I had a similar experience the other day. Spec single, enemy was a marid. My macro goes off, /p Ranged Attack Marid, and the SAM and MNK decide to pull Hellion(big unsleepable Jnun NM), so meanwhile for 5m I'm yelling "KILL THE FUCKING MARID". Then finally we get to Fafnir, we are short on time because of the fuck up on Spec Single. The SAM and MNK 2hr, I use Wild Card and give 2 hours back. The monk goes again and gets terrored, meanwhile the sam is completely ignoring me.
The party chat basically looked like:
Me: 2hr again
Me: Meikyo Shisui
Me: 2 HOUR AGAIN I RESET IT
Other people: HE RESET YOUR 2 HOUR
Me: <call>
Me: <call>
Me: <call>
Me: <call>
SAM: I 2houred already.
Me: I RESET YOUR 2 HOUR
Me: GO NOW
Me: JUST FUCKING USE IT ALREADY
<Faf dies with a minute to spare>
Me: Holy shit were you afk the whole fucking time
Luckily last nights feet run was beyond easy and made up for that horrible run.
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