I'd always go for tiara over using less skill on BLM - if something's chewing my face off, I'm taking no freaking chances on a sleep resist. Then again - the RDM in me results in an obsessional love of big blue enfeebling numbers. Like someone said - it's kinda satisfying when other BLMs are getting resisted sleeps and yours lands like a charm and you emerge face unchewed.
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