I had excellent grammar and punctuation in FFXI until I started leading a linkshell. Leaders often have to type so much during events that yes, typing those two extra letters is a chore. Granted, this is only during events... during socializing I like to do it right ^^;
The thing that annoys me the most is people who never learned the difference between "there" "their" and "they're". During an event a while back, a member asked another member where their white mage was going, to which he replied "There going over their to get they're buffs." My head nearly exploded -_-
Anyway, before this thread devolves into more grammar discussions...
My best tip to you would probably be:
-Do well, and make sure other people know you do well. Most of my recruiting is done through merit parties... I start a party with some fellow members, invite some people who look interesting, then talk to your friends while meriting about your linkshell's events. Word of mouth works very well. Be careful not to brag, though. You don't want to come off as 'elitist'. If the people you're partying with seem to know what they're doing, tell them you're recruiting. If they suck, tell them you're full or that you don't need any more <insert job here>. Either way, you can bet that person will tell a few of his friends.
Also, keep a good linkshell achievement, or something relating to your linkshell's events in your bazaar comment. I can't count the number of people who've asked to join my salvage group in the last month, since I put "Koneko LS Salvage: 47 Upgraded Pieces / 8 members = 5.875 pieces per member" into my bazaar comment. Sure it's a little pretentious, but it generates interest, which generates publicity, which generates more interest.
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