Do you let her show off her body?

[Norelco]

Firas is too insecure to post a picture of her.

[Xavier]

I'd never want to post a picture of a girl I cared about either, wouldn't want to subject her to the endless stream of "I'd fuck that" that would follow.

[Norelco]

I'd never want to post a picture of a girl I cared about either, wouldn't want to subject her to the endless stream of "I'd fuck that" that would follow.

LOL, that's the point. But, you're right.

[Artemas]

That picture was awesome.

And how do you "let" your girl do anything? The best you can do is offer suggestions and seek a compromise. It's a another human being you share your life with, not a pet.

And personally, I wouldn't have chosen a woman who thinks it's a good idea to have tits and ass hanging out. That's "ho for shore" advertising.

That's like me dating a guy with his dick and balls hanging out. Yeah, baby, that's really cute around the house and everything, but let's keep it between you and me.
Hyuck, hyuck.

Why does your woman dress like a whore, anyways?

[Mizango]

...a guy with his dick and balls hanging out.

Now that you mention it, there was this one time when I was in college....

[Faris]

That picture was awesome.

And how do you "let" your girl do anything? The best you can do is offer suggestions and seek a compromise. It's a another human being you share your life with, not a pet.

And personally, I wouldn't have chosen a woman who thinks it's a good idea to have tits and ass hanging out. That's "ho for shore" advertising.

That's like me dating a guy with his dick and balls hanging out. Yeah, baby, that's really cute around the house and everything, but let's keep it between you and me.
Hyuck, hyuck.

Why does your woman dress like a whore, anyways?

Did I make it sound like she dresses like a whore? =\
If i did, i didn't mean it. Just sometimes, she wears revealing stuff, not necessarily "whorish"
okok, maybe a bit of detail, like cleavage. you know how yummy that looks.

[layoneil]

Edit: The fact that she's asian and asian parents basically control their kids life forever also means she can't wear anything slutty like that, and would most likely get chewed out.

meet more rebellious asians.

The problem with this, though, is that if she's only doing it for him, and he doesn't like it, what is the point of doing it? There is none. If she's only doing it for him, she shouldn't have a problem with not doing it if that's what he wants, and thus problem solved. Clearly she's doing it, at least in part, for her.

couldn't agree more.

are you also the same type of guy who says "yes, you're fat. if you didn't want to know what i think, than you wouldn't have asked me."?

[Quixon]

If i did, i didn't mean it. Just sometimes, she wears revealing stuff, not necessarily "whorish"
okok, maybe a bit of detail, like cleavage. you know how yummy that looks.

I need a visual here seriously. lol


Can you just google search and post a picture of a girl dressed in something similar to what your girl would where that you would label "inappropriate". It's hard to aggree/disagree since our views of Inappropriate and slutty could really be completely different.

My girlfriend never dresses slutty, but everywhere she goes w/ me there is cleavage to an extent lol.

[Faris]

Edit: The fact that she's asian and asian parents basically control their kids life forever also means she can't wear anything slutty like that, and would most likely get chewed out.

meet more rebellious asians.

The problem with this, though, is that if she's only doing it for him, and he doesn't like it, what is the point of doing it? There is none. If she's only doing it for him, she shouldn't have a problem with not doing it if that's what he wants, and thus problem solved. Clearly she's doing it, at least in part, for her.

couldn't agree more.

are you also the same type of guy who says "yes, you're fat. if you didn't want to know what i think, than you wouldn't have asked me."?

define fat. If she's like a planet, then fuck yeah, but of course in a nice, gentle way..and also support her in every way.
but if she just needs a little diet i wouldn't mention it, I would just feed her healthy shit, (after all, i'm paying for the damn food everytime we go out-_-)
and indirectly get her to do exercise

Ofcourse, thats only because she's my lover. If she's a friend or just a fling, I'd grab her flab, and tease her :D

[Artemas]

This is pissing me off, and i dont understand it.
in she comes, with a piece of cloth barely covering her tits, its so tight, it looks like her body just has paint on it.

That's not exactly conservative.

Did you ask her why she dresses that way?
And do you think she's seeking a certain reaction from you? e.g. does she do this when you two are at an outs?

[Faris]

ok so as described:
http://i76.photobucket.com/albums/j4...ayDresses2.jpg
you know cleavage (like in the left pic, and but you see that material is thick, the dress is made of a lighter material, silk perhaps, which really shows off the figure)

Come to think of it, she never wore anything that revealing when in public. This is the first time. I think she's just trying to impress me=\ which is why it kinda makes me look like a dick when i disagree. Anways, call me pussy whipped if you may, but i apologized, and told her to wear whatever she wants, meh, we'll see how it goes, maybe i'm just being paranoid. fucking love..

[Artemas]

I understand.
Love can make 'bat shit insane' seem pretty logical sometimes.

[Norelco]

ok so as described:
http://i76.photobucket.com/albums/j4...ayDresses2.jpg
you know cleavage (like in the left pic, and but you see that material is thick, the dress is made of a lighter material, silk perhaps, which really shows off the figure)

Come to think of it, she never wore anything that revealing when in public. This is the first time. I think she's just trying to impress me=\ which is why it kinda makes me look like a dick when i disagree. Anways, call me pussy whipped if you may, but i apologized, and told her to wear whatever she wants, meh, we'll see how it goes, maybe i'm just being paranoid. fucking love..

It's not like some guy is going to jump on her and mount her in front of you, which, would be pretty damn hilarious.

[Mizango]

All jokes aside, I think it is just her way of trying to be "sexy" or "hot" in front of you, its a woman thing. Just don't spurn her because if you do she will think twice about doing it again in the future. I don't know her psyche, but be gentle. You don't want to look back on this moment in time years from now and kick yourself for showing disdain or dismay at her attempt at being "sexy" in front of you.

My thoughts, no harm, no foul. If anything you should be proud of her, because that takes guts. So what if a random guy does a double take, that should be the ultimate compliment for both you as well as herself. A woman with confidence and a well defined sense of self worth is fucking priceless. Especially in this day and time when most women (Though not necessarily through any fault of their own. i.e. a guy calling her fat, dumb, hits her etc...) have confidence and trust issues and resort to not only dressing promiscuous but acting it out.

Be happy and at least applaud and embrace her effort. Because at the end of the day it all boils down to the fact that she did it for you. Keep in mind that it could always be worse...she could be an uptight prude. I don't know your specific situation but that is just my $0.02, so take it for what its worth and enjoy the effort.

[Quixon]

Judging from those pictures....

I would consider both of those outfits very classy. I think you realized it yourself judging by the above post you made lol.


Edit:

From your origonal post I thought she was dressing more along the lines of this

http://i65.photobucket.com/albums/h2...neptunes07.jpg
girl in the purple.......which is 100% Trash

*Disclaimer* The girl mentioned went to the same High School as me, I do not find her attractive in any way. She is dirty whore, and I can not stand her. That is all

[Faris]

damn, both sides have ups and downs to be honest. I can understand a guy being honest and the girl just respecting his feelings towards such matters, and i also understand a guy just being grateful and really ignoring the surroundings (easier said than done, in my case). I'm not going to ruin her weekend over this. Its stupid=\

[Skyylya]

simple fix. It's all in the presentation.

Instead of saying you don't like it when she dresses a certain way.

Tell her that you find her sexier when she leaves more to the imagination and makes you excited to take her home to reveal her features that she kept so slightly elusive during the evening out.

[Foustian]

Edit: The fact that she's asian and asian parents basically control their kids life forever also means she can't wear anything slutty like that, and would most likely get chewed out.

meet more rebellious asians.

The problem with this, though, is that if she's only doing it for him, and he doesn't like it, what is the point of doing it? There is none. If she's only doing it for him, she shouldn't have a problem with not doing it if that's what he wants, and thus problem solved. Clearly she's doing it, at least in part, for her.

couldn't agree more.

are you also the same type of guy who says "yes, you're fat. if you didn't want to know what i think, than you wouldn't have asked me."?

I am indeed that guy, but I don't see how that follows from what you quoted.

[archibaldcrane]

simple fix. It's all in the presentation.

Instead of saying you don't like it when she dresses a certain way.

Tell her that you find her sexier when she leaves more to the imagination and makes you excited to take her home to reveal her features that she kept so slightly elusive during the evening out.

This is the correct answer. Instead of telling her what not to wear, tell her the things that make you both attracted to her and make you feel comfortable when you go out together.

Encourage her to wear a more covered up dress, and then tell her half-way through dinner to go to the bathroom and hand you her panties when she she returns to the table. Or something equally awesome. She's got a bit of a thrill-seeking side it seems - satisfy that

His point is valid by the way, for all of you "you're just insecure" people out there. When you go out on a date, you want to be able to focus on the girl you're with, not the army of leering assholes judging her, you, and her nearly visible nipples.

[levish]

if you are uncomfortable with her prancing around in what looks like a evenin dress then I guess going to the beach is totally out of the question?