Definitely a tough decision. Personal question.

[Fhqwghads]

Almost as insightful as saying "I fucking hate babies and young kids" and "if it isn't going to be my dinner slave for the rest of my life, then I don't want it." When I go out to a restaurant with my kid (who is generally good, but as with any babies, will cry at times) I'll get a ton of compliments about my infant, and those who may not be pleased being sat by a child crying generally realize that having a kid is part of life and understand what comes with them. Doesn't mean you shouldn't be able to go out for a nice meal. If you don't like it, get the fuck up and move. Oh, well you have a right to sit there? Funny, so do I.

Then don't get pissed off when I decide to be a loud obnoxious jackass when your stupid kid won't shut the fuck up. Your little hellspawn will ruin the dining environment for everyone within earshot, which basically states that you're a fucking prick who doesn't give two shits about anybody but yourself, since you can't be bothered to think about the people who have to listen to your wailing diaper-pissing infant while they eat.

[Tyche]

You'd be no more loud/abnovious than the guy who talks too loud on his cell phone or the lady who's drank a little too much wine and is having a little too much fun. Basicall,y what you are saying is you're a fucking prick who doesn't give 2 shits about anyone but yourself, fuck those 2 new parents and their dining. They don't deserve to dine out. Babies aren't the only loud thing in a restaurant, as I said, move your happy ass across the room if you are bothered by it. Most aren't. Then again, I've been ouot several times with friends with kids, babies aren't crying 24/7 365. Most parents know how to keep their children at bay.

[TacoTaru]

Almost as insightful as saying "I fucking hate babies and young kids" and "if it isn't going to be my dinner slave for the rest of my life, then I don't want it." When I go out to a restaurant with my kid (who is generally good, but as with any babies, will cry at times) I'll get a ton of compliments about my infant, and those who may not be pleased being sat by a child crying generally realize that having a kid is part of life and understand what comes with them. Doesn't mean you shouldn't be able to go out for a nice meal. If you don't like it, get the fuck up and move. Oh, well you have a right to sit there? Funny, so do I.

Then don't get pissed off when I decide to be a loud obnoxious jackass when your stupid kid won't shut the fuck up. Your little hellspawn will ruin the dining environment for everyone within earshot, which basically states that you're a fucking prick who doesn't give two shits about anybody but yourself, since you can't be bothered to think about the people who have to listen to your wailing diaper-pissing infant while they eat.

Because kids cry just to annoy people and if and when his does, I'm sure his first thought is "Hah! I hope this is ruining the dinners for everyone who hates kids!"

Seriously, grow the fuck up.

[Mizango]

I like how a lot of people are blaming someone else's kids for not wanting any of their own. I don't know about you or your parenting styles but my daughter knows to stfu in the movies and has ALWAYS complied. I mean I would not give her back even if I could, even on her worst days. Everyone (Myself included) goes through the "I never want kids" phase or "Im never getting married" phase, it happens, just don't do something you will regret later. But if you feel that strongly about it and 100% sure then go for it. That's one less self-loathing parent out there raising and spitting out another dysfunctional member of society.

I personally think there is more to the story than "I hate babies" that would lead to this decision, Whether it be the fact you are deathly afraid of actually having someone depend on you or you cant give up your vices and enjoy failing alone. That was not an insult at all, most people find it much easier to disappoint themselves and deal with living life as a failure rather than to have other people resent you for it. I dunno, maybe your Parents were shitty parents and weren't exactly the shining examples of what to do and what not to do?

Im just throwing those out there, but to each his own. If you feel this is beneficial to you and what you want to achieve in your life then i'm all for it. Besides, no one knows what's more best for you, than you. Maybe not procreating has its benefits for all parties involved, only time will tell.

[Enkidu]

If you get upset when you're at The Olive Garden and a baby is crying then you need to grow up. If you're looking at an $80+ bill for a table of two and a baby is crying then you have a right to complain. Chances are the restaurant will ask the family to take the child outside before it becomes a problem for anyone anyways.

So yeah people who take their kids to more expensive restaurants are just idiots, but so are you if you go to a family restaurant and expect to not have young children around.

[Cochise]

Question: What is the meaning of life?

Answer: You will only know when you create one of your own.

[Tyche]

If you get upset when you're at The Olive Garden and a baby is crying then you need to grow up. If you're looking at an $80+ bill for a table of two and a baby is crying then you have a right to complain. Chances are the restaurant will ask the family to take the child outside before it becomes a problem for anyone anyways.

So yeah people who take their kids to more expensive restaurants are just idiots, but so are you if you go to a family restaurant and expect to not have young children around.

Shit, I'll drop $80 for two at the Olive Garden no problem. But yeah, if you are dining formally at a joint that requires reservation, then you have time to find a damn babysitter. I'm more or less pointing at places you go when you're out shopping a decide to go have a meal. Chain steak houses and italian joints.

[Kuya]

Fhqwghads, are you still 19 or something?

[Demosthenes11]

Almost as insightful as saying "I fucking hate babies and young kids" and "if it isn't going to be my dinner slave for the rest of my life, then I don't want it." When I go out to a restaurant with my kid (who is generally good, but as with any babies, will cry at times) I'll get a ton of compliments about my infant, and those who may not be pleased being sat by a child crying generally realize that having a kid is part of life and understand what comes with them. Doesn't mean you shouldn't be able to go out for a nice meal. If you don't like it, get the fuck up and move. Oh, well you have a right to sit there? Funny, so do I.

Then don't get pissed off when I decide to be a loud obnoxious jackass when your stupid kid won't shut the fuck up. Your little hellspawn will ruin the dining environment for everyone within earshot, which basically states that you're a fucking prick who doesn't give two shits about anybody but yourself, since you can't be bothered to think about the people who have to listen to your wailing diaper-pissing infant while they eat.

deep psychological issues here
That, or grow the fuck up like everyone else is saying

and yes, babies are miracles. Watching them grow up is also a miracle. I can't wait til I'm a daddy in 4-5 years or so ;3

[Nystul]

Kids are fucking stupid, I don't see how anyone could ever want one.

"HI GUYS I'D LOVE TO WASTE THOUSANDS UPON THOUSANDS OF DOLLARS FOR THIS LITTLE SCREAMING, POOPING LITTLE BITCH THAT IS A LITTLE FUCKTARD AS A CHILD AND WHEN IT GROWS UP IT'S GOING TO BE A DISRESPECTFUL LITTLE BASTARD AND BE COMPLETELY UNGRATEFUL AND NEVER APPRECIATE ME"

Seriously, a child is going to ruin your life and take away all of your freedom, just like a woman will. Relationships are stupid and fucking pointless too, I don't see how women can't see that the only reason guys want them is for a place to stick their dick. You're a stupid fucking jackass if you're going to "fall in love" with some bitch and cast all your friends aside and be miserable all the time, but "omg we love each other so much even though she's a controlling bitch and I hate my life now and want to kill myself because of her" but whatever, that's an argument for another time.

Get the fucking vasectomy, seriously, don't ruin your life.

Because every relationship is like that? Because all women are just controlling harpies? My fiance has no say in where I go with my free time. She objects if I'm dicking around instead of doing things that need to be done, but I do the same to her. I certainly didn't cast friends aside, and she's anything but controlling. Just because all you know are your horrible parents and the dumb, horrible, immature sluts you find on the web doesn't mean life is like that.

As for the guy who was the OP:

You are 19 now. I know it's a waste of time to ask you to think about things in ten years as you approach 30. I'm sure that it's very hard to conceptualize how much different your life will likely be and how your goals, attitudes, and aspirations may change. What I can do is this: Rather than thinking ahead 10 years, think BACK 10. When you were 9. Compare yourself then to yourself now. Still think girls are icky? Still working on that goal of becoming a spaceman? Have your goals changed? The way you look at the world?

Also, at some point in your life you may want to settle down. I know doing this now seems OMG PWN cuz joo can bang like mad chix yo without the rubbers! But...eventually you might want to have a family, you might meet someone special. And when she meets you, she's going to see a guy that basically has committed to unprotected one night stands, which is probably a turnoff. It's like getting a childish and crude tattoo. It may be funny to you and your buddy now, but it's not going to be so cute when you're toting your fiance around the water park with your tat of a chick spreading her legs with your belly button as her vagina.

Long story short, Buy some fucking rubbers, know the number of a morning after clinic in the area if need be and leave your options open. I've never seen a guy so eager to have someone go slicing away at his nutsack.


Also- it's not the baby that cries that is the problem. It's the parent that ignores it and doesn't make an attempt to be courteous by either placating the child or removing them from the situation until the calm down. If you don't want to take care of your kid for the night, hire a baby sitter. If you bring it out, I don't care what you're doing- #1 priority is to deal with your kid.

[xrexracerx]

I got a vasectomy at 19, but I was already married with 2 kids and couldn't seem to put my dick anywhere near my wife without her getting knocked up. 10 years later I haven't regretted it one bit. I got lucky though since the doctor did it as a favor to my parents.

[Obev]

Long story short, Buy some fucking rubbers, know the number of a morning after clinic in the area if need be and leave your options open. I've never seen a guy so eager to have someone go slicing away at his nutsack.

This post contains near-critical amounts of truth. In my opinion, even if you're not up for "bang[ing] like mad chix yo without the rubbers," you'll certainly regret it if at any point in your life you desire to reproduce. Why pay money for scientists to store your sperm when you can produce it yourself for another handful of decades?

Shit, condoms are cheaper than the inevitable gonorrhea treatment you'll need after all that unprotected sex. They also come in both flavoured and ribbed varieties, while your penis does not.

[Yuri-G]

Yeah, but flavored condoms are the most disgusting thing I've ever... uh... not tasted. :-"

[aurik]

knife, nanners

[Suburbanelite]

Remember the show Becker? Great show. There was a kid in one episode who was the same age you are and considering a vasectomy. Watch a video on how a vasectomy is done, then consider if you think you'll ever be in a meaningful relationship 10 or 20 years from now. Your wife is probably going to want to have children. Right now, just have your girlfriend take the pill or be extra careful and always wear a condom. Neutering yourself is fairly permanent, and it's extremely hard to reverse, if at all.

[SilverBreeze]

Yeah, but flavored condoms are the most disgusting thing I've ever... uh... not tasted. :-"

Then don't ever try edible panties. One of the worst experiences of my life ...

On-topic - If it's something that you're sure about, and the reason that you're getting it is that you're sure you don't ever want to have kids, then its your choice to do it. However, I see a lot of guys these days getting vasectomies because they don't want to use condoms when they sleep around, which is one of the worst things you can do. Condoms aren't there just to prevent pregnancy you know.

And guys, stop worrying so much if your wife wants you to get one and you guys are done having kids. It's cheaper, its safer, and all it costs you is a snip and bag of ice on your crotch for a week, and think of the rewards! Stop being so paranoid!

Also Tyche, I demand more pictures of your daughter, she's absolutely adorable :3

[wyrmtung]

If this guy is seriously thinking about voluntarily doing it at age 19 then I think we should encourage him. Too many dumbasses reproducing anyway.

[Gafgarionn]

Yeah, but flavored condoms are the most disgusting thing I've ever... uh... not tasted. :-"

Also Tyche, I demand more pictures of your daughter, she's absolutely adorable :3

OMG SHUT THE FUCK UP NOBODY CARES ABOUT GODDAMN BABIES FUCK;alkjsdf ksd jf'alefLK:KLJK:LJKLJ:S:DKLF

[Tyche]

I have a little over 1200 or so pictures of her. How fantastic would it be to just dump all of them. Oh lord, the heads would roll.

[Krye]

I have a little over 1200 or so pictures of her. How fantastic would it be to just dump all of them. Oh lord, the heads would roll.

Oh yes, your baby is soooo cute, please keep going on and on about it, we all care oh so very much.