
Originally Posted by
Keria
If you're going to stop being gimp, you'll have to start wanting not to be. This means stopping complaining about how you're poor and making an effort to make money. This is probably the best advice I can offer you. You may not claim Jaded Jody against a team of RMT but you can quite easily make 400k for mahatma pants, which are better than jet seraweels, in a few days with determination. FFXIAH.com is your friend in this regard. Find out what sells frequently, find out if you can kill the mob which drops it enough to be worth your time.
Buy or camp a spider torque at the very least, and HQ dark, ice, wind, and earth staves in whatever order is easiest for you. Also a rainbow cape, a penitent's rope, and misc convert gear. Goliard is free and can usually be obtained via /shout Nyzul groups in whitegate, I see 2 or 3 JP shouts every time I'm in whitegate and since many are after askar gear, a little magey effort can get you a long way.
Other low-investment ways to make money are BCNMs- ask people in your LS which ones they have succeeded at, people like to do familiar things so if you say Under Observation or Royal Jelly people will probably jump. ISNM- only 3k IS, or a standard merit session, with decent gil rewards. ODS KS30 is also ridiculously easy with 6 people in a /shout group, rewards are meh but with 6 wins you will at least make 27k from NPCing the r/ex weapon and 4k gil from each Armoury Crate.
The biggest thing though is to stop crying about how gimp you are and how no one will help you, and start making an effort to improve, whether it be just making macros to utilize the cheap gear you have or MAKING groups to get the stuff you want. Assault is easy, Nyzul is easy, Limbus NQ runs are easy. Everyone fails the first few times they try something new, it's when you have experience that you gain confidence to do more.
Don't say the stuff people have listed is impossible to get. You work on it piece by piece and gradually go from gimp to outstanding. All it takes is effort and patience. There is no secret to tell you about becoming a good player, it's just time and hard work.