So I think I got the clap.

[Gere]

She should've said she was driving a tractor in a bikini

And she lost her pinkie toe.

[Neosutra]

So..

Whats the story?

You getting rid of her or what?

[sock]

So..

Whats the story?

You getting rid of her or what?

lol, I don't know yet, think I will spend more than 12hrs deciding that.

[SephYuyX]

Divorce and sue the bitch. She doesnt deserve a second chance, she'll just do it again.

[Metah]

Sue her for giving you a cureable disease? Seems a bit unlikely to me.

[sock]

Sue her for giving you a cureable disease? Seems a bit unlikely to me.

Easily curable, that she didn't know she had.

[Evelyn]

So this reminded me of a song I heard where I thought the chorus shouted Chlamydia.

Turns out its Dominion by Sisters of Mercy

but listen to it, and think chlamydia instead of dominion when they say it... totally works.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qWvOHT0zfXY

[Norelco]

Just do everyone a favor and don't have kids. Mostly because, if she does end up keep cheating on you, you won't want to put your kids through a messy divorce.

[Linliel]

So I have been talking to her for some time today. Seems it was one time, the guy asked her to come over so he had someone to talk to about his grandma dieing and thing lead to thing, we know the guy, (and he will be dealt with) he was more than likely quite forcible about it.

So far she seems to be genuinely upset about it and seems to be willing to do just about anything I ask right now.

Now I am not going to do any thing that is retaliation, as in kicking her ass or cheating on her, the thought of making her watch me do it is nice though, but I simply couldn't do that to a person.

OMG she says he "was forcible about it" with her and you're wanting to kick her ass about it? What the fuck sort of jerk are you?

I swear Americans are so hung up about sex -- if you went off and screwed around you'd be fucking awesome but she is essentially raped and *she's* the slut? Fucking hell.

Take some time out, think about it from both your perspectives, don't be a dickhead!

[Moosey]

Sue her for giving you a cureable disease? Seems a bit unlikely to me.

Biological Terrorism.

[Tyche]

OMG she says he "was forcible about it" with her and you're wanting to kick her ass about it? What the fuck sort of jerk are you?

I swear Americans are so hung up about sex -- if you went off and screwed around you'd be fucking awesome but she is essentially raped and *she's* the slut? Fucking hell.

Take some time out, think about it from both your perspectives, don't be a dickhead!

You don't read the lines too well do you?

[Xajii]

OMG she says he "was forcible about it" with her and you're wanting to kick her ass about it? What the fuck sort of jerk are you?

I swear Americans are so hung up about sex -- if you went off and screwed around you'd be fucking awesome but she is essentially raped and *she's* the slut? Fucking hell.

Take some time out, think about it from both your perspectives, don't be a dickhead!

You are supporting a lying, filthy bitch.

Seriously, I don't care how "forcible" he was. If he really was forcible, she would have come home and said she was RAPED. Other than that, she fucked him. End of story.

Cheating makes me sick, this isn't about "Americans being hung up about sex", and no, if a man did the same thing he wouldn't be fucking awesome, he'd be a fucking prick. I don't know where you get your retarded stereotypes from but leave them in your head please.

[SephYuyX]

Jesus, remind me to never date a girl from Australia, chances are she'll have sex behind my back at every turn because sex is no big deal. And that was just some of the whole lot of stupid in that post.

[Linliel]

You are supporting a lying, filthy bitch.

How do you know she was lying? Getting raped is not something that is easy to drop into every day conversation "Oh hi honey how was work by the way I got raped", it's a big deal, and with things like this some girls just want to move on and never think about it again (especially if it was someone they know).

Seriously, I don't care how "forcible" he was. If he really was forcible, she would have come home and said she was RAPED. Other than that, she fucked him. End of story.

Not at all, you don't know all the situation, I'm making a point about how he was wanting to take a retributive stance after she'd said the guy had been "forcible" on her. And the retributive stance was against *her* (making her watch him, wtf sort of message does that send?). You really think it's easy to talk about being raped?

Cheating makes me sick, this isn't about "Americans being hung up about sex", and no, if a man did the same thing he wouldn't be fucking awesome, he'd be a fucking prick. I don't know where you get your retarded stereotypes from but leave them in your head please.

She isn't cheating, it was SEX. And forcible sex at that. If she was cheating, she'd be out every second night passing off lame excuses and blah blah. I'm glad you agree with me about the double standard, I've just heard so many (mostly American, so that's where I get the stereotypes from, sorry but they're based on something!) guys running around saying "blah blah i screwed 3 girls last weekend my gf never knew" and friends cheering him on but as soon as his gf goes out and gets some of her own it's "omg she's fucking cheating on me blah blah". Anyway I'm not saying that's what's happening in this case. I'm saying that sex with someone else is NOT equivalent to cheating. ESPECIALLY if the guy forced her!

[Linliel]

Jesus, remind me to never date a girl from Australia, chances are she'll have sex behind my back at every turn because sex is no big deal. And that was just some of the whole lot of stupid in that post.

Yeah, way to take my post completely out of proportion -- I'm talking about rape on one hand, wtf? Slippery slope > you.

I'm just annoyed at the shoot first ask questions later approach this guy's having. Relationships are about communication, not about loading on guilt. I recommend you read a great book called "Lust in Translation" ( http://www.amazon.com/Lust-Translati...7208297&sr=8-1 ) which looks at infidelity through different cultures. If she was having problems discussing the fact that she was raped then there are more problems in this relationship than the clap.

[Seraph]

Yeah, way to take my post completely out of proportion -- I'm talking about rape on one hand, wtf? Slippery slope > you.

I'm just annoyed at the shoot first ask questions later approach this guy's having. Relationships are about communication, not about loading on guilt. I recommend you read a great book called "Lust in Translation" ( http://www.amazon.com/Lust-Translati...7208297&sr=8-1 ) which looks at infidelity through different cultures. If she was having problems discussing the fact that she was raped then there are more problems in this relationship than the clap.

The only part you are correct about is relationships are about communication. You can bet damn well if a rape type situation happened I wouldn't be mad at the girl, I would be mad at the friend. The lack of her telling him first, and him finding out after his dick starts falling apart makes her at fault too. It's a difficult situation (assuming her story is true) that she was put in, but it's hard for the guy too. You are too quick to defend her position, and then too harsh on every guy that is upset she didn't immediately say something.

If she really loved and trusted him, she would have said something. That, at the very least, she is at fault for. The situation at hand makes it sound like a 'He was raping me.....at first...' story straight out of Life of Brian.

[Koyuki]

OMG she says he "was forcible about it" with her and you're wanting to kick her ass about it? What the fuck sort of jerk are you?

I swear Americans are so hung up about sex -- if you went off and screwed around you'd be fucking awesome but she is essentially raped and *she's* the slut? Fucking hell.

Take some time out, think about it from both your perspectives, don't be a dickhead!

You do know forcible =/= rape all the time right?

[Kuya]

Don't worry, SephirothYuyX can't possibly know anything about relationships because he uses all his friends as monster bait.

[SephYuyX]

She isn't cheating, it was SEX. And forcible sex at that. If she was cheating, she'd be out every second night passing off lame excuses and blah blah. I'm glad you agree with me about the double standard, I've just heard so many (mostly American, so that's where I get the stereotypes from, sorry but they're based on something!) guys running around saying "blah blah i screwed 3 girls last weekend my gf never knew" and friends cheering him on but as soon as his gf goes out and gets some of her own it's "omg she's fucking cheating on me blah blah". Anyway I'm not saying that's what's happening in this case. I'm saying that sex with someone else is NOT equivalent to cheating. ESPECIALLY if the guy forced her!

Wtf is wrong with your thinking? Having sex with another person isnt cheating as long as it's only once? wtf? And the double standard thing is a sterotype you see on TV only. Im sorry that you think guys get away with it, but they dont. I know you always hear about it, and it's inforced, but any decent human, girl or guy knows it's wrong, and know's they probably wont get away with it. When you brag about it, chances are youre in HS, not late 20s and married trying to be a responsible adult. You know if it happens once, it will happen again. A guy who cheats is looked down upon as much as a girl who does it.

[Elvis]

And I have been married for 5years

Now I didn't fuck anyone, so only 1 other place it could come from
Confronted the wife, she denies everything, but I think its all BS
Theirs only 1 way to get it so I know what happened

So BG you offer medical, legal, financial, and first apartment advice

How about some marital?

My problem is, I am in school, 2nd year and fairly determined to see it through, but I cant live n my own, since I make about 900$/month working full time as a Taco Slinger and have no drivers license due to some legal shit from when I was like 15

Ok BG what do you say? Dump her and rough it, dump her and force her to finish paying most of the bills until my school is done, just forget it happened finish school and dump her, or try to work through it?

Wow, this sounds like the PERFECT plot for a new sitcom.

Let's call it, Clap and the City.

Cue generic rock/ska music.

Jimmy had it all.

Straight As, a high paying job and a hot wife.

Until..

*record scratches and stops*

He got the clap.

*music resumes*

Now he's about to find out.

That living with Gonorrhea...

...might make him say, "Gone, Senorita!"




No offense btw.

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