[Ramuh] Healer

[Stanislav]

http://ex-online.com/forum/viewtopic.php?f=6&t=765

There was a background check for this person before under "[Bahamut] Noob", but that only covered their previous server, not original server.

Any information about Healer from Darkhearts would be greatly appreciated.

Mainly skill and reputation.

[Mathayus]

Good luck with that piece of work.

Never on and generally unreliable from what I can remember. He's been MIA for the last year or so.

[Noob]

Left December 7'th, 2007. Was always online and at events during the hours I listed in the playtimes thread I posted in the Members Subforum(Mondays/Wednesdays/Thursdays/Fridays all day, Saturdays/Sundays/Tuesdays after 11pm EST). Did what was asked of me whenever online. Was in no way unreliable.

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[Darkhearted]

Emo deleted original Healer. Was given an account after he came to regret it. Not long after, he emo deleted that character but kept items/gil to start a new character but not tell anyone who that character was so he could start anonymously. Was kicked from DH shortly before 3rd character. Supposedly leveled secret character to 75, then went around trolling on Alla and KI that he had been accepted into DH and his trial had been passed still not releasing character info, when asked about it through forum PMs he refused to shed any light so he could remain anonymous in DH.

Huge headcase. I would also agree with Math in terms of his reliability. Probably due mostly to his psychoness.

[Plexiglas]

Nice person. Upbeat for the mostpart.

Skillwise, average, but at least has a desire to be great so you can probably mold him.

Reputation, emo & unstable. He emo'd, deleted, decided to come back, got a retired character with very good gear and access to everything, emo'd, looted that character for gil, deleted it, and started over from scratch [the next day?] on this character with those gils. [Assuming he didn't delete that one and start over]

[Yuni]

Good luck with him if you decide to take him.

HORRIBLY emo, when given suggestions or directions, he'll just state "I know what I'm doing, I'm not a noob and I play my jobs good" which many would disagree with.

HI Plexi!

[Noob]

Lies. Exactly the responses from the people I listed to Stan I would get. Take info from DH like this with a grain of salt. DH hates anybody who leaves the shell for whatever reasons, and will always follow the same customs of spreading negative lies about that person on background checks should they leave the shell, regardless of whether or not the leave was on good terms or not.

Truth is, DH is a very negative place, as anybody in DH who's honest will tell you. The people there are always looking to get one over on another member. No matter how hard a player tries, it's never good enough for DH. I always did my best and took advice when it was offered. When people got very ignorant about little mistakes, that's when I'd defend myself and bring up that it was mentioned how great of a player I was by those within the shell who weren't on too high of a high horse to not jump on the negative bandwagon everyone loves to get caught up on in DH. The only honest people in DH who weren't on a constant negative high horse were Palin and Casternuts. They were the only people who would stick up for me when people jumped on my case just because they didn't like me.

That's the last reply in this thread you're going to get from me. I'm sorry it wasn't entertaining flaming DH is so use to getting from people after trying to push their buttons with lies. Maybe the next person to leave the shell will give you the response you always desperately seek to get when posting these kind of lies on background checks. It's always the same story: "this person is emo and unreliable" with a new twist on every background check(Aliessia comes to mind). Better luck next time. I was done with DH and it's negativity when I left in December.

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[Plexiglas]

I left DH & the Ramuh server in February, it was pure coincidence that Altoc and I posted the same story within minutes of one another. 5 months removed from DH, I still think you are just an average player who is overemotional and a liability because of it. Altoc and I speak truth on this one. Buyer beware.

[Darkhearted]

Yup, Plex hasn't been in DH for awhile, and when he was it's not like we were the best of friends. This isn't you being ganged up on or anything. Maybe you should have just hung all your laundry out to dry when you applied to them and then you wouldn't have to double back and call people liars or make lists of people who were going to out you or other wastes of time.

But you're right, we're all lying. Funny how two people who have nothing to do with each other come up with the same detailed lie on their own. And yeah, DH just has it out for you, I mean all you did was delete 2 or 3 characters and reroll on a wim. Totally stable behavior.

If you make it into Excellence, since I'm sure you'll be hammering their members in tells and such to try and squelch this thread, and they give you a chance... just learn from your mistakes, and learn to take some responsibility while you're at it.

[liafail]

I came here to post my memories of Healer. I'm afraid his reply to the thread reinforced what I thought of as "Healer#2" though. Which is sad. Healer#1 was a good guy.

Healer came to DH through another member who sort of "adopted" him. He was a DH member long before he was HNM ready, or even a useful level. He was a nice guy though. Always trying to help out if he could. Couldn't really fight with us, so would help us get ToD's and odds and ends of things, and was constantly asking intelligent and relevant questions to try and make himself a better player. It's sad he didn't even mention the person who got him into DH in the first place.

Some people in DH were resentful of him being in there, and would call him noob, and tell him to get out and he doesn't belong, come back when you're 75, etc, but I thought most people treated him well enough.

I don't remember the details on him leaving, other than I think the couple of people who were relentlessly mean just got to him. I could probably refresh my memory with a little forum digging if needed, but it's really not important. He left, was gone for awhile, and came back after putting in a lot of work to make his char "DH ready". I remember being one of the people speaking for the guy when he reapplied officially to DH.

But the guy had changed. I don't know if the same people were sending him tells constantly, or what happened, but he had developed something of an attitude where he was no longer willing to learn. Yuni already said as much, and that was exactly the sort of attitude he brought back into DH.

No, DH is not long on pleasantries or patting one another on the back or hugs or whatever non-HNM ls do. We are here to do a job, and we try to get it done as quickly and efficiently as we can. That means not saying "I'm sorry to bother you, but would you mind casting silena on me whenever you can. So sorry to put you out." but probably something more along the lines of "silena" and if it doesn't get taken care of then the yelling begins since they shouldn't have had to say anything in the first place.

Bottom line, Healer#1 was a good guy, and while I wouldn't say he was a top of the line player, he was always willing to help and improve himself and could potentially be an asset.

If he hasn't calmed down though and taken a step back and reassessed himself and you have Healer#2 applying to your LS, follow the advice of other posters before me.

[Noob]

I came here to post my memories of Healer. I'm afraid his reply to the thread reinforced what I thought of as "Healer#2" though. Which is sad. Healer#1 was a good guy.

Healer came to DH through another member who sort of "adopted" him. He was a DH member long before he was HNM ready, or even a useful level. He was a nice guy though. Always trying to help out if he could. Couldn't really fight with us, so would help us get ToD's and odds and ends of things, and was constantly asking intelligent and relevant questions to try and make himself a better player. It's sad he didn't even mention the person who got him into DH in the first place.

Some people in DH were resentful of him being in there, and would call him noob, and tell him to get out and he doesn't belong, come back when you're 75, etc, but I thought most people treated him well enough.

I don't remember the details on him leaving, other than I think the couple of people who were relentlessly mean just got to him. I could probably refresh my memory with a little forum digging if needed, but it's really not important. He left, was gone for awhile, and came back after putting in a lot of work to make his char "DH ready". I remember being one of the people speaking for the guy when he reapplied officially to DH.

But the guy had changed. I don't know if the same people were sending him tells constantly, or what happened, but he had developed something of an attitude where he was no longer willing to learn. Yuni already said as much, and that was exactly the sort of attitude he brought back into DH.

No, DH is not long on pleasantries or patting one another on the back or hugs or whatever non-HNM ls do. We are here to do a job, and we try to get it done as quickly and efficiently as we can. That means not saying "I'm sorry to bother you, but would you mind casting silena on me whenever you can. So sorry to put you out." but probably something more along the lines of "silena" and if it doesn't get taken care of then the yelling begins.

Bottom line, Healer#1 was a good guy, and while I wouldn't say he was a top of the line player, he was always willing to help and improve himself and could potentially be an asset.

If he hasn't calmed down though and taken a step back and reassessed himself and you have Healer#2 applying to your LS, follow the advice of other posters before me.

I said I wouldn't reply any further in this thread but I have to after reading this. This is completely accurate. Everything said is true. Props to Hrlmknight and Portisha for helping me get into DH. They are the reason I was given a shot. I'll always respect them as well as DH's former leader Aka.

Yes, a big part of why I left is because of the /tells I was getting from people who disliked me. When I returned to the shell, I came in with a positive attitude, eager to do my best as always. I found as soon as I was pearled everyone on my case in /tells and in the LS. It was constantly, even when I was doing a good job. On me constantly as in cursing me out far worst then I saw anyone else in the shell getting hazed. It made me feel seperate from the shell. I even tried apologizing to people for making mistakes but that didn't do anything. I was polite and that didn't work. I tried so hard to please everybody but all I would get is disrespect. That's when I gave people who were on my case an attitude a few days leading up to when I left. I know it's the "DH way" to haze for a good while before any respect is shown to newer members but after awhile, I was done. I always tried my best to do the right thing but sometimes that's just not enough for some people.

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[Darkhearted]

For the record, Healer was a 55 WHM (main job) when he had a pearl.

[Noob]

Wasn't pearled until WHM hit 70 (the day Hrlm bought me full blessed) after our DH static PT in the mire (this was when Hrlm and Port were staticing their WARs with me as WHM). I showed up to my first official event at level 65 (Kirin) but wasn't pearled yet. Started scouting ToDs and showing up to heal outside of the alliance at kings at around level 50 though. I didn't have psychological problems. I just wanted to be accepted by the group. Talking with Aka on MSN is what influenced me to come back to DH the first time (he can back this up). The whole reason I came back was because him and Claud told me I wasn't as disliked being there as I thought I was.

I wasn't going to come back. I felt like I didn't fit in. It was talking with Aka and Claud that got me to do so. I like a few people in the shell but where the hate for me from you (Altoc) and Dre came from, I'll never understand. I never had a problem with you guys and tried my best to please you and everyone else in the shell but you always resented me. I had an attitude when I came back and re-leveled WHM from the constant harassing people were giving me, even when I wasn't doing a mess up. Maybe it was because I came off as unreliable by wanting to come back, which I can kind of understand, I guess.

Seemed people really did not want me there so I left. I did you guys a favor in the end. You wanted me gone, so I left. I got nothing from that shell or anyone in it other then a full set of Blessed from Hrlm (which I returned to him before I re-created Healer). I also sent everyone who I got an attitude with a /tell, apologizing for it the day before I left in December (including Dre). Don't see where everybody's hate for me comes from. All I ever did was try to be the best I could be. I just wanted to be accepted.

I see now though. Trying to reason with people who're just trying to cause drama out of anything they can is just a loss cause. Good job getting some responses out of me at least. Joining DH was a big mistake. I'll make sure I don't make the mistake of ever bringing up that I was a member of DH or a resident of Ramuh, ever again from here on out. Lesson learned. Take care.

[Darkhearted]

Don't make this into something its not about how I always hated you blah blah, as if I have some kind of vendetta. I liked you up until your second emo-delete. I helped you with CoP so you could meet requirements of the shell. In fact, I had your back originally and you would send me tells about (a select few, not the whole shell like you make it) people giving you shit. You know that trying to spin this into me having it out for you is BS. They asked for a background check, I told them about your involvement in DH. People who have been out of contact with DH for 4-6 months gave the same account. Let the LS you applied to make a decision, deal with it, and move on with life.

I feel pretty bad for this LS, as I'm sure you've been swamping them with /tells based on how you've been vehemently denying everything on here and on DH's forums. I can only imagine.

[Grieverao]

I can't even believe your thinking of pearling this guy.

Edit: What fucker deleted my post? >.>

[isladar]

I can't even believe your thinking of pearling this guy.

Edit: What fucker deleted my post? >.>

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