I wouldn't use Melody +1s in my def gear set generally, even though I do carry one as my off earring with Musical. A lot of the times I use that gear set are in situations where I'm being lazy and just going to train a zone. If Mazurka's my only song up, and something takes a swing at me, the eva skill doesn't kick in, so I just use Ethereal which I carry on me for things like Einherjar where it's nice.My melody +1s are out on loan but I'd never even think about stacking evasion on BRD.
Yea... I use Darksteel Harness in Einherjar because I gave away my Osode years ago. I make it a point not to switch to it until LONG after the mobs are pulled and engaged, minimizing the chances anyone's paying attention to what my character looks like... >< Honestly though, something like Gomlek or Manteel would probably save you damage taken in there over either Osode or Harness. I don't even really notice the Harness much, because in Einherjar, where the mobs don't resist lullaby worth crap, I just leave my Terra staff on full time.Darksteel harness is also a good (if horribly ugly) alternative for def gear. The only advantage of Osode is that you do have 10 CHR on it which makes it far better for casting in than darksteel (e.g. for sleeping).
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