In bird merits, just go RNG/WAR /w Kraken, the bird doesn't last long enough to kill you if you have a decent gun like Hellfire +1.
You really should try to aim for 8/8 club merits, because not only RNG /w Kclub could miss quite a bit, 0 dmg hits yields no TP as well.
As for K-club melee build, i really don't think sacrificing Haste is a good idea... The only haste gear i'd recommend is Byakko's Haidate. For K-club TPing i'd suggest something like
Optical Hat, Peacock Charm, Accuracy Earring, Hallow Earring, Skadi Body, Dusk Glove +1, Acc Rings, Life Belt/Swift Belt, Amemet Mantle, Byakko Pants/Skadi Pants, Skadi Feet.
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