can just scroll through this thread and get ideas on what people use.
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Depends on your playstyle, some use more haste, some use more enmity. Some people use AF+1 Feet, some use Homam, some use Askar. etcetc. Shit is situational.
Important things are Haste and Enmity. HP and MP are a bonus. Shield is nice for casting shadows.
I use alot of swaps but things I use are/include;
Main: Macu+1
Sub: Koenig Shield
Range: Lamia Kaman
Head: Aegishjalmr
Neck: Parade Gorget(idle), Shield Torque(ichi,ni,oshit), Harmonia's Torque(flash,/ja)
Earrings: Ethereal/Cassie(lolTaruHP) Hades+1(flash/ja)
Body: AF+1
Hands: Homam
Rings: Herc/BQR
Back: Gigant/Cerb
Waist: SteppeSash(idle), Warwolf(ja), Swift(flash)
Legs: Homam, W.Legs
Feet: AF+1, Askar(kite)
might have missed some stuff but that is mostly basic, easy to obtain gear.