clothes on with an old friend while you're out of town, you've either A) made a serious error in choosing to marry her, or B) got some serious trust issues to work out.

[Awoir]

She's going to bang him, hard.

[Shuemue]

You already obviously don't trust your wife so your marriage is doomed.

This person speaks vast quantities of truth. If you can't trust her to keep her clothes on with an old friend while you're out of town, you've either A) made a serious error in choosing to marry her, or B) got some serious trust issues to work out.

The Englishman speaks with wisdom.

[Zanz L. Barre The 3rd]

Uh, you shouldn't really be concerned unless you don't trust your wife. If you're gonna' argue that "you do" trust her, than don't expect us to answer your question.

[Charla]

Lets say you were out of town and your wife were to go out to eat with an old friend who happens to be a guy:

would you allow it?
would you trust her and therefore not care either way?
would you only allow it if you were present (i.e. wait until your back )?
would you expect her to say no?
would you make her say no?

This is a bit vague, but opinions are appreciated. Ill prob elaborate more when I get home from work.

She's going to bang him, hard.

The real question: which one of these posters in being more misogynistic?

[Remyo]

Lets say you were out of town and your wife were to go out to eat with an old friend who happens to be a guy:

would you allow it?
would you trust her and therefore not care either way?
would you only allow it if you were present (i.e. wait until your back )?
would you expect her to say no?
would you make her say no?

This is a bit vague, but opinions are appreciated. Ill prob elaborate more when I get home from work.

She's going to bang him, hard.

The real question: which one of these posters in being more misogynistic?

silly, people arent food.



j/k I know it means hating on womenz.

[Obev]

Lets say you were out of town and your wife were to go out to eat with an old friend who happens to be a guy:

would you allow it?
would you trust her and therefore not care either way?
would you only allow it if you were present (i.e. wait until your back )?
would you expect her to say no?
would you make her say no?

This is a bit vague, but opinions are appreciated. Ill prob elaborate more when I get home from work.

She's going to bang him, hard.

The real question: which one of these posters in being more misogynistic?

On that note, I give you a misogyny-inspired joke.

What has a man done wrong when his woman walks out of the kitchen and slaps him in the face?

Made her chain too long.

[Intense]

Oh God, not this shit again!

Its really not, I just hate having to revolve my schedule around when HE is avaliable when I want to hang out with her. It has nothing to do with anything more than wanting to hang out with an old friend I never get to see. I'm not going to try anything, I didnt even try anything last time.

Ok, now for the cliffnoted backstory. This will may change peoples answers. The "old friend who happens to be a guy" is me.

Theres a girl who used to like me. We were really close friend but I turned her down (a whole nother thread why I did this). As a result she got with this guy and they ended up getting married. Fastforward, 2(?) years. I go out to vegas, we (including him) meet up at a club, shes flirty with me, feeling me up and letting me do the same, he sees it (i think? how could he not, we danced most the night), doesnt really do anything but gets really passive agressive. I dont think i stepped out of line, we were both super drunk but i never made any moves.

Fast foward to now, shes coming out to California at the end of the month so i say lets get some sushi, she says more or less hed have to be there. hes only going to be out for like 2-3 days so now i have to change my schedule around to when hell be here. i think its retarded because although hes a nice guy, hes not really my friend.

Hearing the story, what do people think? I really just wanna hang out and catch up. I think its silly...

[Eaglestrike]

So most of what this guy remembers about you is how you and his wife were feeling each other up, while he was right there? And you're surprised/shocked he doesn't like the idea of you two being together? I go back to my answer, it depends on how I feel about the guy, and if I was the husband in this instance I'd 1) Know I married the wrong girl for me and 2) Not want you around my wife.

[Ryko]

Sounds like someone got himself a housewife.

[Intense]

Technically I dont know that he saw it, and I also dont know if he knows she used to like me and wanted to be with me. So while I can put 2 and 2 together, I dont officially know if he knows all of this.

I'm not so much suprised, just annoyed. Because I know that shes an independent person by nature and its not like her to "ask" to do things. She usually wears the pants.

[Tyche]

Been with my fiancee for 7 years, so i'm practically married. I think it's a legit question. I wouldn't let her hang out with an ex-boyfriend who I didn't know, or some guy I've never met. Even if she claimed to have known him in the past, I'd be weary of someone she's not had contact with for a number of years. Not really anything to do with her cheating, but a fear for what people are capable of doing to unsuspecting women.