So I think I got the clap.

[Day]

Well lets hope the medicine for the clap isn't a gateway drug.

[sirdude]

If my wife gave me the clap I would cut all her hair off in her sleep and then burn all her clothes. Also shit on her face.

[finitek]

If you and your SO are serious. (Married 5 years makes me think maybe you are.) It is BEYOND time to get real.

"IF" you have ever had any extra-martial relations its time to get re-tested. EVEN if she denies it to the bitter end she should get tested too. I

f you are in for the long haul; and you may be. SHE MUST GET TESTED. In my line of work I come into constant contact with the WORST shit possible. I wear gloves and a mask ALL THE TIME.

The reality is, that some of the viruses out there are so persistent you cant imagine. I have been immunized against EVERYTHING possible and I still get checked out every 5-6 months.

Good luck to you.

[Linliel]

I know this may be hard for you guys to understand, but there's almost always reasons for why someone cheats other than her being a cold-hearted nympho. I'm not going to speculate on the reasons or on their relationship at all, but I think it is possible for someone to cheat on another person while still loving them. I guess I'm the only one who thinks that a divorce should absolutely be the last possible rational solution. I would almost always suggest that people talk things out rationally, either by themselves or more preferably with a trained professional, before they take that huge leap into divorce. Maybe I'm just old-fashioned.

I'm with this person -- OP, cheating just means that there's something not quite right that is being unsaid between you, like she's not getting something from you that she wants perhaps or something like that. In any case you need to work it out, maybe you can't provide what she wants, in that case, it's best to realise you'll never be fully happy with each other and move on. If she just wanted to experiment a little (it sounds like you've been together a long time) and see what else was out there, but she's happy and done with that now and happy with you, then you definitely have good positive potential there

Good communication is key

[Tricen]

http://youtube.com/watch?v=WonLbvj7Sc4&feature=related

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[Kuya]

Meth is fucked up.

[Rockstaru]

In before "This isn't normal. BUT ON METH IT IS."

[Sojourn]

shit on her face.

This.

[KuaiEQ]

shoulda saved yourself for marriage OH WAIT.....

[Metah]

shoulda saved yourself for marriage OH WAIT.....

Normally I'm all for useless jibber jabber, but this actually is completely useless and makes no sense

[sock]

So I have been talking to her for some time today. Seems it was one time, the guy asked her to come over so he had someone to talk to about his grandma dieing and thing lead to thing, we know the guy, (and he will be dealt with) he was more than likely quite forcible about it.

So far she seems to be genuinely upset about it and seems to be willing to do just about anything I ask right now.

Now I am not going to do any thing that is retaliation, as in kicking her ass or cheating on her, the thought of making her watch me do it is nice though, but I simply couldn't do that to a person.

[sock]

Normally I'm all for useless jibber jabber, but this actually is completely useless and makes no sense

Agreed, also can we ban his Sig? I just had like 9 seizures and I'm a little scared of brown people now.

[pohibaba]

Sounds like a coupon for unlimited blow jobs for life to me; keep her around.

[Moosey]

If my wife gave me the clap I would cut all her hair off in her sleep and then burn all her clothes. Also shit on her face.

Shitting on her face would be letting her get off too easy.

Why not give her a Mount Everest?

[Metah]

Sounds like a coupon for unlimited blow jobs for life to me; keep her around.

What could possibly go wrong?

[Colenzo]

fuck your mom, dump your girlfriend, buy a fleshlight, light it on fire

[Tyche]

Her story sounds like bullshit. It's always only "one time" and it's always "Not competely my fault...". Enjoy yor STD and cheating wife. I hope you two get some counseling.

[Day]

Agree with Tyche. Sounds like the steaming load of shit most of us (that have been cheated on) have heard before. They dying grandma bit sounds so played out and cliche.

Never retaliate, hang it over her head for the rest of your life. Fucking cheating bitches. Seriously, get medication and then counseling or gtfo.

[sock]

Her story sounds like bullshit. It's always only "one time" and it's always "Not competely my fault...". Enjoy yor STD and cheating wife. I hope you two get some counseling.

I never said it was the end there, I still have to see if I can stand to touch her, look at her, hear her, and more so, intimate things.
She has admitted to the one thing, nothing more yet. If there is it will probably end there.

Sadly I am a person that cant get rid of anything, I still have most of my childhood toys. 8 years seems very long to me, perhaps only because I am so young. Mostly I would be afraid to live differently than I do now, I don't know how else to live, I have NEVER lived alone. I have never been by my self for more than 3days.
So yes it seems I am a big fucking pussy and to scared to try something new, although I might be forced into it this time.

[Jefe]

But as of right now after I just talked to he fore a bit she basically admitted to it, said all but the exact phrase "I fucked someone"

She should've said she was driving a tractor in a bikini