Some of us, maybe, are also actually sick of being at the beck and call of five other assholes that think the only way to play the game is their way and become so hyper-critical (No, not a typo) the moment you suggest something isn't quite going right (Be it camp, party layout, who's pulling, how SATA's being set up, whatever). Now, before you try to spin that into me being the only asshole, I don't care if people prefer the party mechanic. I just want a fucking choice in the matter, and the default, "Go play WoW, FFXI isn't for you!" reply isn't one worth me spitting at. It's classic SE ignoring a problem that HAS had people quitting. Which, unsurprisingly, narrows the party pool further.