Do you let her show off her body?

[Deejay]

I never understood why my gf's enjoyed dressing up for me when we go out. Don't get me wrong, I like it when you pretty yourself up but theres no need for tits and ass to be hanging everywhere. You're just giving everyone else a show since I already know what those look like lol.

[Faris]

sounds like your girl is much hotter than you

That comment alone needs a different thread by itself. I love her, of course i think she's hotter than me, damn. but no its not a security issue nor its a trust issue.

If it wasn't a trust issue, it wouldn't piss you off enough to post.

It really isn't =\
I really do trust her, but just having a bunch of drunk guys degrade someone so precious to me, with their eyes and thoughts is very discomforting. Guys will always be guys, someone wants to show us something, we don't say no.

[Quixon]

If you are confident that your woman isnt going to leave you for another guy, then let her flaunt it.

That's not always the problem. Girls can look really fucking good.... w/o looking like complete sluts. I would have a problem if my g/f dressed like a whore, then again if I had this problem I wouldn't be dating her in the first place.

A wise man once said

You can't turn a ho into a housewife

[Octavious]

I never understood why my gf's enjoyed dressing up for me when we go out. Don't get me wrong, I like it when you pretty yourself up but theres no need for tits and ass to be hanging everywhere. You're just giving everyone else a show since I already know what those look like lol.

It's a little more of a conservative view honestly. It might sound gay, but I enjoy when I go out and look good too ya know. A good shave, pair a ray-bans, some new cloths etc. I don't see why it would be a problem if your girl does the same.

Girls thrive on men that are confident, if your not confident you can keep her interested then obviously she'll leave you. Now, this isn't to say all women are innocent until proven guilty either, sure their is a skank who will cheat on you but thats usually if you're dating women pre-21... Anyway, don't take her for

[Izzy]

Grow some balls and stop being a fucking pussy.

If you are confident that your woman isnt going to leave you for another guy, then let her flaunt it.

Who gives a shit what the other slobs at the club think, men will be intict driven gutter minded assholes no matter what your GF is wearing. Letting her express herself and wear sexy clothing will only help her feel better about herself and improve your own sex life.

Sounds like you just have some insecurity issues and your GF is much hotter then you.

No offense Neo, but I was waiting for a stupid fucking post such as this one.

[kuronosan]

You have insecurity issues, it sounds like. If your girlfriend is hot, and you don't get many of them, this is natural. She is just trying to express herself. If it bothers you a lot, then you have to find a subtle way of approaching it other than "I DUN LIEK HOW U DRESS LOL" because then you'll hurt her feelings.

When she says "you're gonna like what I'm wearing" that was her way of saying "I'm dressing this way for you, you unappreciative dickhead". If she's doing it for you that should make you feel great. Now if she's dancing up on other men like nuts and dressing like that all the time when you're not around, then you should bring it up as an issue that bothers you. If she's only doing it to make you feel great and confident that you have a hot girlfriend, then you should shut up and appreciate it.

Whatever you did, if you said anything even remotely close to "when you dress like that..." then you're going to make her feel like a slut who's not doing your every bidding. If you talk to her calmly and rationally and she still flips out then you found one who just can't be talked with. The fact that she thinks you're controlling just because you brought it up should make it obvious she's just trying to express herself around you.

For the record, I would never let my girlfriend go out in public looking like a skank. I'd demand a little more class than that, even if she was doing it for me.

[Norelco]

Firas, lol, have you tried dressing up all sexy with your shirt unbutton alot with tight pants? See if she gets angry and then flip the script on her, yo!

[Foustian]

When she says "you're gonna like what I'm wearing" that was her way of saying "I'm dressing this way for you, you unappreciative dickhead". If she's doing it for you that should make you feel great. Now if she's dancing up on other men like nuts and dressing like that all the time when you're not around, then you should bring it up as an issue that bothers you. If she's only doing it to make you feel great and confident that you have a hot girlfriend, then you should shut up and appreciate it.

The problem with this, though, is that if she's only doing it for him, and he doesn't like it, what is the point of doing it? There is none. If she's only doing it for him, she shouldn't have a problem with not doing it if that's what he wants, and thus problem solved. Clearly she's doing it, at least in part, for her.

[Faris]

I don't have insecurity issues Dr. Philz!
Meh!

Firas, lol, have you tried dressing up all sexy with your shirt unbutton alot with tight pants? See if she gets angry and then flip the script on her, yo!

That doesn't bother girls, not even a bit. Ironically.


I really do think its thoughtful and sweet that someone wants to impress me, and look good just for me. But like i said, a woman will only look at you, a man will always look around. Thats just how it is.

The problem with this, though, is that if she's only doing it for him, and he doesn't like it, what is the point of doing it? There is none. If she's only doing it for him, she shouldn't have a problem with not doing it if that's what he wants, and thus problem solved. Clearly she's doing it, at least in part, for her.

couldn't agree more.

[Kuya]

That doesn't bother girls, not even a bit. Ironically.

Not if you're bisexual, LOL.

[Lampoon]

When a girl dresses up it's not to impress a guy, but to show off infront of other girls. Fact. With that said, if she snags you another girl to play with in threesome, be greatful she wore that!

Ugly people age better. 8)

Yeah... they stay ugly through out their life, where as beautiful people get ugly with age. Heh!

[TheKobainGuitr]

Wait a minute, Who is the one with insecurity issues here? The guy who doesn't want his girlfriend dressing slutty, or the girl who dresses as such screaming "hey guys, look at me, look at how hot I am, and the way I must dress to get your attention"? If a girl HAS to dress like that, then really she is the one with insecurity issues.

[Izzy]

Wait a minute, Who is the one with insecurity issues here? The guy who doesn't want his girlfriend dressing slutty, or the girl who dresses as such screaming "hey guys, look at me, look at how hot I am, and the way I must dress to get your attention"? If a girl HAS to dress like that, then really she is the one with insecurity issues.

DING DING DING!

WE HAVE A WINNER!

[Faris]

This is her, isn't it too revealing?


















http://img261.imageshack.us/img261/4...390lovewq3.jpg

[Hitoshura]

I'm really glad I never really have to worry about things like this. If she tells me she is wearing something really good it's usually a really nice dress or something classy. If she says it's hot it usually means we are going to stay in that night and well... it's fucking hot.

Edit: The fact that she's asian and asian parents basically control their kids life forever also means she can't wear anything slutty like that, and would most likely get chewed out.

Don't get too jealous though man, try talking to her but don't blow shit out of proportion. Jealously ruins fucking everything.

[Xavier]

Is this a joke?

Its hard to tell but it looks like shes wearing a solid black robe. Does the robe cut open along her chest or something?

[Faris]

Is this a joke?

Its hard to tell but it looks like shes wearing a solid black robe. Does the robe cut open along her chest or something?

lol, its a joke man. i google'd it

[Creeps]

I don't "let" my girlfriend do anything. I'm not her master, she can do what she wants and as much as I voice my opinion, I don't tell her to do anything. On the other hand, she's naturally very modest and classy.

I'm sure there wouldn't be a problem if you just asked her to refrain from that sort of dress when you're going out to a very public place? Save it for the bedroom.

[Mizango]

Picture can help me determine my response

If response = Fap Fap Fap, you sir are a god then

Indeed.


ROFL @ that picture. lol'd

[Xavier]

lol, its a joke man. i google'd it

Ah haha. Picture was hilarious.