what now?

[finale23]

just got back from a night out with the girl whom i have been seeing for the past 3 weeks. we were talking and somehow got into politics and subsequently the topic of pro-choice, then i asked her nonchalantly "so did you have any (abortion)?", and she said 2, and the conversation went on. i was shocked, but i used all the energy that i had to end the night pretending i didn't give a shit about her past. BG, what should i do? should i cut my loss and call it quits or should i continue this relationship?

[Tricen]

Why would it matter to you? Do you feel that strongly against it?

[Kuya]

Most people in this forum are liberal. Just a heads up lol.

[thestalkmore]

You can totally bang her without worrying about it now! If she gets pregnant, who cares, she'll just abort it!

[finale23]

Why would it matter to you? Do you feel that strongly against it?

Most people in this forum are liberal. Just a heads up lol.

if the girl was raped or whatever, i would support the choice of abortion. but since i know she wasn't, 2 abortions seem like she made alot of bad choices along the way and slept around alot.

[Tricen]

If you are ganna live your life surrounding yourself by people that will only agree with you, than you will have one sad life.

[Viq]

if the girl was raped or whatever, i would support the choice of abortion. but since i know she wasn't, 2 abortions seem like she made alot of bad choices along the way and slept around alot.

Protip: A lot of girls have slept with a lot of guys. If you get hung up on it, then you might as well grab yourself a Fleshlight and call it quits.

[Slapper]

I think she was kidding.

[Akiyama]

I think she was kidding.

I admit. I'd laugh if that was the case. I can imagine the look on your face after she said "Just kiddin'"

[finale23]

if the girl was raped or whatever, i would support the choice of abortion. but since i know she wasn't, 2 abortions seem like she made alot of bad choices along the way and slept around alot.

Protip: A lot of girls have slept with a lot of guys. If you get hung up on it, then you might as well grab yourself a Fleshlight and call it quits.

i am not exactly looking for a virgin but i don't want to end up with the village bicycle neither.

I think she was kidding.

i am sure she wasn't.

[Tricen]

I think she was kidding.

I admit. I'd laugh if that was the case. I can imagine the look on your face after she said "Just kiddin'"

I would love to meet her. I have thousands of dead baby jokes. I bet they never get old.

[Lexa]

If I was gonna joke about that, I'd shoot for a higher number, to make it clear I was joking. Saying "2" just kinda... isn't jokingly enough. >.> Could be just me, though.

As for what to do about it, well, how much do you like this girl?

If you really like her, then get over it. It was her choice, and if you're going to pursue a relationship together then the choices you make together in the future are way more important than the choices she made in the past.

If she's not that important to you, and this is something you can't deal with, cut your losses. *shrug*

[Quicklet]

If you are ganna live your life surrounding yourself by people that will only agree with you, than you will have one sad life.

Conversely, if you build what would arguably be one of the most important relationships in your life around a person with whom you have a core difference, you're setting yourself (and her) up for massive problems later on.

Anyways it sounds like you already know the answer to your own question. You've only been dating her for three weeks. Some people don't find out about these things until they're already in too deep. Consider yourself lucky?

[Faris]

I wouldnt do it if i were you. BUT! i can easily get pussy, since im the pussymeister. The choice is yours.

2 FUCKING ABORTIONS JESUS MAN, what the fuck. dont do it. Seriously, dump her ass.

[Oxyminus]

whatever she did before she was hanging out with you, is honestly, none of your fucking business. if she chooses to tell you about it, kudos. but that doesn't give you an open window to judge her.

[Beckwin]

Are you more concerned about the possibility of promiscuity in her past, or are you concerned about the actual abortion choice? If it's the latter then yeah, you two might not get along too well anyway, and if it's the former, you might want to give her the benefit of the doubt before you jump to conclusions. She could be the bicycle that isn't even careful about contraception, or she could be insanely unlucky with condoms busting. More likely somewhere in between.

[Cheerios]

whatever she did before she was hanging out with you, is honestly, none of your fucking business. if she chooses to tell you about it, kudos. but that doesn't give you an open window to judge her.

The girl of my dreams was a murderer, a drug addict, and a prostitute. I don't judge her though.

[Zanz L. Barre The 3rd]

It's kind of a turn on to me that she's strong enough to make such a hard decision (or a turn on knowing she can dispose of possible life so easily).

Both are sexy.

[Poopfacekilla]

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HH-zLsZmF3Q

Discuss.

[Weltall]

Dude....you should be so happy. Now you know she isn't a virgin. Go go go goooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo!

Btw- Never listen to Firas. Remember, the guy is UAE.