I'd try to merit towards finishing these in roughly this order, but it isn't a bad idea to go around and buy up the cheap ones first (2 gaxe, 2 bergressor, 2 da, 2 crits = 15 merits, which will get you about 2 and a half Str merits >.>)
8/8 Gaxe (yes, if you like using gaxe, this is the simplest way to go, 292 Skill with a 2her is sex)
3 Zerk/3 Agg/4 DA is a good middle ground for axes/gaxe, 5/5 Bergressor isn't bad either
4/4 Crits
5/5 Warrior's Charge
5/5 Str
Get that Rajas asap, with /Sam and a Brutal it's a 6 hit build, which is a HUGE boost to damage given how kickass Raging Rush is now (so yeah, there is a LARGE difference in the output of two War/Sam's, one with Ulth/Sniper +1, and the other with Ulth/Rajas, even giving away 3 and a quarter acc to the sniper +1, it just get's worse when you make it war/sam rajas vs war/nin gaxe without rajas) it really is one of the best effort/reward ratio's in game for a 2hed melee job, far and away.
Echoing the Gaxe comments, except that Rune is an addictive pain to keep going, unless you are /Dnc for some reason against an Aspirable mob, then it's cake
Smilo +1 is for low level mobs, or max buff zerg build (999 + 15 = ???), I am pretty sure it's also a better option for SA Steel's due to forced crits kicking pdif up as they do, Am +1/Forager's 99% of the time
At that point, start +1ing as it's reasonable for you to do so, or just store up merits and use them for other jobs if you prefer.
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