Definitely a tough decision. Personal question.

[Correction]

KRYE RAGE

Your pills. Take them.

[Demosthenes11]

I don't know about you guys, but I hope he gets a vasectomy so we don't have to worry about him reproducing and spreading even more retardation.

Fucking Idiot

Krye: Sorry you have never seen healthy relationships, but they do exist lol
taking a "all relationships are trash and love is retarded" stance makes your stupid show

[aurik]

Use birth control, problem solved without some doctor taking a knife to your nanners.

[Howard Roark]

maybe it's just me but i thought vasectomies were for old dudes (45+) in a heavily committed relationship (marriage/common-law) who didn't want the worry of an 'oops' slipping through

vasectomy: 45+ years old
freezing 'em: seriously who does that

for everyone else there's birth control

[TacoTaru]

Why do you want one? If it's birth control you want, buy an econo sized condom pack and double wrap. Unless your having tons of sex, it will last you awhile.

My fiancee is trying to convince me to get one once we settle down and have two or three kids. I keep telling her to shove it.

[Nirokun!]

OP: Do it. I'm gay and I want kids, so you have to do it so the world balances out.

Krye: Take your best friend back as a boyfriend :D Then you can use eachother for sex and money, and nothing is lost. So much attachment to a boy from a boy, kinda strange (no really, its wierd to see that I just cut people out of my life if I deem they're just not worth it [ouch, i know ])

I thought I didnt want kids, then I got older, and I just thought of a name for one of them, and now i have 4 names :D! I dont know how or when I'll have them, but I want them. It just seems right to me to be shouting names down the hallway for dinner, and hearing screaming coming my way (•'-')

[Krye]

Krye: Take your best friend back as a boyfriend :D Then you can use eachother for sex and money, and nothing is lost. So much attachment to a boy from a boy, kinda strange (no really, its wierd to see that I just cut people out of my life if I deem they're just not worth it [ouch, i know ])

Our relationship was borderline homosexual, I do have to admit. We were always together and we hung out every day for years, if you wanted to hang out with one of us, you were going to be hanging out with the other.

He is one of the few people that I have felt love for. I can't even say that about my family.

[thestalkmore]

Everyone who said you are an idiot is right. Put on a condom.

[AkashiXI]

OP: Do it. I'm gay and I want kids, so you have to do it so the world balances out.

Krye: Take your best friend back as a boyfriend :D Then you can use eachother for sex and money, and nothing is lost. So much attachment to a boy from a boy, kinda strange (no really, its wierd to see that I just cut people out of my life if I deem they're just not worth it [ouch, i know ])

I thought I didnt want kids, then I got older, and I just thought of a name for one of them, and now i have 4 names :D! I dont know how or when I'll have them, but I want them. It just seems right to me to be shouting names down the hallway for dinner, and hearing screaming coming my way (•'-')

First girl is going to be called Peach, calling it now.

[Tricen]

Anal sex. Best way to not have kids.

[ertyu]

Upon further thought, I have changed my stance. Please get a vasectomy, please also tell all your friends to get a vasectomy. I don't want the world littered with another idiot that my future kids will have to deal with.

To Krye: Sweeping generalization much? One girl being a stupid jealous cunt != all girls are stupid jealous cunts

[Fhqwghads]

I've known since I was a teenager that I never wanted kids. I cannot stand them. I cannot stand parents who won't shut the fuck up about their stupid kids, and try to strike up a conversation with random people about them and their child's latest "achievements" with such notable entries as: sitting up, walking, mumbling some barely comprehensible word. Newsflash: your fucking stupid spawn that shot out of your or your wife's/girlfriend's/whatever's cunt is not some kind of miracle. Trillions of the very same kind of shitting, pissing, whiny, needy and clingy little bastards have crawled their way across the face of the earth for tens of thousands of years. Yours is not unique, so kindly shut the fuck up about them, and stop bringing your loud little shit bombs to movies and restaurants, because I do not want to hear it screaming while I am trying to enjoy my evening, you selfish fucking pricks.

That being said, I did have a vasectomy almost a decade ago to ensure I never have to hear something like that on a daily basis. To that one chick who said she can't understand why guys are scared of kids and long term relationships, don't lump the two of them together, and lose the word "scared." Most of my adult life has been spent in one long term relationship after another. Also, I am not scared of kids. There's a difference between the emotions "scared" and "hate." The latter would be the emotion I have for children. I do not like them, and I especially do not like the recent generation of children simply because the parents SUCK ASS and let their little rodents do just about anything they want, which in turn fuels my hatred for children to higher levels.

Hope this clears things up for you. Just because you enjoy the little leeches doesn't mean everyone does.

To the OP: get one. If you know in the very core of your being you do not want kids, just take care of business now. Condoms break, birth control pills are horrible for some woman and the concept of trying to control their hormones makes me apprehensive. And the beauty is that if a chick you're with suddenly gets knocked up and tries to play the "well what are we going to do now" card, you can simply tell her: "break up, because that shit ain't mine, bitch."

[InDaButt]

I've known since I was a teenager that I never wanted kids. I cannot stand them. I cannot stand parents who won't shut the fuck up about their stupid kids, and try to strike up a conversation with random people about them and their child's latest "achievements" with such notable entries as: sitting up, walking, mumbling some barely comprehensible word. Newsflash: your fucking stupid spawn that shot out of your or your wife's/girlfriend's/whatever's cunt is not some kind of miracle. Trillions of the very same kind of shitting, pissing, whiny, needy and clingy little bastards have crawled their way across the face of the earth for tens of thousands of years. Yours is not unique, so kindly shut the fuck up about them, and stop bringing your loud little shit bombs to movies and restaurants, because I do not want to hear it screaming while I am trying to enjoy my evening, you selfish fucking pricks.

That being said, I did have a vasectomy almost a decade ago to ensure I never have to hear something like that on a daily basis. To that one chick who said she can't understand why guys are scared of kids and long term relationships, don't lump the two of them together, and lose the word "scared." Most of my adult life has been spent in one long term relationship after another. Also, I am not scared of kids. There's a difference between the emotions "scared" and "hate." The latter would be the emotion I have for children. I do not like them, and I especially do not like the recent generation of children simply because the parents SUCK ASS and let their little rodents do just about anything they want, which in turn fuels my hatred for children to higher levels.

Hope this clears things up for you. Just because you enjoy the little leeches doesn't mean everyone does.

To the OP: get one. If you know in the very core of your being you do not want kids, just take care of business now. Condoms break, birth control pills are horrible for some woman and the concept of trying to control their hormones makes me apprehensive. And the beauty is that if a chick you're with suddenly gets knocked up and tries to play the "well what are we going to do now" card, you can simply tell her: "break up, because that shit ain't mine, bitch."

I didn't want to be a dick and fry up a huge hate argument, but this is what I was initially thinking. I fucking hate babies, and young kids. They're loud, expensive, and personally, if it isn't going to be my dinner slave for the rest of my life, then I don't want it.

There, those were my true intentions behind all of this, lol.

[oxx2]

ok so ive got a 2 year old she's my whole life. the mother and i are still together but wife is VERY scared about every getting pregnant again since she didnt have the best experience with this one

she doesnt use the pill or any other kind of birth control and is incredibly worried about condoms breaking or leaking or magically making her pregnant so it's kind of hard on the sex life

ive been considering it for several months now but haven't gotten around to it. the surgery is quick and simple, about 900$ for a full cut (not the clip) u can walk in and get it done very quickly you can also opt to speak to the doc and counselor's if you like to help you make sure you are making the right choice

im not sure if im going to wait until the wife stops breastfeeding and gets on birth control where i fully expect her to still want me to wear the jimmy caps OR if im going to get the big V and be allowed to ride the beast bareback

notes: fucking cant get a hard on for 3 weeks or something stupid like that if thats the case im fucked im a walking boner, also you still need to use protection for up to 3 months after the surgery because there can still be active sperms in the peen/sack that are perfectly capable of impregnating your woman

[miokomioko]

I fucking despise children as well. The other night my girlfriend and I were just discussing how we never want to have children ever. I'm already 26 and this is not something I would even remotely consider until another 10 or 15 years go by and I feel the same way. Hell, we even had a scare where she was over a week and a half late last month... I'm not married to her yet, I have no idea what the future has in store for me. Right now I think a baby would be the biggest inconvenience for me and my partner and that I'm definitely not interested in damning another human life to this steaming shithole of a planet.

HOWEVER, I still think this is a ridiculous thing to do.

You really are not the same person 10, 15, 20 years down the road. As much as you want to say your opinions won't change whatsoever, there's a very good chance they will. Getting an often irreversable surgical procedure because you can't be bothered to put a bag over your penis whenever you might get 'lucky' is quite absurd, if you ask me... and you did ask me.

[Treciont]

basically youre such a fkn idiot for even considering this.. you really should get one just to make sure you dont reproduce. one of you is enough on this planet.

[InDaButt]

basically youre such a fkn idiot for even considering this.. you really should get one just to make sure you dont reproduce. one of you is enough on this planet.

Thank you for your insightful opinion.

Die in fire, hang yourself, etc.?

[Yuri-G]

have sex with dudes. problem solved.

I fully support this statement.

I believe Charles Darwin would agree with me when I say "go for it!"

Also this one!

[Tyche]

basically youre such a fkn idiot for even considering this.. you really should get one just to make sure you dont reproduce. one of you is enough on this planet.

Thank you for your insightful opinion.

Die in fire, hang yourself, etc.?

Almost as insightful as saying "I fucking hate babies and young kids" and "if it isn't going to be my dinner slave for the rest of my life, then I don't want it." When I go out to a restaurant with my kid (who is generally good, but as with any babies, will cry at times) I'll get a ton of compliments about my infant, and those who may not be pleased being sat by a child crying generally realize that having a kid is part of life and understand what comes with them. Doesn't mean you shouldn't be able to go out for a nice meal. If you don't like it, get the fuck up and move. Oh, well you have a right to sit there? Funny, so do I.

I do agree taking kids/children who cannot be quiet to movies is absurd.

[Stiker]

Amazing how people can be about a quarter of the way through your life and know exactly what they want...

Seriously, I'm not saying you don't have it right because I don't know you at all, but hell, you can't predict who you will be later on in life. If you get it right, kudos to you. If you get snipped and then want to have a kid 10, 20, or how ever many years from now you are going to feel like the biggest damned fool walking the planet.

So unless you got some crystal ball, I'd suggest you reconsider as there are plenty of other options to stop from having a kid. But based on the responses I've seen in this thread you are going to go ahead and do it anyways, so hopefully you don't live to regret it.