I think as PLD Cure IV should be used sparingly, specially when you're elvaan like me. You can keep hate just fine if you keep casting Cure III on yourself and other people in the Alliance, mainly your mages (No one cares about the DD!)
Also, not sure if anyone suggested it but you should try to get a Ritter gorget. It's very nice gives HP and Enmity and no VIT- like Harmonia's and since you get point for even losing in Einherjar you should be able to get one fairly quickly now, lol. There's no shame in full-timing Loq. earring either, specially if you're /NIN since you're going to be casting so much and need as much fast cast as you can get. Ditch the Suppa and try to get a Hades +1 or the Hades for enmity and the can wear Ethereal if you don't have other options but I don't really see the point in using Ethereal as /NIN, lol. I'd also try to get a Bloodbead ring if you can, its a good alternative of a ring when you're tanking wyrms, don't want to take a breath for a lot of damage lol, if you don't have that I'd get a mermaid ring for enmity+ if you don't have other options.
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