
Originally Posted by
Maxxthepenguin
Ok, I'll bite, tell me about it. From the outside it seems like one of two things: A) Black people saying somebody 'isnt black enough' only this time being literal or B) Another way for black people to victimize themselves (see: the story about my boss and what he told me)
You're pretty close. I am half white/half black, am very light skinned, and have got quite a bit of shit from certain cliques of black girls on my campus for not dating black girls in college. They used to say shit like "he only dates white girls" when in my college career I have only dated an Indian girl and a Chinese girl on campus. As far as they were concerned, if the girl I wasnt dating wasnt black, she wasnt right, and may as well be white. Funny thing is my mom is white, but they obviously dont give a shit.
All im saying is that in many black communities, both ghetto and educated (moreso ghetto in my experience), black women especially have issues with black men dating outside their race, which is at times phrased as "not being black enough" as you say.