Opinions from married men needed

[Intense]

The wife gives off a slut vibe and always has, and I've known her for probably 8 years now.

LOL, no she doeessnnnttt. She just has big boobies and wears low cut tops. 8)

Get out of my way!!

[Charla]

Dude, it doesn't really matter what you intend, or what he saw during that dance. If she does try something again and it causes a problem with him, then you're the one he's going to blame. Therefore, it might not be worth the risk.

[Sho]

If that was my wife in those pics, I woulda fucked you up, no joke, lol.

[Creeps]

The wife gives off a slut vibe and always has, and I've known her for probably 8 years now.

LOL, no she doeessnnnttt. She just has big boobies and wears low cut tops. 8)

Get out of my way!!

She definitely does. Anyways, just stop bothering with it. Don't talk to her, don't talk to him. Stop son, just stop.

[othellojr]

If you trust your wife, then what is the issue? I have gone out of town, I have been in town, and my wife has gone out to dinner to catch up with old friends, hell, even old boyfriends that come back in town. I view it as, I trust her, and I know she would not mess around, so why worry? Worry about the guy? My wife will make sure nothing happens, so yeah, trust is very important (also shows insecurity, immaturity, etc. if you try to make it a big deal when its not).

[Iono]

If that was my wife in those pics, I woulda fucked you up, no joke, lol.

Meeh, if it were my wife I'd fuck someone up for doin the shit he's doin, no matter what my wife looked like.

As for Othellojr, it seems the case is that he doesn't trust his wife. Which probably means he made a bad choice, but still one he has to deal with it. It's not like you can say Well, I don't trust her might as well test if I'm right or not. Seeing as how he possibly has evidence to prove that she is not trustworthy.

[Boyiee]

Sounds like someone got himself a housewife.

so many pages late, but this is one of the best responses from you I have ever read. The word Ho is used so much in my household and family, not in a literal sense, but man that quote just tickled me good.

Edit: on a side note, had a patient last week with 4 gunshots in him that was with another mans wife. He wasn't doing anything bad as far as I know, had all his clothes on and everything, and he was friends with her.

GOODLUCK.

[Faris]

you wanna be sincere and a real man, ignore her and move on with your life, i think you can survive without her. You seem like a guy who can get some, go look somewhere else, is my opinion. She seems like she kinda wants to have something to do with you if the time and feeling is right, maybe she wants to have what she never got? Well, you can be the typical guy, ignore that she is complaining about her husband to you, which; imo, means she's hinting out "hey! i want someone else (temporarily?)" and sleep with her/fool around. Then years later, God/Karma/Life (I prefer God) will remind you if what you did in a very very hurtful way.


Just drift away slowly and gently.




OR


Tell her husband to put a leash on his woman!! and let the battle begin! HAH!
kiddin'.....

[Shuemue]

Oh, that chick!

Well, see, now my opinion changes.

Fuck her, fuck her hard, but on one condition.

Full frontal explicit pics in the Fuck or Duck thread the next day.

[Obev]

She's not "break up a marriage, lolz" pretty.

From the husband's point of view, you're not just an old friend. In all likelihood you're seen as some douche who felt up (read: took advantage of) his wife while she was drunk. You'd forgive him for being ever-so-slightly cautious of you.

[Ryko]

Sounds like someone got himself a housewife.

so many pages late, but this is one of the best responses from you I have ever read. The word Ho is used so much in my household and family, not in a literal sense, but man that quote just tickled me good.

Glad to be of service.

[Ksandra]

lmao this thread made me laugh so hard.

This is what I got out of it:

"You'll ruin your marriage if you tell your wife she can't see who she wants to see"

"I'll fucking beat the shit out of you if you saw my wife"


So the moral of the thread is:

Let your wife visit her exboyfriends and beat the shit out of him after she's fallen asleep.


On a side note: if my bf told me he didn't want me seeing any of my exboyfriends I wouldn't be upset as I use my brain and know how that can create akward situations that just aren't worth it.

[Creeps]

Proper solution is to keep your wife in a cage unless she's cooking or blowing you

[Charla]

Any responses in that first category were probably based off the first post, which didn't mention several important details, such as the previous dance incident. Therefore, the juxtaposition is not contradictory.

[Intense]

From the husband's point of view, you're not just an old friend. In all likelihood you're seen as some douche who felt up (read: took advantage of) his wife while she was drunk. You'd forgive him for being ever-so-slightly cautious of you.

Thats utter bullshit.

[Mizango]

On a side note: if my bf told me he didn't want me seeing any of my exboyfriends I wouldn't be upset as I use my brain and know how that can create akward situations that just aren't worth it.

Finally, the voice of reason. It is avoiding those pesky "akward" situations that keeps most people out of jail. But unfortunately not everyone uses their "brain" and thinks about the repercussions like our beloved Ksandra does.

Is there any way to bottle common sense?

From the husband's point of view, you're not just an old friend. In all likelihood you're seen as some douche who felt up (read: took advantage of) his wife while she was drunk. You'd forgive him for being ever-so-slightly cautious of you.

Thats utter bullshit.

I do agree with you here though Intense, she was also a willing participant in said "fondling" and "groping", I'll assume that you did not put a gun to her hear nor threaten her bodily harm. I have been plastered and inebriated in every conceivable way and I have never once forgotten the difference between what is right and what was wrong.

True, judgment can be impaired but not once have I ever forgotten that I have a family waiting for me at home.

[MisterBob]

From the husband's point of view, you're not just an old friend. In all likelihood you're seen as some douche who felt up (read: took advantage of) his wife while she was drunk. You'd forgive him for being ever-so-slightly cautious of you.

Thats utter bullshit.

Uh, if you felt her up, regardless of sobriety, I'd never consider you just a "friend".

[Intense]

From the husband's point of view, you're not just an old friend. In all likelihood you're seen as some douche who felt up (read: took advantage of) his wife while she was drunk. You'd forgive him for being ever-so-slightly cautious of you.

Thats utter bullshit.

Uh, if you felt her up, regardless of sobriety, I'd never consider you just a "friend".

That does not mean I took advantage of her. I may have known she was married, but guess who else does? HER. Shes the married one, that should be on the forefront of her mind before itd be on mine. Lets not forget who initiated that whole thing either.

[MisterBob]

From the husband's point of view, you're not just an old friend. In all likelihood you're seen as some douche who felt up (read: took advantage of) his wife while she was drunk. You'd forgive him for being ever-so-slightly cautious of you.

Thats utter bullshit.

Uh, if you felt her up, regardless of sobriety, I'd never consider you just a "friend".

That does not mean I took advantage of her. I may have known she was married, but guess who else does? HER. Shes the married one, that should be on the forefront of her mind before itd be on mine. Lets not forget who initiated that whole thing either.

Doesn't matter.
Fine, you're BOTH at fault. Still means you fucked up.

[Intense]

From the husband's point of view, you're not just an old friend. In all likelihood you're seen as some douche who felt up (read: took advantage of) his wife while she was drunk. You'd forgive him for being ever-so-slightly cautious of you.

Thats utter bullshit.

Uh, if you felt her up, regardless of sobriety, I'd never consider you just a "friend".

That does not mean I took advantage of her. I may have known she was married, but guess who else does? HER. Shes the married one, that should be on the forefront of her mind before itd be on mine. Lets not forget who initiated that whole thing either.

Doesn't matter.
Fine, you're BOTH at fault. Still means you fucked up.

It does indeed mater. Accusing someone of "taking avantage" of another person is pretty offensive. That term shouldnt be used loosely.