Opinions from married men needed

[Skyylya]

Yeah yeah yeah... maybe he does have reason to not want me and her alone. I agreed to schedule it during him being around.

I still maintain its more her he should be pissed at!! Shes the one who truly disrespected him, I was just the innocent piece of meat . To add another thing, the day after she calls me hungover to schedule another get together for that night and were talking about random shit and she goes into a complaining rant about him. Who knows... Women.

You're not an innoncent piece of anything. You're knowlingly putting yourself into a position where it could get out of hand with a married woman who you've already had it get out of hand when her husband was easily within eyesight. Clearly he knows, clearly it bothers him and the only reason that he's not flying out there to pummel you is he's either more of a man than you, or just much smaller.

If i saw another man groping my fiancee in front of my face, he'd be broken and she'd be on my shit list(if she was going along with it like your chick). But I don't care if you think you're just the 'innocent piece of meat' you should know better and it's just as much you he should be pissed at as her, difference is he can feel good about hitting you and has every right to.

It'd be one thing if you two were best friends growing up, never was interested in each other and this guy was trying to intersect your friendship, but that's not the case. You openly groped his wife and are seemingly getting together for more, that's a problem. Tell this chick you won't see her alone til you've at least shown him that you're not after her. If she's your friend anyway, you shouldn't be putting her in this position either.

[Intense]

The piece of meat thing was a little humor/sarcasm.

[Nirokun!]

husband's needs come before yours, you're not allowed to be mad

if he deigns it ok to allow the meeting, but requires his presence, i dont think thats asking too much, especially considering the "feeling up" deal >_>

[TsingTao]

When she cheats on her husband with someone else and they get divorced you can see her without restrictions. Until then he should be there.

[Intense]

husband's needs come before yours, you're not allowed to be mad

if he deigns it ok to allow the meeting, but requires his presence, i dont think thats asking too much, especially considering the "feeling up" deal >_>

Like I said, he may or may not have seen anything other than us dancing. Also, if it were such a BIG THING, she wouldnt have called the next day, like I also mentioned, for us to go out that night. He went too, and didnt appear to be mad or upset in any way.

He got mad at her again that night, but it was because her and my sister were dancing on the gogo box. >.>;

[Oxx]

Lets say you were out of town and your wife were to go out to eat with an old friend who happens to be a guy:

would you allow it?
would you trust her and therefore not care either way?
would you only allow it if you were present (i.e. wait until your back )?
would you expect her to say no?
would you make her say no?

This is a bit vague, but opinions are appreciated. Ill prob elaborate more when I get home from work.

She's going to bang him, hard.

The real question: which one of these posters in being more misogynistic?

silly, people arent food.



j/k I know it means hating on womenz.

soylent green is people... ITSSS PEOPLEEEEEE


on a side note: if you didn't "allow" your wife to go she would go anyway and probably bang him hard

[Norelco]

Intense, post some pics of this girl and we'll determine for you if it's worth fucking up her marriage over. :D

[Skyylya]

why even make the thread, you seem intent on justifying to yourself that it's ok for you to put yourself into a shady situation with a married chick.

Only two things matter:

1) it'd be ok if you hadn't already felt up his wife

2) you have felt up his wife therefore it's not ok.

All this thread is, is you trying to justify to yourself that it's ok for you to do something you shouldn't. You're trying to say he doesn't know, guess what he does get over it. He's being the cool guy by not forcing his wife to not see you but just letting it known how he stands and he'd be more comfortable if he was there. All you're doing in his eye's is coming off as more of an asshole than you already were when you groped his wife the first time.

What's so special about this chick anyway, you turned her down in the past so you're obviously not to into her. Just don't see her, you're in california I find it hard to believe you can't find some random plastic girl there to play with.

[Intense]

I dunno, maybe youre right. Maybe I am trying to justify things because I dont feel like I was in the wrong. But my intentions for something small like "going to lunch" are not shady. I already stated I have no intentions of trying anything, and still maintain I didnt try anything in Vegas.

Intense, post some pics of this girl and we'll determine for you if it's worth fucking up her marriage over. :D

Im not trying to ruin a marriage!! But just for fun:

http://img.photobucket.com/albums/09...winters031.jpg
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/09...kills/66YY.jpg

[Norelco]

Im not trying to ruin a marriage!!

LOL, I know, I was just saying that in jest.

[Kyreth]

Personally, I'd be a mite more careful this time.

Don't get used as the excuse to break off a marriage or as someone else's method of making a stupid decision you'll end up being caught in.

Yellow light, approach with caution and expect to stop at any time.

[Iono]

Clearly he knows, clearly it bothers him and the only reason that he's not flying out there to pummel you is he's either more of a man than you, or just much smaller.

And that's the truth XD

[Skyylya]

Even if your current intentions are good, your previous behavior was not and that's all that he's got to go on. You said yourself that you're not friends with him, if you were it would be different as well. All he knows is that his wife is going to be spending time alone with a guy who groped her in front of him, what will happen when she's hundreds of miles away.

[thestalkmore]

Fuck

Seriously though, I'd just echo what's been said before. You WERE in the wrong, there isn't a way around it.

[Shaq]

would you allow it? Possibly, but it depends on the guy.
would you trust her and therefore not care either way? I trust her, but I don't trust other guys around her.
would you only allow it if you were present (i.e. wait until your back )? Yes.
would you expect her to say no? Yes.
would you make her say no? No, but I'd probably say I'll remember this next time my ex or someone that would make her jealous was in town.

[Creeps]

I personally know everyone involved in this situation. The whole thing is stupid.

They're both supposedly super-Christians but the relationship is all kinds of fucked up. The husband is an alright guy, he's just too much of a pansy to stand up for himself or his wife. The wife gives off a slut vibe and always has, and I've known her for probably 8 years now. I've known Intense since high school and as much as this topic makes him sound like one, he's not a dirtbag.

I give it less than 2 years before they're divorced. Husband can't get a steady job and has to move all over the western US for work. She'll probably get sick of the moving soon. Oh well, that's what he gets for getting a business administration degree, lawl.

[skurlover]

Didn't you post that picture in the Fuck or Duck thread some time ago? I thought I remember you posting about a friend that recently came back into your life, etc. etc. etc.

You're on thin ice holding a flame thrower....

[Yangsing]

She's gonna get jack hammered in every orifice.

[Intense]

Didn't you post that picture in the Fuck or Duck thread some time ago? I thought I remember you posting about a friend that recently came back into your life, etc. etc. etc.

You're on thin ice holding a flame thrower....

Yeah I did, but the one who came into my life was a different girl from San Diego.

[Mizango]

Wow, now that I know the rest...

I sure as fuck wouldn't be happy about her seeing you if I'm not around. Feeling up my wife? Fuck that shit, violence ensues.

Couldn't have said it better.