Threesomes [probably NSFW]

[Norelco]

So has anyone here been in a real threesome (actual penetration or oral I guess in the case of certain combos)? Was it everything it was cracked up to be? Did it work out well or were there fallouts to relationships etc?

[Day]

In before the Tonko.

[BerenTebogo]

I was in one when I was really young, like 16 or 17, was pretty awesome.

Yes, my childhood was weird.

[Nystul]

Having a threesome when you're a kid and you do it with 2 other casual interests is probably fun/wild/relatively few consequences.

However, if you're having a threesome while in an established relationship where you're trying to spice things up or something...IE you, your steady GF/wife, and another woman...thats almost always (yes, of course there are exceptions) sabotage. Someone is going to feel left out, or have feelings afterwards...it's just a baaaaad idea.

fun with casual lovers
bad idea while in a relationship

[Yeargdribble]

Yeah, my wife is bi and into that kind of thing. We just found a bi friend (girl) we were close to, that wasn't a spaz, wasn't diseased, etc. It worked out pretty well. Nobody hurt in the end. No rumors spread. No diseases contracted. Good times were had by all on several occasions. I think you've gotta be in just the right type of relationship for it to work (within a relationship anyway). In the end it just made me appreciate her more and vice versa. It was nearly a year ago and we're not divorced over it or anything. It's sort of something we keep in the back of our mind that we'd definitely do again. We're just really careful about the person's cleanliness, hotness and ability to keep mouth shut overall so it's not something that will happen all the time.

[Nystul]

Yea, you know...if it's a "relationship" threesome, and both people are really into it, there isn't any issues with the 3rd (ie, someone harboring some kind of crush etc), then it is probably ok. If you're healthy relationship wise going INTO it, then you have decent odds of coming out of it healthy. BUt if you go into it because you're having issues, you think it will jumpstart it, one person is conceding to another's desire because they want to please them etc...thats a bad sign, and a lot of threesomes happen for these reasons.

[SephYuyX]

Yeah, my wife is bi and into that kind of thing. We just found a bi friend (girl) we were close to, that wasn't a spaz, wasn't diseased, etc. It worked out pretty well. Nobody hurt in the end. No rumors spread. No diseases contracted. Good times were had by all on several occasions. I think you've gotta be in just the right type of relationship for it to work (within a relationship anyway). In the end it just made me appreciate her more and vice versa. It was nearly a year ago and we're not divorced over it or anything. It's sort of something we keep in the back of our mind that we'd definitely do again. We're just really careful about the person's cleanliness, hotness and ability to keep mouth shut overall so it's not something that will happen all the time.

Im waiting for the next time, and your wife wants to bring in another guy.

[Yeargdribble]

I'll absolutely agree with you (@Nystul). Lucky my wife doesn't worry about crushes. People get them and get all flustered over someone, but it's usually short-lived, biologically driven crap. We just don't get upset when one of us finds someone else attractive in a crushy way. We both know we wouldn't leave our current relationship for it because regardless of what it seems like it may have to offer, it could never compare to all of the things we have together. You have to have a ridiculous amount of trust for it to work. I think we're in the extreme minority in that area. We notice couples all the time where either the guy or the girl is keeping the other on the short leash and it makes us sad for them. Trust can do big things for a relationship.... but that's OT. Back to the threesomes.

[Nightbreed]

Was involved in one 2 New Years Eves ago with my girlfriend at the time and the girl I dated 8 years ago when I was 16. It was pretty awesome and a fun time had by all. That night did not affect our relationship, she is even brought up doing it again but a year later we broke up and it never happened again.

[Plow]

I've done a couple but I think the uh "safest" or whatever both cleanliness wise and um mentally and all that was me, my girlfriend, my best friend (male) and his girlfriend. We all just got drunk and went to my dorm room, waking up the next morning was a little weird, but it was cool cuz we didn't have to worry about anybody ever talking about it or it being a big deal etc, we all stayed good friends (well except my gf who turned out to be completely psycho) and never had any kind of issues with the situation or anything.


Although I do feel kinda bad for the other guy when his girlfriend was going down on me and goes "damn he's not even that hard and it's way bigger than yours" rofl.

[isladar]

ITT: No, I'm not kidding, it seriously happened, guys.

[Hitoshura]

Around when I was a Junior in HS, relationships weren't really a big deal at all as they are today obviously. A pair of twins I knew both really liked me, they were sisters. (I know weird for a threesome right?) We got drunk one night and they both messed around with me. Before the next time we hung out they talked about actually like.. having sex. I was like holy shit, I had only ever done one girl.

Edit: Here is a picture of them from their myspace I wish they didn't have their photos private from their own friends lol. If I find more I will post them. I know they aren't the hottest of all time, but I was still pretty proud considering I was just some punkass kid. I got more than enough props around school.

http://img110.imageshack.us/img110/8...f1996ecwr6.jpg

http://img111.imageshack.us/img111/3...f703dc6mf8.jpg

Girl on the left, they pretty much look the same, one is shorter than the other slightly.

Anyway it was really awkward because they were virgins and it was my first time with two girls so I felt like an idiot. The 2nd time was a lot better because I had watched porn and just got all these fucking ideas. Though like I stated earlier they were sisters so girl on girl action was probably out of the question, so maybe this isn't what you are looking for in terms of sharing knowledge.

We are still good friends today, the threesome thing didn't last very long because they both got mad at me and eachother since we couldn't really ever be in an actual relationship. Though I would fucking take both of them at the same time for the rest of my life in a heartbeat.

[Deejay]

ITT: No, I'm not kidding, it seriously happened, guys.

lol, Read my mind.

[Neosutra]

So has anyone here been in a real threesome (actual penetration or oral I guess in the case of certain combos)? Was it everything it was cracked up to be? Did it work out well or were there fallouts to relationships etc?

Yes.

And yes it is everything it is cracked up to be. Its slightly better than normal 1v1 sex if the girls arent bi, but if the girls are bi... then its just fucking awesome. As for the fallouts, first one was back in college so no one really cared. Any others were with friends so it didnt matter. Find a good bi-fuckbuddy for you and your gf/wife to share and all will go well.

[Koga]

Had one with 2 military guys on a boat in the harbor here in SD.
Was a little awkward at first but its fun because you get all that extra attention.

[noblemountain]

iirc, we've had this discussion on here before. my ex wife and i had an open relationship and it worked out well. we used to go out and her or i would find a girl and try and bring 'em home. it became a little competitive game and was a lot of fun. we ended up divorcing because i was in the army and she couldn't handle me being gone for so long. she's a great girl and we remain friends to this day. as long as nobody has trust issues or jealousy issues, it's great. if you don't trust that person your with 100%...it's going to be very bad. imo, it's not something i'd bring into a relationship if you're not 110% sure of your girl's trust level with you or vice versa. as a casual thing, it's pretty fun. especially with girls who've done it before/often. had a couple girls at a bath house in korea that i visited every weekend for about 3 months. got a bath, massage, sauna, and sex for 20 bucks american. best 3 months of my life. lol

[Jefe]

People who are in a "relationship" and engage in ménage à trois other than being drugged/wasted (i.e. stupidity), have some really profound mental issues. Have fun with your AIDS LOL!

[Day]

^ 1/10, maybe 2.

Theres no way on earth I could ever do this personally, I fully admit that I'm a jealous bastard beyond the point of all hope. I don't like to share.

[Meat]

I did at 17, my older sister was on home from college break, went out with her friends came home drunk and mistakenly sent them up to my bedroom to sleep.

[Tonko]

3 ways, 4 ways, 5 ways, more ways!

It's all been done, and I've had good ones, and bad ones. Did one where the other 2 guys started physically attacking each other shortly after we started. I beat a hasty retreat very quickly.

My BF and I have had many, and we've never had a problem with each other due to one, but have kicked guys out for being rude to one or the other by trying to exclude one of us.

But over all, I'd say 80% good experiences.

In before the Tonko.

Fast little fucker aren't you?