I moved to San D'Oria for a couple of reasons. Home city doesn't really matter a whole lot but when your home city has things like:
-best noob xp area of the 3 main towns
-abjuration uncursing
-riverne xp scroll quest
-closer access to more worthwhile areas than other towns (oubliette, krt, the most-used bcnm area)
-more convenient layout (outpost <-> armor storage npc <-> moghouse)
You really just end up choosing San D'Oria over the others cause while it doesn't really matter, it does matter enough to have those little advantages than to...not have them.
I'm sure if they weighed conquest per capita it would even things out a bit. Not that they'd want to do that, but it would do the trick. There just aren't as many Bastokans and therefore not as many conquest points/event standing accumulated.
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