Ok so the syndrome itself doesn't exist nominally, however the symptoms are very real; just trying to start some discussion on a growing concern of mine as I reach closer to 30 and I'm wondering some people's thoughts/experiences on this.
First, some background from the show:
Ray and Debra have their share of marital disagreements, with Debra frequently denying Ray sex, and Ray prefers watching sports television to talking to his wife. A recurring theme on the show has them having a long interaction each night while in bed, just before going to sleep, and sometimes there is a sweetness between them.Now.Originally Posted by Some line from a Judd Apatow movie
Some women are very comfortable with sex, and some it just doesn't interest them that much. Obviously as a guy it's really only a slight exagerration to say I want it all the time, but the only time sex ever becomes 'too much' is when it seems as though it's all a relationship consists of, or it is often turned to as something to do when conversation is non-existent or generally vapid.
I've been with women who want it ALL the time (one actually wanted it more than I did, never thought it was possible, but she was kinda obsessed with me) and the one directly after that basically hated it so that didn't last too long. But I can never seem to find the right medium.
Recently I've met a great girl, young (early 20s), fit, fun, sexy and what I had thought to be generally free and comfortable in the bedroom. Now she has mentioned something to the effect of "when she is in love she doesn't feel the need to have sex all the time." It's low priority for her etc. and I'm just kinda weirded out how someone could not enjoy it/want it randomly.
Sorry for the tl;dr but I'm just afraid of being Ray Romano some day, sitting beside my wife in bed who won't have sex with me. Thoughts? Experiences?